Inferiority, success, growth, and happiness.

After reading Zhou's elder sister's "(transfer) Success is a word that a living person cannot say-excerpt from interview with Yu Minhong, president of New Oriental", I want to say: the First Half of President Yu is a bit arrogant. (After writing, I found that I am more arrogant, haha)

Abstract:

When I went to college and walked into the dormitory, Yu Minhong was a mean-and-nothing person. "I found myself used to evict myself. For example, my capacity is 10, and I often drop myself down to 5 ." However, he believes that this section of Self-intimidation is good. "Inferiority makes people very sensitive, and then they know how to look at others. Once this kind of sensitivity returns to self-confidence, it will form a better ability to communicate with people, and it will be easier to think about others' feelings to do things ." Therefore, this kind of inferiority was completely reversed by Yu Minhong. Later, in an interview with reporters, he said, "In the face of others' ridicule, he stepped on to the lowest level. If you say that I am an animal, I think I am inferior to an animal. You can't take it ." Some people can get out of their inferiority and turn to strong self-confidence, but some people have struggled for the rest of their lives. Yu Minhong believes that this is why he can always turn from passive to active.

Black and white are really reversed. For some reason, inferiority is inferiority. In general, it is definitely a disadvantage over profit. Are you willing to be an inferior or confident person? Are you willing to keep cracking down on your child and let him feel inferior first, and then hope that he will turn into a strong self-confidence? In fact, I understand what Yu wants to express, but he uses the wrong words. It is not self-evaluation, not inferiority, but self-comparison. Think of yourself as the biggest enemy, fight with yourself, and constantly surpass yourself. The real inferiority is terrible.

Before college, I was an extremely inferior person. I learned from elementary school to college and had the worst overall score. 90% of my time was the top three in the class. I was thin and ugly, and my family was poor, teachers and families are poor. The only thing I can be proud of is two times: I am proud on the football field, I often get the top 10 in my class, and sometimes I can enter the top three. In addition, I have no capital to raise. My college scores have not changed. I had to retake 10 more exams in the last six months and almost did not graduate. Then I read the assignment twice, and the two were abandoned halfway. I finally decided that I was not a school talent. The classroom was a warm bed for me, and I had to go to bed ten minutes later. I have no regrets, and I have benefited a lot from my college, because during this period I have transformed my previous extreme inferiority to extreme self-confidence with no reason, after work, I evolved into extreme self-confidence for no reason. In recent years, my self-confidence has declined somewhat, but it is not that harsh. To put it bluntly, I would rather be conceited than inferiority, because it is much easier from self-confidence to self-confidence than from self-esteem to self-confidence, and the self-confidence formed by self-confidence is also more tough. inferiority is really terrible.

Speaking of this, I think of two funny things. At the end of 02, it wasn't long before I first arrived at Sichuan fireworks to chat with my department manager. He said, "You, your temper is too straight, this is not good. I was surprised when I heard it, because I had been working for three years and had many experiences: "No !!! I think I have been a lot more docile. Why are there any corners ??" He said: "Yes, it's just angular, and very clear ." In the past four years, I talked to a company employee who has been working for two years. One day, he hated me and said, "I hate more people than I do !!!" I fainted ...... After seven years, some people have said this to me: "I am still crazy? No, I will be thirty next year. I am still crazy! At best, I am a little sheep now. I want to talk crazy about it ......" Alas, it's gone, and now I'm going to officially get out of the crazy young age ...... The young and frivolous years are so beautiful that people will be in love, but I still have no regrets. I am crazy enough for crazy years. In the last year, I will be crazy enough and crazy!

Khan ...... I ran the question and said it was successful.

I like Yu Zong's sentence:As long as you want to do things, adversity is your norm; if you don't want to do things, failure is your norm.

What is success? Success in the current population is basically fame and fortune, isn't it? Can an unsung person be named as a successful person? Yes, it's the word "quilt". Who have you heard of? I am a successful person. Then you see him with shame. I have always heard that he is a successful person. I'm not wrong, so the so-called success is what others say, the problem is that I am successful or not TMD is off your ass! If you say I'm successful or not, TMD is off my ass! That's whyNo success, only growth.Failure is not the opposite of success, but growth. Back to the above sentence: If you want to do things, adversity is the norm. If you don't want to do things, failure is the norm. Failure is a result of adversity, and self-transcendence, growth, and success. Oh no, I will say again:Failed. If there is a success, you say it is successful, it is your eyes red.

Is fame and fortune very important? Fame, fame, and fortune are important or important? This is an issue with eggs. I want to know that there is no problem with eggs. I have a wide range of hobbies, such as eating chicken, eggs, porridge, and kimchi, in short, freedom.

I am a person who focuses more on processes than on results, and sometimes even looks down on the results. In my eyes, the process is far more important than the results, and the results also come from the process. I often say to those who say, "I only want to see the results but not the process." Why do you want to die? A good stage result is indeed the final touch, but do you have a dragon? Have you finished painting the dragon? Why is there no dragon? The people who are pursuing the results always ignore the establishment of the dragon body, and draw one gecko after another in a hurry. They hope that the spirit of a certain day will flash, and the Bodhisattva will bless and capture the dragon's eyes, gecko hualong. However, even if the gecko with Longan is still a gecko, it can only climb on the wall and has to be broken by people. I like to draw dragons. I like to start from 0. I don't miss every scale, because every scale is my masterpiece and a source of happiness. Every scale won't be repeated, that is my growth and accumulation. When I see this, I feel very happy. It doesn't matter if I wait for the appearance of longan. It will always soar in my heart, no loss, I always live happily. Yes, I don't want the accumulation of pain, I want the accumulation of happiness, easy accumulation, I don't want to frown thinking about where the name is, where the profit is, I want to draw every scale and fight with myself.

the joy of growth is my greatest joy. A happy life is my life's pursuit. I think I have no shortage of anything. The only big gap is my family.