My girlfriend is pregnant, not me (turn, Super classic !!!)

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My girlfriend is pregnant, not me

My first love girlfriend, we have been together for seven years, and our feelings have been very good. I thought I had found my life's goal-to make her happy. But since January 1, March 10, she hurt me and tried to commit suicide. In March 10, she came to me every week for a holiday, but I waited for her for a day and she didn't come. I am anxious to find her! At, she called me and said that she had gone to the customer's house this day. She was very busy so she didn't call me or come to me! I was a bit skeptical at the time, but I barely believed it. No sleep at night. The more you think about it, the more skeptical it is. The next morning, the company asked her. Finally, what I don't want to happen is still happening! She didn't go to the customer's house any day. Instead, she joined a company's male colleagues and had a relationship. I am in pain, but I forgive her. She promised me that this would not happen! I believe that she is still working there as before. My worries are that I will try to pick her up from work and send her home almost every day, just a few days. She told me not to let me look for her all day long. She wants to be free. I began to endure the pain and tried to give her freedom. As a result, I found them together again. I can't stand it anymore. I asked her, who do she love? She said she loved me. I told her to resign, but she did not want to resign for many reasons. I understand that she didn't resign because of a man. I told her to leave with me. She said several of her colleagues from work are going to dinner together. Which man is there. I beg her not to go, but she does not want. Finally, I couldn't bear to tell her to break up without resigning. So we broke up at 8 o'clock. I couldn't help crying, crying in the street. She cried too! But leave without speaking. I cried and called a taxi home. In the car, I couldn't help but call her and heard the sound of a hotel over there. I am so miserable. I think we just broke up in seven years. Does she have an appetite ?? I hung up the phone, but my heart was like a knife. I told my friends to accompany me to drink. They advised me for an hour, and I cried for an hour, at, my friend sent me home. I couldn't sit still when I got home, but I kept thinking about her. I want to die when I think of the boy she is. I have no money on my body. I went out of the house and went to her house to find her. My family had 15 stops at her house, and one of my heels fell. I just walked to her house like a lame child. It was midnight. I knocked on her house. Her father told me that she had made a call and said that she had worked overtime and would not be back at night. I collapsed to the ground. I think she might be at a man's house. I only know which man lives in which village, but I don't know the specifics. I ran two steps to the village like crazy, and knocked door-to-door in the village in the middle of the night and shouted her name. It's called a night. Still not found. At seven o'clock in the morning, most of the doors opened, and I went to find another one and shouted. Finally, I found it. I remember the man's door! I knocked on the door and no one opened the door. I couldn't lock the window. I pushed the window open and saw them sleeping together. I shouted to open the door. I thought I would beat her, but I couldn't bear it. I told her we were both there. Choose one. She was hesitating and I was about to leave. She didn't ask me to leave. Finally, she came out with me, but the first sentence was "I came out with you, just worried about your security ." I totally collapsed. I said I won't have a problem. Go back to him! But she followed me. I went back to my house with her. She spent the afternoon at my house! I also talked about it for one afternoon. She said she figured it out and she had no result with a man. She wanted to be with me. I believe her again! After a few days, I didn't pick her up in the afternoon and called her. She said she was at an Internet cafe and just got off work. When I asked her who she could not answer, I asked her which Internet cafe she was at. She said, I was with my friend, and I immediately got out of the bus with my friend, I was very angry when I found out that she and the two men were in the internet cafe and told them to leave the Internet cafe. I didn't think about which man to beat. But my friends couldn't see where they beat. But my girlfriend saw him beaten! Cry and shout, I really want to forget it! Break up. Her heart is no longer here. When I said no, I said to her, "You decide now, if you want to go with me now, or if you want to go with him ." If she doesn't speak, the man who gets up and turns to leave. I asked her if she left. She said that he was beaten because she was going to apologize to her. If I don't feel relieved, she went to apologize with her. We went to another man's house and nobody found it in the village, finally, find the man playing the game in the game room. The man in the room ignored her. She is very sad, and I look more sad. Then she gave him the chocolate she had bought and ran out to sit down and cry. I comforted him for a long time. Then we took the bus back to my house. We went to drink in the evening. She was drunk, lying in bed and calling his name. I didn't go to bed any night. I am in pain. When she came together in the morning, she said she was going to find the man. I told you to go. Don't come back later. She does not want to leave. Finally, we talked at home for a day and finally decided that I really love her. She was confused for a moment, and she really loved me. I felt soft again. Believe her, but resign, she said yes. She was reluctant to go to the company the next day. Finally, I decided to ask for leave for one month. She said it would take me a month to forget and treat me well. One month later. I agree! In this way, we spent a month together every day. In May 1, she had to go to work. I believed her and asked her to go to work. In May 3, they found that they went home from work together. I have no choice but to break up! She said she didn't want to. Quit. I accept it again. I thought I had a good time after I resigned. Suddenly she told me that she was pregnant and I thought it was mine, because she told me that she had done it with a man, after that, I had a menstruation. Let me know. Let's get married! Because I believe it's mine. As a result, she swallowed up and asked her what happened. She was forced to say that she had done it several times with a man after menstruation, and she had no measures! She does not know who the child is! I can't accept it, but I can't leave her at this time. I borrowed 1000 yuan to take her to the hospital and take good care of her, she was also touched and told me that I would never hurt me if I had been so good to me all my life! I really don't know what to do now. I want to give her a chance, but I am afraid of being cheated! But I really love her and have endured all the pain for her. I just want to live a dull life with no other requirements. Please give me your comments. I want to be with her, and I am afraid of being hurt again! My Heartache makes me crash. I love her so much. Why is she doing this? Is it true that a man is worth it? Why is it true that she does not cherish it. Help me.

Solution:

Although a feeling is beautiful, it is actually the most difficult thing to understand. So if you cannot win a feeling, the best and smartest way is when it doesn't exist, when it does not happen, you don't need to pay attention to it and get rid of it. Even if you don't want it, there is no way, because you have no choice. Like a cup of water, it has been put in the cup for a long time, almost every day there is dust in it, but it is still clear transparent, because all the dust is precipitated into the bottom of the cup.
The same is true for life. There are a lot of troubles every day. The more you forget something, the more you forget it. It's like a cup of water. If you shake yourself with disgust, the whole cup of water will be restless, it is a silly act to achieve integration of turbidity. If you are willing to let them settle down slowly and quietly, you can use a calm mind to accommodate them, so that your mind will be polluted at the end, it is more pure.