Mentality is not good, you are doomed to be a weak!

One, the mentality determines life

A philosopher said: "Your mind is your master." "In real life, we can't control our own experiences, but we can control our own mentality; we can't change others, but we can change ourselves." In fact, there is no big difference between people, the real difference is the mentality. So, a person's success or not, depends mainly on his mentality.

Second, anger is better than good

There is prosperity and adversity in life, there is no adversity everywhere, there is a peak in life and a bottom, and it is impossible to be everywhere. Because of prosperity or the peak of the arrogant, because of adversity or trough and depressed, are shallow life. In the face of setbacks, if only blindly complaining, angry, then you are doomed to always be a weak.

Three, have confidence to win

Through the ages, many people fail, the reason is not because of incompetence, but because of not self-confidence. Self-confidence is a kind of power, but also a power. When you are not confident, you are difficult to do well, and when you do nothing well, you are less confident. This is a vicious cycle. If you want to be free from this vicious circle, you have to fight against failure, you have to establish a strong self-confidence.

Four, the heartbeat more to action

Heart is not as good as action, although the action is not necessarily successful, but not action will certainly not succeed. Life does not reward you for what you want to do, nor does it reward you for what you know, but because of what you have done to pay you. A person's goal is to start from the dream, a person's happiness is from the mentality of the grasp, and a person's success is in action to achieve. Because only action, will nourish your successful food and spring.

Five, ordinary heart must not be less

Life can not be smooth sailing, there are successes, there are failures, there are happy, also have lost. If we look at the rise and fall of life too heavy, then life for us will never be calm, never laugh. Life should be pursued, but temporarily not to hinder the well-being of daily life, therefore, have a normal heart, life is essential for the lubrication liquid agent.

Six, tolerance is a virtue

As the saying goes: "Step back to the sky, let a bit of calm." "This means that there is a need for tolerance between people. Tolerance is a virtue, it can make a person to be respected. Tolerance is a medicine, it can save a person's soul. Tolerance is like a lamp, can radiate in the dark light, illuminate each heart.

Seven, learn to untie the heart

The human mind is fragile and needs to be constantly stimulated and comforted. Often self-motivated, self-praise, will make the heart happy incomparable. Learn to untie the heart, is to give themselves to create a warm harbor, often into their busy tired mind do massage, so that the soul of the various parts are often maintained and maintenance.

Eight, do not take setbacks as failure

Everyone's life, will inevitably suffer setbacks and failures. The difference is that the loser always fail, so that every time can be a deep blow to his courage to win, the winner is never say defeat, in the face of setbacks again and again, always said to himself: "I have not failed, but have not succeeded." "A temporary loser, if he continues to work hard to win back, then his defeat today is not a real failure." On the contrary, if he loses the courage to fight again, it is true that he loses.

Nine, to avoid trouble into the heart

In real life, the people who fret all the day are not in fact suffering too much misfortune, but rooted in the inner world of the troubled ones. Therefore, when the trouble comes, we do not complain, do not abandon themselves, to learn to untie the mind, from the psychological upward adjustment to their own, to avoid trouble into the heart.

Ten, happiness is actually very simple

Some people say that happiness is the spring flowers, summer shade, autumn fruit, winter snow in the sky. In fact, happiness is around us. A sense of smile, a sincere handshake, a heart-to-heart conversation, is a happy thing.

All wealth, fame, status, are external appearances. Virtue is the root of the truth, the words of virtue is not false. Why is it easy to acquire wealth after learning Chinese traditional culture? Because of virtue can be loaded, daughter wealth must be the daughter of the people.

The mentality is not good, you are doomed to be a weak!