In China, parents and children cannot be friends.

Comment posted: 2015-04-03 19:47:18

Maybe I'm still a kid, and I'm not qualified to talk about the relationship between adults and children, but it's something that I've seen in my life that has inspired me, so I have to write it down and someday I'll have a baby and look back at what I think. I'm absolutely right. believe that people at different times to see a thing is a different feeling and point of view, take a movie, when we look at the time is entertainment, but when we grow up to see those who once we have seen some scenes we do not feel funny, and even cry, This is because we have experienced a lot of things in different stages of our growth, and when we face something again, we have a personal feeling. Now it's time to say how I feel about my relationship with my parents and children.

I think we must often hear the words "parents want to be friends with their children", and I am very opposed to this point of view. First of all, I think from the ethical point of view this is wrong, the relationship between friends can be lifted, that is, our two friends that day not to come, then we can walk each, and from now on we both leave the relationship. However, it is clear that the relationship between parents and children is not possible at all, the child's blood flow of parents, who you are the parents and who you are the children of the life can not escape, because you always have a relationship between the indelible. From here, parents and children cannot be friends because you have an inseparable relationship. Second, from the point of view of responsibility, parents have a parenting responsibility for their children, and parents have to raise their children to be adults and educate them. Then the children grow up to the old parents also have the responsibility of filial piety. I believe that friends have no responsibility for parenting and filial piety. Sometimes you can think of the other way around, if you are friends with your child, the child has a father or a mother, and the more pathetic is that you are just a friend of the child, you have no parents to do. So I feel that parents should be parents, parents should take up their responsibility to educate the children, the education should be educated, must not be like friends between the same can be laugh.

So in my opinion, you can say that the relationship between you and the child is like a friend, but the parents can't be friends with the child. Because your child is flowing with your blood, and you are responsible for the upbringing of the child.

How do you have any good ideas to share together, thank you all!

In China, parents and children cannot be friends.