Just a few years after graduation, don't worry too much about gains and losses

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Http://blog.csdn.net/eroswang/article/details/8285415 saw another article forwarded by friends in the circle of friends, "a few nonsense about work and overtime". Q & A is really interesting. The excerpt is as follows:

Readers are troubled:

1. It was not long before I joined the job. I worked overtime almost every day in my first job in a startup company;

2. My girlfriend broke up and said she should not be ignored for work;

3. I feel that the company is not good to employees, the treatment is not high, and there are not many options, but the manager is nice to him and has given him many things to do.
 

Feng dahui's answer is:

This classmate, let's call you a classmate. I guess you are not the legend of Gao fushuai (Gao fushuai is throwing others, where is the turn of girls throwing at him ), you have not joined a startup company to study abroad or take an exam as a civil servant. The vast majority of young people are similar (I am also ). You are not much different from others. Working overtime in a startup company is not a big problem for yourself. After all, this is a very good time for you. The so-called overtime is nothing more than waiting for a few more hours in front of the computer. Have you ever had to fight games during college? At that time, no one felt hard. When a startup company works overtime, it's not a flood of animals, so it won't make you feel like a couple of hours of bags?

As for your girlfriend, you should tell her clearly that in order for your future life to pass, your current efforts and efforts must be done, and the sky will not fall, your future elders may not be able to deliver you a house, right? The so-called hard work, time, physical strength, brains, accompany your girlfriend all day, of course, the day will be very happy, but this can not be long, and, you will find that once you step into the social work, you will soon be behind others. Some people use more thoughts and time than you do, and they will naturally have more opportunities. At that time, you may only complain about unfair and unequal society. At that time, there won't be too many opportunities to wait for you. If it doesn't work well, your girlfriend will also find someone who can spend more time with her. That's right, it's cruel, but this fucking society is so cruel, you should recognize it. If you are thinking about the future, what you need is mutual support, rather than mutual dependency or even dragging your feet.

Can a startup company make employees economically independent? Yes, of course, but the chances are uncertain. You know that. What dummies don't know is that the experience you 've learned in this company, the ability to analyze problems, the way you work, may bring you amazing returns in the future, but these short-term cannot be converted into money. So there is something to do and someone will do it for you. This premise is quite good. You need to do everything well with your heart. Have you done everything well? Don't think about the loss of your company or the cost of your company. Once you have this idea, you may never be able to mobilize your initiative. What is the cause. If you are dealing with things from now on, I think you will be playing around in ten years.

Readers are troubled:

1. It was not long before I joined the job. I worked overtime almost every day in my first job in a startup company;

2. My girlfriend broke up and said she should not be ignored for work;

3. I feel that the company is not good to employees, the treatment is not high, and there are not many options, but the manager is nice to him and has given him many things to do.
 

Feng dahui's answer is:

This classmate, let's call you a classmate. I guess you are not the legend of Gao fushuai (Gao fushuai is throwing others, where is the turn of girls throwing at him ), you have not joined a startup company to study abroad or take an exam as a civil servant. The vast majority of young people are similar (I am also ). You are not much different from others. Working overtime in a startup company is not a big problem for yourself. After all, this is a very good time for you. The so-called overtime is nothing more than waiting for a few more hours in front of the computer. Have you ever had to fight games during college? At that time, no one felt hard. When a startup company works overtime, it's not a flood of animals, so it won't make you feel like a couple of hours of bags?

As for your girlfriend, you should tell her clearly that in order for your future life to pass, your current efforts and efforts must be done, and the sky will not fall, your future elders may not be able to deliver you a house, right? The so-called hard work, time, physical strength, brains, accompany your girlfriend all day, of course, the day will be very happy, but this can not be long, and, you will find that once you step into the social work, you will soon be behind others. Some people use more thoughts and time than you do, and they will naturally have more opportunities. At that time, you may only complain about unfair and unequal society. At that time, there won't be too many opportunities to wait for you. If it doesn't work well, your girlfriend will also find someone who can spend more time with her. That's right, it's cruel, but this fucking society is so cruel, you should recognize it. If you are thinking about the future, what you need is mutual support, rather than mutual dependency or even dragging your feet.

Can a startup company make employees economically independent? Yes, of course, but the chances are uncertain. You know that. What dummies don't know is that the experience you 've learned in this company, the ability to analyze problems, the way you work, may bring you amazing returns in the future, but these short-term cannot be converted into money. So there is something to do and someone will do it for you. This premise is quite good. You need to do everything well with your heart. Have you done everything well? Don't think about the loss of your company or the cost of your company. Once you have this idea, you may never be able to mobilize your initiative. What is the cause. If you are dealing with things from now on, I think you will be playing around in ten years.