The following views are personal, and if you have a different point of view, you are welcome to discuss----by no cloud
the role of "prenatal education" is not a form of pregnancy.
child born, before kindergarten: " Experts combine their years of work actually think, as long as the child has a simple life self-care ability, and can say their own wishes, can go to kindergarten. Simple self-care means that the child will take off his trousers and take off his shoes. Say what you want, that is, children can express their need to go to the bathroom. "(from the Internet) it is recommended that children be cared for by their parents, especially when they are self-conscious, able to express some of their needs and learn something." Some parents think they want to make money, very busy what, the author can understand, everyone is not easy, this article is the best scene of the author's ideal. We usually have feelings, the generation gap between the elders and we are still there, the children's parents with children to minimize the generation gap, so that children more early contact with the new things today.
Kindergarten Period: Kindergarten specific teaching content, the author does not know, for the time being. Kindergartens must choose a safe and reliable kindergarten
Primary School: Here is an important choice, before reading what kind of primary school, in fact, earlier may be the economic conditions, the working environment and so on. However, different primary schools, the content of the teaching varies greatly. The author of the primary school, every day is not math is a language, a few weeks of sports music and so on. Different schools, the parents of different students, bring different people and behaviors to children and affect their children's behavior. During primary school, individuals feel that they should try to take the children out to play, see the world, let children more contact with some things, find children's interests and hobbies. For example: painting, singing, dancing, playing musical instruments and so on. also can let the child in the classmate between more self-confidence, and the classmate has the discussion topic and so on. If the child shows interest, let the child learn further, if the child is really interested in this aspect, you can consider the development. Of course, the culture lesson is also very important, but, can not die to stare at one, a mighty army over the plank bridge, if the child to the culture lesson and not too high talent, other bridges can not be a try? Do not wait until the end, culture class than others, looking back to develop interests and hobbies than others later.
Junior High School: Some areas, read what junior high school, to see small rise in the first exam results, some are directly to the designated junior high school. Personally, junior and primary school differences are not big, but this time the children more sensible, know more, also must be at the latest in junior high school to discover a child's ability: culture? A blow-and-pull? Business? ...... Late again ... It's really late. The author remembers, the author third day the time to apply for high school, the head teacher has asked: who has the specialty, can report specialty. The author doesn't have any special skills, so he doesn't know what's going on. Should be in junior high school, some talents should be able to give children the choice to bring some advantages.
High School: Everything for the college entrance exam! But how many children know which school they should go to? What is the major to read? If the previous hobby has been found and nurtured, there is no need to worry about it. Children should choose according to their own liberal arts and sciences, if you have special skills, hobbies, must keep, culture class can not be lost, high school is busy. According to their own ability, comprehensive hobbies, choose a school, choose a good professional. Here to borrow someone else's sentence: After the entrance examination, go to some schools that want to apply for a stroll, understand. Of course, the author did not, because no one told me during the college entrance examination.
Technical Secondary School: If some children's cultural performance is really poor, and no special skills, even college students do not, or do not want to read, then only in junior high school, choose a child want to engage in the cause of the corresponding professional, or find a master, or go out and do something. Here will be the table again, will be with the next graduate employment together to explain. During vocational school, you can use your spare time, and also test some corresponding skills certificate.
University: Congratulations! Admitted to a good university, of course, if the admission is not a very good university, there are the following options: 1, the child of this major is interested in the university, the results soar, or suddenly understand, want to take higher diploma, then you can consider the special promotion, postgraduate examination and so on. 2, the child is not interested in this major, it is best to change an interested professional, or in the spare time to study their favorite things. 3, the children of professional performance in general, if you do not want to study, you can use spare time, do some of the professional related things. For the children who do not want to study, college graduates want to come out to find a job, then, the University of the advice is: want to go to what the company to engage in specific what kind of work, specific to the position, work matters. Then on the recruitment site to search for relevant positions, to view the corresponding position of the company's requirements, as required to learn, and do some projects.
Postgraduate, Doctoral, etc.: the author does not understand this aspect, for the moment
Secondary school graduation children: choose their own position, learn some of the company's technology and experience, who want to make more money is not, humiliation. Directly learn to do business what kind of is not the table. Please remember: Risk and profit coexist, please grasp it yourself. For some technical posts, you can find large companies, good companies, can be long-term work, there is a long development, it is not long to do it? Technical Secondary School does not know much, not many tables.
Graduates: If you have done a meaningful project in college and have done something specific to your recruitment information, it is easy to find a corresponding position. If you take all the time in college to play, then there is no way, junior high school so tired, college indulgence, no skills, empty a paper diploma. If your chosen position has a long-term outlook, you can do it for long, or you may have a better plan.
The above is about studying, the following talk about things outside of school.
Play: Parents should not spend all their time on cultural learning, should play, or say free time to learn some of the things to use in the future. Some parents will directly get money to see too heavy, feel some things to play, and can not bring wealth in the future, and then organize children to "play". Children play things, can become a platform for his friends, such as playing the electronic organ, then he can play the keyboard to know the same playing keyboard people, make friends more widely, unknown profit also exists, not fine table. Study in the future, or work, or party, can have the opportunity to show their talent, make it easier for others to remember your child. Not like the author so Sad, the company engaged in annual meetings, looking for a performance program, nothing, also lost the opportunity to let more leaders know.
Different schools, different living environments: Different schools, different living environment will give children what kind of influence? Think, if the children around are careless people, the child will also be a careless person? If the child is surrounded by downin people, will the child be a downin person? Jinzhuzhechi Howl, Mencius three moved. All around are such people, you take a book to say how the person should be how, even as parents, can not lead by example, the author does not think such an empty talk how much role.
Friends: The author thinks, in high school, or college, this age group is just about friends, of course, high school busy, not table. If you go to university, or technical secondary school, technical secondary school, when you have a talent, and well-informed, elegant manners ... (Forgive the author of the language is too poor, unexpectedly more description, the author this is counter-short-sighted) male chasing female, female chasing male, male was chased, female was chased, the author felt is not difficult.
Study: The author believes that not in the school can be called "learning", some students in the school is not necessarily in the study, not in the school some friends, and can not say that they did not study. As long as they have a progressive heart, they can learn anytime, anywhere. During the work, you can not give up learning, live to learn old. Do not learn, it is easy to disconnect from the community, such as some do not want to learn to use smart phones, computers, some of the elders, empty spare time, do not have to learn some basic mobile phone, computer knowledge, I want to watch TV, listen to music, learn to dance all to find someone. If you can't find anyone, you just have to hold back.
Or you are not satisfied with being a working person, or you want to start a business, the author thinks that the above can also be applied, in the university, understand the need for entrepreneurship, understand the policy trend and so on, more practice, the university can start a business, many places on the University of Entrepreneurship also has support help. Should be arranged as soon as possible, or graduation has not thought of what should be a business to do what the project, and so on a few years to think of what to do, and not belong to the scope of university students entrepreneurship.
Said so much, look back, feel like this will be very substantial, but in other words, feel very busy. The author often think, people this life, efforts to make money, not to enjoy, is for what? Reading when we can not make money, make money to want to get married to buy a house, married to buy a house to want to have children, raising children, children read to worry about the children to school, children grow up to worry about the child employment, talk about friends, the children are married to worry about grandson. When is the end of time
Poor parents heart!
Let the child not regret life
