It was good to hold back (to resist temptation, not to make decisions in extreme moods, to look forward)

How can you harness the negative energy of your heart at a critical moment? My answer is: forbearance-that is, the Chinese old saying: Little can not bear the chaos of conspiracy.

Summary 1: Do not put yourself in the state of failure conditions (a little careless, it may be out of control). The Red 1 and 3 regiments headed north alone to prevent such a situation.
Summary 2: Deferred gratification

Summary 3: Not really, you can also use temporary solutions, such as the f-u-c-k mantra to fork, and then slowly and completely change the mantra.

Summary 4: Endure the herbivorous and bitter, but will eventually bear sweet and soft fruit.

Memo 1: Keep your mind clear when life is a choice
Don't make a choice when you're angry, angry, frightened, wounded, or in poverty.
When you are rejected, betrayed, emotionally frustrated, and hopeless, you need to calm down and relax until you are able to regain your sanity when you browse the memo at the critical moment.
Otherwise, the consequences will be unpredictable.

Memo 2: Bear in mind the foolish decisions made in the past and learn from them
The consequences of a renewed, even previous, and counterproductive wrong choice--a vicious circle!
So the following pattern should be taken: review--reflection--positive change

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You can also positively motivate yourself:

In fact this year (2016) I thought of this one, the truth is absolutely the same: grandma hard to raise me so much, she must not be willing to see me in the Kingdom of torture, or despair.

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Summarize what I have to endure:

1. Drink the drink must endure

2. Don't make a fuss, not only useless, but also become my evidence. Think about what you owe her.

3. Your long-term goal is to open a company, make a lot of money, do not do anything against it

It was good to hold back (to resist temptation, not to make decisions in extreme moods, to look forward)