Liu Xuan-10 things to know in marriage _ psychology

The desire of the North Star in marriage for a lifetime, a common dream, a sense of direction. The fear that cannot be said is the most terrible. Can we overcome this fear together? Turn to the other person's invitation (bids) to interact with each other and know how to respond to an invitation. Double Tango, Give-and appropriate space to give, and strive to maintain the golden ratio (marriage) enthusiasm, intense is positive interaction, indifference, blame is negative interaction; The gold ratio is: positive interaction is 5 times times the negative interaction. Good communication between husband and wife do not use the words of blame, describe their feelings, do not need to do analysis, clear and specific to say their own requirements; don't forget to thank the other person: "Hubby, I did not say it." Spend a little more time with your child, don't go home and stick it on your phone. I know you're busy at work, but I can't let my kids live a fake single kiss. (full of negative information) the woman correctly said: "Husband, I recently housekeeper with the child, really very tired." I know you're busy at work, but I need you to help me with my children's homework every night, OK. "(gentle manner, weakness)
Marriage is judo, not Taekwondo (boys) Don't confront head-on, follow her, catch her talking. The key, the request, the reasonable request; Marriage: The greatest crisis of marriage is not a quarrel, but a snub. Write Your love diary with Thanksgiving data shows: Nearly 80% of husbands say--if their wives can always express their gratitude , they will feel more willing to pay, write a diary, send a circle of friends to express their gratitude to their families. Small selfishness brings great happiness in ordinary life, couples occasionally need to be selfish, and you and your other half as one. Not to put "I" first, is to put us in the first, to do some interesting things together.
Willing to pay is the foundation of a happy marriage. Learning to pay is the most difficult and important thing in marriage.