More important than meeting what kind of person is the first person to become

How do you know that you met the true love?

As a child, I think true love is the extreme possession, she is my, I forbid her to talk to any boys, even she looked at others two eyes I am uncomfortable, I am selfish, sensitive, possessive, and these as love her performance, intensified
At that time I like a girl, until I use my sentimental and narrow-minded successful to get her out of the air

Later, I think true love is hot Love fire, at first sight, everlasting
I take love to see more than anything, think two people together more important than anything, all day life is you Lennon I love concubine, wish to sink into each other's life, a second does not separate
At that time I was in love with a girl until I wasted my studies and my career and wasted my promise.

Later, I think that love is the body needs, lonely partner, talk about what love, say anything, don't talk to me nonsense
Love is to eat water to sleep, two people do love lying in bed do not talk, say good night each separate sleep, usually busy their work hobbies do not contact, how good
At that time I get along with such a girl, I do not know whether it is love, I do not care, and then we are so dull separated

Now, I don't know what true love is anymore.

Until one day I met a girl, with her very strange, I seldom consider the "love is what" this problem, I only know, when we together, no matter what to do is very happy, she let me inexplicable a kind of practical feeling
I am no longer impetuous, I am willing to listen, I will no longer cranky, look around
The whole portrait was hushed up.

We can not contact all day, but sooner or later simply say a few words but don't worry about cold
I am not as difficult as before, using a variety of emotional skills to manipulate her emotions, because there is no such a thought, I just want to be honest, sincere

I felt for the first time, the original feelings can be like this, feel faint, but let the body full of strength, so that the heart filled with warmth, so that life is full of real sense
I seldom think about what the future will be, just feel that every moment of the moment is a gift from God, it's good to have her.
I still don't know what true love is, and I'm too lazy to think about it now.
I only know, my feelings tell me, is now so good, even if the next second world destruction, I have no regrets
As for what this feeling is called, how people name, is not called true love, who cares?
Maybe when you stop thinking about what true love is, you're closer to it.

Chen Zhuang and Zhuang(author) reply to Kevin Liu We do not meet each other to become this, but because we become now so that we can meet, so more than meet what kind of person is more important, is the first to become what kind of person. In other words, maybe I have missed a lot of people for me, just then I, can not appreciate also found that, as long as you seriously live, you will meet the life you want. Reply to all of you friends

More important than meeting what kind of person is the first person to become