My girlfriend wants to travel to Xiamen by herself

My girlfriend saw closeup's post yesterday and spent the Chinese New Year in Xiamen. Then she said she wanted to travel to Xiamen by herself-I just heard that I strongly supported it yesterday, as you can imagine, she walked in Xiamen with her bag on her own, and she was very free and unrestrained ......

But today, she once again mentioned that she was traveling to Xiamen by herself. Why didn't I want to go with her? I didn't directly reply to her, And I thought in my heart, "Is it true that after two people have been together for too long, they will always live and work together every day, not to mention that she is tired, but to say that she wants to feel free and lonely? I still understand ......

She mentioned again, saying that 1000 yuan is enough-I forget it, the fare is estimated to be 200 yuan, and 400 yuan is returned for a round trip. A conservative day is 500.-What can I do with the remaining 500 yuan? She said she was about to stay in a hotel for 50 yuan, and I began to be unhappy. Does she know about hygiene? Does she know how to protect herself? What? I don't want to live on the side of xinglin outside the island? Can I stay in a hotel for 50 yuan on the island? Is the hotel safe ?! I was very upset at the beginning-she only knew her own style and did not consider security at all ...... Although I should trust her, does she know that she has taken responsibility for her family and love? Not to mention, it is estimated that this will happen when I become a mother after the game is done ...... When I think of this, I am very dissatisfied ......

However, I still think about why closeup traveled to Xiamen for the Chinese New Year. The couple went romantic together ...... I really don't want to oppose her freedom and seem to limit her freedom-but I love her. She's used to her. Does she know freedom, romance, and security?

Everyone has a dream and I will not block it. On the contrary, I should encourage and support others, I also have the desire to be lonely and independent-but I seem to feel my life with my wife. If you have to feel it by yourself, it can be said that it is not love that limits freedom, but two people have been together for too long, and you want to find a new sky-it is usually too much and it needs to be converted to each other !!!

Free and unrestrained-everyone is yearning for it. Is one person free and unrestrained? The true nature of a person's freedom to travel is that he can control himself, control himself, and feel and experience himself and integrate himself into the stranger group without me. That's because he cares too much about this baby, as a result, she cannot control herself or herself. Do she want to return to herself ?!!! Control yourself and control yourself-you need to convert each other !!! From eating, finance, going out, and lodging, they all need to be converted to each other ...... She needs to control herself and herself ......

Tu TU
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