Magicnotes: How to move towards the road to work

Magicnotes, thoughts with the wind flying, not grasp write down tomorrow will forget.

Last night in the knowledge of the occasional see @ Rain farmers about "Why I so hard, eat so much pain, also didn't see so good?" "A reply, the heart has touched.

I graduated 3-4 years, close friends are basically alumni, but basically bought more than 200,000 of the car, one-time payment, there are several ready to buy a house, are based on their own skills, do not take home a penny of this. I am a little less than them, at this stage ready to buy a house.

First talk about my own experience: my family generation of poor peasants, is loyal to the proletariat, the village did not have a few books, I was the first college students, home to face me to college no interest, not to mention a college, also no one tube my tuition, I had to borrow, and then university work-study completed. The first time out of our county, is to Hangzhou University, what do not understand, silly boy, until after graduation, the social cognition may be better. The study is the financial management profession, the teacher to us also not how the control, lets us own very free. Students, also on the school inside a few students from the countryside, but also better, the other basically no words.

After graduation, professional can not find a job, education is too low, and no work experience, financial requirements for this too high, so has been very confused, no matter how hard, are useless. Because when I went to college, I liked reading and writing, had a literary foundation, and finally found a copy of the work of planning, temporarily make a living. When he left Hangzhou, he made a living in Guangzhou for a year.

Then the wages of 2500, desperately working overtime, one months only 3500-4000, except five risks a gold, eat and drink, basically no money left, and at that time I also have a different girlfriend, we are alumni, the same university graduated, and sometimes give her. At that time I really feel that the mood is the same as the Lord, even the world is full of malice, not that the more efforts the more fortunate, the harder the more tired, want to die heart has.

Family relatives are urged to pay back money, where money to them, parents in the home planted a few acres of land, a little savings are not, on top of elder brother and sister, there is no handouts, are borrowed. This side of my girlfriend let me consider the future of things, or to get married, want to get married, go back to Hangzhou to fight with her.

Thought for a long time, finally decided to come to Hangzhou, with the female friends to say clearly, the family all the situation told her, if she chose to break up, I would not say anything, and then my girlfriend would like to fight with me. At that time, although the heart is happy, but it is Alexander, how to bear the cost of all future expenses, how to explain to her parents.

My girlfriend's classmates, are also my alumni, they are mixed with the wind and wind, people from all walks of life have, at that time not to mention my own self-esteem. Back in Hangzhou to find a company, a monthly salary of 4000, on the right track. Sitting beside me is a 90, also next door school graduate, I am 89, really wuqiaobuchengshu, he is the director of operations, directly I am 2-3 level. My direct boss is also 90, I graduated. I dare not imagine facing such a good young man, how I self-abased. But my girlfriend always encouraged me, let me learn from them.

Because of this, gave me a chance to learn, with better than their own learning, sinking heart, followed by the director to learn a lot of things, because sitting next to him, every time someone came to him to say something, I carefully recorded down, and then go home from work after Baidu all kinds of information learning. Some do not understand, the indirect to ask him, or ask other people.

8 months later, I became his assistant, began to follow him to learn various operations, and into various fields, with some customers, at this time I feel that my efforts are a bit rewarding, and then I began to look for a higher level of field study. Of course I am not ungrateful person, when I think I can dudangyimian, I went to talk to him for a long time, and expressed my own ideas, I want to bring a department, and raise salary. He gave me a lot of advice. And said that if you continue to work in the same job, my time is the equivalent of a waste, will not get a better promotion. But because of the company's reasons, other places can not be a direct substitution, so I suggested I went to another company as the director to try. Just then, when a company came to dig me, I agreed.

To another company, I am also a little careful, afraid that they do not good, so hands, very hard to do, do not understand the old staff to learn, and the boss said. Gradually sat down to the new company's operations director, and on behalf of the company to participate in various meetings. During that time, the work had to flow for one weeks nosebleed, and 2 times fainted. It is only after the normal operation of all the things in the new company that the heart comes down. But the boss of this company is very petty, after I have all the things to do, began to deprive me of interest, said the 5% Commission, is the sale of all the stores. Suddenly, this 5% Commission is the commission of all my departments. 20 Several people divided, I can not take much. Before one months can take tens of thousands of, suddenly become 10,000 less, the basic salary also dropped. Also let me try to tube warehouse, the store to others to try, cultivate and cultivate.

This all of a sudden, I know, my efforts let me have a certain value, but this boss can not tolerate my this value, this time I chose to resign. At this time, I look for a job, no longer resume updates, such as half a day no information. When I in the circle of friends to resign the information released, all kinds of pull me to their company's news overwhelming, there are headhunters often call me to recommend work.

In the middle also no twists and turns, I successfully find another job, that is, my current company, big data this piece. The company is ready to go public this year, work also relaxed every day, around is basically a graduate degree of colleagues. Everything is OK every day, the boss is good, basically followed him in various dinners, preparation of various projects.

Until now, I don't say how good I am, but at least with the best on the top, and have been working hard. A person's effort is not important, the answer is affirmative, but how hard, the direction of the effort, this is a question worth thinking, around the force of their own efforts to the environment is the most important.

It is important to strive for doubt, but efforts without direction are useless and cease to be an improvement.

Before I only focus on technology, work just do their own hands on the technical work, work to get their own website and amateur projects, research technology. This state lasted for nearly 4 years, and the results were also lost. It's my technology that's getting faster, and the amateur programs and websites are pretty good. On the loss, at that time also vaguely perceived a little, but did not deliberately to summarize, so there was no improvement and promotion, and then the technical team leadership vacancies, need to find someone on the team top, on qualifications and technology, I am relatively old, but the leadership did not mention this matter to me. Now want to come, that will work, too little communication with colleagues, others may feel that this person to do things, and do not talk to people, how can assume the big office? And that will be my subjective initiative is not good, will not take the initiative for the leadership to think about the problem, not to think about the risk of team projects to avoid, do not take the initiative to consider how to make the team better, just blindly complete the work on hand. That kind of me, of course, will not be entrusted with the task.

But think about it, our society is composed of people, the attention of people is absolutely indispensable to a link.

I changed jobs last year, and technology is far away, and people close, I feel this year, my EQ improved a lot. Once, a HP server is broken, home repair is a middle-aged man, hands and feet, professional and technical very good, less than half an hour, the server was repaired, the other several G7 also changed in memory. I was chatting with him, I praised him for his bad, talked about later he felt: "In China, technology has a fart, repair server repair better, is just a repair server." I have done that for many years, but also a basic technical staff. " This sentence reminds me of my former self, I can also analogy "write code to write badly what is the use of, and finally the technology is not as good as your leader, you continue to write your code it."

Today, I work in the Department of the homeland, there are a lot of good people, the outside view of the public service team, as well as my previous views on the public service team, there is a great deviation. Many colleagues in the land system are very highly educated people, Peking University, Fudan, NPC, middle and large schools, and so on, and even some of the national level of professional experts in the field, such as surveying and mapping industry, the big female doctor, although only a few times the fate of the meeting, but has been able to feel the ideas and style of the cattle. Many of them are IQ and EQ very high people, in this excellent group, I have been a lot of positive influence, often see some people's shining, I will silently write down, deliberately let themselves to imitate learning, long-term past, my work attitude and work habits become very good, so work also progress quickly, Some positive reviews about me are starting to get much more slowly.

Back to how to become excellent this topic, you can see, in fact, most people around us are very mediocre, excellent is only a small number of people. As mentioned above, the experience of the rain farmer, from mediocrity to excellent transformation process is difficult and painful, and to have positive initiative. For example, first to let oneself in the work of the business become professional, do not understand the business veteran to consult. Then, the urgent leadership of the urgent, for leadership problems, let the leadership trust you, rest assured that the work to you. Ordinary work to be careful, serious, do not make mistakes, and keep making it a habit. Just like "Everything you do, will become your business card" in this article, you do one thing, in fact, people look in the eye, and will form a view of you. Every thing you really do well, the leader will look in the eye and wait for the next promotion, you may become very competitive.

In fact, many programmers are the same as I used to do their own things. But we are living in a group, working in a group, so it is impossible not to consider other people's views and feelings. EQ is often more successful than the IQ master, harmonious social relations, will make a person more pleasant. Now I will deliberately improve my emotional intelligence, such as trying to communicate with all kinds of people, understand their ideas, listen to their stories, improve their speaking skills (a detail: I am Cantonese, Putonghua is not good, the expression can not keep up with the head, a hurry to speak quickly and some jam repeat, I am aware of this problem, in the conversation with others, deliberately reduce their speed, the pursuit of accurate and fluent expression of their thoughts, even if it is said slowly and literally. It is important to constantly read a wide variety of books, valuable materials, and enrich your information and worldview. There is the active use of their own work on the initiative, to actively go to the urgency of leadership, know the leadership of the heart of the worries, and efforts to solve him. For example, we now have two important new systems ready to go online, but did not very satisfied, if the progress continues, may be cursory acceptance, resulting in the project is unsuccessful. In order to make these two projects successful, and received the praise of Bureau leaders, I try to do a good job of testing, think of a variety of application scenarios, optimize business processes, and actively engage with technology developers to do a good job of data inspection ... Although there are many things, it makes sense to do these things. Your pay, can bring output, your output, can bring you the return.

a person to 30 years old, if not successful, or not become good , then must be the character where the problem . It is important to reflect on yourself and find out the crux of your problem at this time. If you do not troubleshoot, your efforts may continue to be useless, and then 10 years to estimate the same as the old way.

Work is one of the most important parts of life. Treat your work with kindness and kindness to your life. Take your work seriously and work will give you a lot of rewards. Being lazy or slacking off may make you a breeze, but it will ruin your career prospects. More work to pay a little sweat, more for the work to consider some things, more thinking about some of the tasks at hand, your work will be more than others to do a better job. Persevere, you will become good, become successful.

Magicnotes: How to move towards the road to work