If you think you are in a group, you are wasting your youth.

There was once a dormitory with eight people in it. When the eight people in the dormitory gather together, the room chief will always organize a game, that is, divide the eight people into two groups, each group of three people, organize everyone to play cards, and the other two people turn on the computer, when Dota is started, you can take out your cell phone and constantly brush the webpage, or lie in bed and hold PSP waiting for their rotation.
Then one night later.
Then, a year passes.
Then, four years have passed.

One or two of the eight members can be mixed, but they can also be mixed. Mixed, four years in college, how fake it is: Because he organizes others to fall, he is firm forward, the table is different, how uncomfortable it is to live. However, poor mixing never knows where the problem is. He doesn't know. He just follows suit, but he doesn't know what went wrong.

In recent classes, I have repeatedly stressed that for my students, during college, you cannot choose your roommate, but you can choose your friends.
Recently, I began to find that the dormitory is the beginning of degradation, and the combination of groups is the starting point of elimination. In the dictionary of many people:
Four people, three people without stopping downloading, and the fourth person without reading, is the hacker group.
Four people, three people playing games, and four people not playing games, are groups of consumers.
Four people, three people engaged in gay, and the fourth person did not engage in it, that is, grouping.
People are afraid of loneliness, so most people choose to join the group.
However, if you think you are in a group, you are wasting your youth;
You think you have made friends. When you graduate, who else will treat you as a friend;
You think that you are not alone in college for four years. When you graduate from college without a job, you will be more lonely without a wife.
Some people say that it is painful to be alone. Who said that it will not be painful to achieve your goals?
 

During my short college period, I witnessed too many coincidences for group and cooperation. I remember that some people in my freshman year told me to play games and I also played games, but what I left behind is just as empty as they did.
I remember my sophomore year, when they kept downloading new games with their cell phones, I was holding a word book and memorizing words in the corner.
I remember when I was a junior, I was attacked by seven people in my dormitory. Some people say that I am arrogant and speak ill about me everywhere, but I understand that it is different, not that I am wrong. In the end, I only have to apply for a dormitory change. But now I understand that, a few years later, when some people are exposed in the scorching sun, I write articles in the air-conditioned room.

Most importantly, I have forgotten the names of the people in my community. I know that some of them may miss me and expect me to die early, but I just want to say that they miss me, indicating that they cannot be without me in their lives; and I forgot their names, which means they are not in my life.
Today, I have met many people, some of whom are famous directors, some of whom are well-known actors, some who are entrepreneurial entrepreneurs, and some who are tycoons of banks and political circles, some of them are beautiful women who didn't even look at me at the beginning. The most important thing is that I made a bunch of good friends. At this moment, I am grateful. I didn't have a group. Now, I have come to my own group to do what I should do.
If I joined the group, who will be next to me and what will happen.

I have always believed that heroes will always be lonely, and they will only get together. The 20% law is always applicable to every corner of the earth: 80% of people, accounting for 80% of assets; 20% of people, serving.
Especially boys, who have been in a group for four years in college, have been in the dormitory, and have never opened their horizons, fixed themselves, and at the bottom of the slot. All these will always be returned to themselves at some point in the future.
Girls, however, need to cultivate an independent personality in college. Relying on a man will never be as steadfast as relying on one hand.
However, I would like to say that the groups I am talking about here are not enemies, not unruly. Here, I am not doing enough in college. I will review it. At least, do not offend people, because the Tao is different, do not seek. However, it does not mean that you do not even speak, or say evil. You support his life model, but you need to have your own ideas.

This world is very evil. You will never believe that the person who was the most asshole would be the most promising political man in ten years. You will not believe that the most ambitious people of the Year, became a millionaire.
In any case, those who are somewhat successful will join the crowd. Even if they are together on the surface, they will always have their own world. They like to think quietly and keep moving towards it.