Leo personal MSN concise User Manual

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In today's situations where the pace of life is accelerating and work is under great pressure, everyone is very busy and rarely meets each other. As a result, many people use the instant messaging tool (MI), which brings us a lot of convenience: you can communicate with friends online without having to meet or talk about business.

Convenience also brings us trouble. Xdjm, who loves to make friends, has to register a new one after the contacts in MSN or QQ are full ......

 

MSN and QQ are the real world and the workplace around them.

I have written my MSN user manual (Principles) for your reference.

 

Retention Principle

 

Friends and family

Family members and friends should be "heartless" and kept in real-time contacts, so that we can learn about their situation and share their happiness in a timely manner (pain is not necessary) we can also talk about our puzzles in our life and work, and ask for their pertinent suggestions and selfless help. At the same time, when they need advice, help, and encouragement, they extend their hand of assistance without reservation, which is part of us.

The existence of these people makes us feel the warmth of our center. We have the opportunity to further clarify the meaning and value of our life by connecting with these people. In a sense, their existence makes us feel like we are not white.

 

Working relationship-colleagues and business partners

Working relationships determine who we are in the workplace and what position and value we have. At the same time, business partners constitute almost the vast majority of our company.

This kind of relationship in the workplace is called "have to". Colleagues and business partners who often deal with each other, whether they like it or not, are kept in real-time contacts. The reason is, these contacts do not have to be contacted from time to time. Unlike friends, many colleagues and business partners do not choose one or more.

Of course, with my personal character, some of my colleagues who cannot talk about me leave the company, and some business partners no longer cooperate, that is, when they are removed from my perspective, this may make everyone happier.

 

Others

In addition to work relationships and family and friends, we will also know many people who will also have the opportunity to become instant contacts. After all, social relationships are complex.

For me, these people are retained for one thing, and we can help each other grow up. Communicating with these people can help me gain something, of course, I also have the opportunity to share my wisdom and experience and make progress together with them.

 

Retain the principle of contact: the existence of the contact is beneficial to both parties, and both parties can improve and grow.

 

Delete criteria

 

I do not know the identity of the other party

In the past, for one reason or another, people who have never communicated with each other may not have said a word after the addition. In this case, they should be deleted quickly. In addition, if the other party is "offline" for a long time, we may have been deleted for a long time, and there is no need to keep the other Party's quota for instant contact.

 

Not beneficial to both parties

In this case, I did not speak for more than a year. I found out the person who was not responsible for the identity of the other party in the previous conversation records. I have left a colleague who is not very fond of it, we have long been a business partner who has no cooperation and is eager to inquire about news from us. We have reason to believe that the two sides are neither in the circle of friends nor in the working relationship, and keep them less valuable to both sides, it should be deleted as soon as possible. This kind of person won't, and will not, provide us with guidance and help. Of course, many times we won't be able to help each other. This kind of person is like two strangers who encounter in the street and do not occupy our resources in the street. But in MSN or QQ, two strangers occupy the resources they should not have occupied, it is better to delete it early.

 

Others

People like scammers and idle people don't have to talk about it. They will soon take them out of MSN or QQ. Example:

For example, a guy named "I am selling the resume library of an international headhunting company" in MSN once added me. I usually add it first. Asked "who ?" The other party said: "I am selling the resume library of the International headhunting company ." I did not say the second sentence, so I completely deleted this person from MSN. My professional ethics will never appear in my MSN. Byebye is yours.

Example 2: When someone adds it, I ask, "What should I do ?", If the other party says, "It's okay, you just want to talk ." Generally, such people do not have the chance to say the third sentence. Dude, you're fine. I have something to do. MSN is not used to chat with strangers.

 

The principle of deleting contacts: fate has been exhausted and should be forgotten; life is too short and Shaohua is easy to die, so don't waste everyone's time.

 

In the end, MSN and QQ are actually a matter of rivers and lakes. Whether it is retained or not depends on whether it is discussed or not, and whether the progress of both parties is really beneficial. Dear friend,Everyone's life is limited. Only by shaking the dust and keeping hope can they continue to work hard.

 

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