Many people will focus on improving the problem, but few people will be able to hone their own choices: the ability to make decisions.
Again a strong ability to solve, choose the wrong, are not help, at most, early death. What's more, what's more: the wrong direction, the harder it is, the more horrible it is.
Do not choose is also one of the choice, wait for death? Do not struggle?
Deliberately improve their ability to choose, is to solve the problem of the premise, that is to choose the right, all efforts are worthwhile, to avoid the tragedy of no work.
The weak choice is due to the lack of proper and effective values .
Simply put, values are what you know, what's better and what's best.
Good and bad good points, there are good and bad difficult points, so need to exercise a distinction between better and the best ability.
To practice more in peacetime, in the key time to come up with a specific criteria to help you get the best possible conclusion. And this criterion is your value.
Values determine destiny. Many people can not decide their own fate, because their own ideas "sweeping", "self-righteous" so as to do not solve the problem, so you have to overcome their cognitive biases, objective and impartial treatment of feedback, the results of feedback and their own expectations of different, Also brave to deny their original conclusion: also need to clearly distinguish their own ideas do not represent personal qualities, denying their own wrong ideas does not mean to deny themselves. This is an important quality to overcome the sweeping.
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Conclusion: The choice decides the destiny, the decision chooses is the value, therefore, truly decides a person's destiny is a person's value. In the formation of values, the most unavoidable traps are only one: sweeping.
Learning Notes is what determines our destiny.