Like programming, communication is also an art Series 6 (artistic realm)

1. Promote communication to the realm of art

1.1 Through the previous articles, our communication can be upgraded to the artistic level, which is summarized as follows:

1. Communication should be gradually upgraded to the realm of art.

2. Do not talk like a dingtalk to stab others' hearts.

3. The communication is not completely dependent on the speech, so you should not speak a few words on your own.

4. You need to understand your own words and deeds and others' words and deeds.

5. Communication is not just divided into right and wrong. Everyone should be respected in order to be successful. If the other party is wrong, you must know where the mistake is in dignity. If you have any difficulties, you must worry about the feelings of the other party. take emotion first and take reason as the main factor.

6. When people are in bad mood and have no dignity, they will be unreasonable.

7. Courtesy first, and competition with courtesy.

8. Do not open your mouth unless it is your turn to speak.

9. First, learn about your status, timing, and occasion.

10. One sentence is heartbreaking and one sentence is disgusting.

11. People of high or low status must be respected by others.

12. Do not send messages that look down on others. It is important for everyone to regard others.

13. If you look down on others, others will take care of you.

14. Any direct introduction of regulations and laws will not work well.

15. The less it is, the more effective it is. We naturally accept what we see and resist.

16. Communication should also understand the customs and customs.

17. If you don't have enough information, you have to go round in the circle.

18. Discuss the relationship, intercommunication, and view the situation.

19. Do not judge a person by reaction on the site. A reasonable response here may change. It's not a matter of uncertainty, but a different situation.

20. communicate with others at a considerable distance.

21. Obviously, things are important, and invisible implicit hints are also important, such as manners and actions.

22. Understand the hint of your boss.

23. good intentions and good intentions are good expression skills. Otherwise, they are good intentions and bad deeds.

24. It is enough for people to be honest and sincere, and to add good expression skills.

25. If you don't speak, others have the opportunity to speak, and no one wants to accept the fatigue bombing of others.

26. When talking about the key points, stop when the key points are finished. Maybe someone else understands it, or wait for someone to ask.

27. Don't talk too far, and never always like to tell stories.

28. Don't be self-righteous. listen to others to know how much you know. smart people are used to making others speak first. The most rewarding person is.

29. Do not use strong words to stand out for reasons, or use hard words.

30. Try not to interrupt others.

31. If the other party keeps talking, for example, if someone keeps talking at the meeting, he must also use skills to interrupt others (you can say that you can schedule a special assignment for him. Now let's talk about the small things here first ).

32. No one can speak for a meeting for a maximum of three minutes. You have to finish complex things in three minutes.

33. Time Management and sentiment management should be emphasized.

34. Stabilize your mood, and others will naturally be stable.

35. To be punctual, it is necessary to arrive early, but people who arrive early cannot ring the doorbell.

36. Waiting for others is the most wasteful cost.

37. If many of the leaders' opinions are temporarily known, review them.

38. Time and space are the most important and time is the same.

39. It is true to say many things twice. Some things must be noticed by yourself, and they must be said by yourself first.

40. It's best not to be too small. If you are too large, others will pay attention to you. It cannot grow too small. Well done, don't squeeze it out, do it badly, don't get it done.

41. People only do reasonable things. Good or bad people are also bad people.

42. The process is more important than the result. The result cannot be controlled. Enjoy the process and do not care about the result. However, the process is good and most of the results are good. The people who actually manage the results are the management process, if you don't want the consequences all day long, you can master the process of each day.

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Like programming, communication is also an art Series 6 (artistic realm)