Life will inevitably make us difficult. However, worse than the difficult situation is, sometimes, the rain has not yet come up, we have first poured ourselves.
Rilke said, the soul without the universe, the rain will fall on the heart.
A person, if the soul is not enough boundless, will always feel, everywhere and rape evil poison people. This is because, the more in the narrow space, the more ugly the more easily magnified. The passing of the self-soul is not good, it will appear that the bad guys are very many. Through sex, is actually a kind of inclusiveness, when you sheng the world, even if the occasionally corner of the blast turbid, in the wide field of vision, but also is bucket.
Life is difficult, sometimes, like walking in a short lane, sudden was bitten by a dog. may be grinning pain for a while, but, when you cover the wound, you have to tell yourself that the road is more, it will inevitably be bitten on a mouthful. At the same time, you have to smile, because, you are pleased to see that there are many dogs in this alley, they did not bite you.
Don't expect that everyone around you is the person you want to meet, just as it is impossible to live forever in the bright weather. When it rains on a cloudy day, you have to get wet for a while. This is a kind of life ability, but also the situation that must have to grow. A long journey of life, even if today will not make you difficult, change a day will be difficult for you, even if this person does not make you, change a person will be difficult for you.
In the face of the people who are difficult to make their own things, the best way, is a smile. Then, easily tell yourself: be difficult, is also a part of life. You will find that, because you make peace with yourself, any difficulties will be resolved to not so sharp.
Let go of yourself, life will let you go.
It always comes from people who are stronger than themselves, or for power, or for strength. Because of some scruples, we have to retreat. In fact, it is the self of the fear of the heart, forcing themselves weak, weak, and even desperate. Fear of the heart, in fact, is the loss of heart, when you are timid in the gains and losses, will inevitably be cowgirl, under pressure on people, people, humiliation in person, will be difficult.
A powerful stranger will not be a difficult one for you. Because it doesn't matter to you, you don't have to be afraid. This is the reason that grim face people, always appear beside you rather than others. Because, only the people around, will have the interests of you, have stakes, you will be difficult. Being difficult, in fact, is not succumbing to who, but succumbing to some kind of interests and stakes.
In the life of the Big curtain, the first seems to be a kind of injury, but later, but it became a fulfillment. Because, every person who lives in a difficult life, know how to deal with the world or get along, also understand that life is sometimes a compromise of art.
When you are in a difficult time, just smile and live. Later, you will find that there is no more than a smile to live, more transparent life.
No better than to live with a smile, a more transparent life.