[Notes] are boys good or girls good?

I saw a long topic on Sina's blog, which is basically a hot topic in China: male, female, and female.

This problem seems wise.

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Abstract Original:Male and female are different
Article/Zhang nostalgia-4-3

This article is based on the conversation between the writer Zhang nostalgia and the pregnant woman Zhang Cuihua. All disputes and slander arising therefrom are irrelevant to me. Thank you.

Today, I want to tell you the truth. Everyone knows but does not want to tell or even dare not face the truth. For example, the question is different from the question of being a male or a female.
I don't know if someone else has cheated us or we have cheated ourselves. In this case, the Chinese are really sad. After the Xinhai Revolution, the Chinese people have always wanted to get rid of the shackles of feudal ethics. Over the past century, the effect has not been obvious. This is normal. It takes decades to clear the remains of five thousand years, it is indeed difficult. It is true that parent-arranged marriages in the feudal society are no longer present, but the traditional concept of male superiority and inferiority has not been fundamentally changed. In fact, they have never been equal.
Modern social etiquette with obvious gender discrimination, such as "female first" and "men's orders", is enough to show that women are subordinate, seemingly respectful, and really despised. The rebellious slogans "equality between men and women" and "same for boys and girls" cannot change stubborn ideas. All the slogans are fake and all the joys and sorrows are engraved on pale faces.

Maybe one day, when you first came out of the production room, you may encounter an occasion on your way home, where there are people or neighbors you know but are not very familiar, they will ask you with great care if you have a male. If you say you have given birth to a boy, they will say with a smile: Congratulations! If you say you have given birth to a girl, they will still say with a smile: girl, well, grow up and spend less.
Here we can find two completely different types of laughter: the first one is very straightforward, full of admiration and jealousy, and the second is very dry, full of sympathy and gloating. What makes the client even more puzzled is the latter's words-the word "also" in the "girl" sentence, which is enough to make the client depressed for a lifetime. Why does it sound more comfortable to give birth to a boy and give birth to a girl. However, if we think about it carefully, we can find that the word "also" contains a kind of comfort and pity to a large extent. It is unfortunate to say that it is just like giving birth to a girl. In the last half, "Grow up and spend less money", I know how much conscience and morality are missing behind these words, and how many humble traditions and conspiracy are hidden! Does my daughter spend less? Why? Married? Spilled water? No more books? Don't buy a house anymore? Once said, these hidden lines are enough to make every Chinese feel ashamed!
I believe that many fathers have some experience. In fact, many clients do not care about male and female, however, the eyes and arguments of the onlookers are enough for a person who wants to have a daughter to immediately dispel this luxury idea, because no woman wants to bear the pity of others after being pregnant in October, and no man is willing to default the sympathy of others in the days when she was just a father. On the other hand, on the day of the child's full moon, all the parents hope to be sincerely blessed or maliciously jealous. Personally, I like girls very much, but I don't want my wife to be born with no testicles. Therefore, I always look down on myself, so I am very depressed.

The atomic bomb explosion itself is not powerful. After a loud bang, the smoke disappears, and the energy released by the fission of radioactive elements cannot be estimated, its influence on the earth and mankind is long and extensive. Likewise, it is no big deal to have a male and a female, however, a series of family relationships, moral concepts, and Social Judgments triggered by this incident are like the same mountain that makes Chinese people breathless.

Not all women who have given birth to girls think they are useless, and not all men who have given birth to girls feel that they are in luck. Many men are glad that their wives have given birth to a lovely daughter for themselves, but when they celebrate that their wishes have finally been fulfilled, many may secretly comment: Ha, he is comforting himself!
This is the sorrow of the Chinese.
With such sorrow, the Chinese will no longer want to have a female, and fight for a male. Even if they are mentally handicapped and mentally retarded, as long as they are male, they must be better than female. So the farce was staged.
The first is to do B-ultrasound, from the first day of pregnancy does not stop doing B-ultrasound, and the tornado relationship must know the gender of the fetus. If it is a male, it will take a lot of money to save the tires and try to organize the prenatal education; if it is a female, it will be necessary to find a reason to fight for the child. If it is too late, wait for birth. The so-called "let's say" does not rule out the possibility of strangulation and abandonment. The new society's parents are still doing things in the old society. I am not alarmist! You can imagine what kind of life a caring female embryo will have in her mother's stomach!

In fact, the accuracy of the current B-ultrasound level to determine the gender of the fetus is less than 50%. Many people who have been judged to have their sons finally gave birth to their daughters, many people who have been judged to have given birth to their daughters finally gave birth to their sons. A lot of people found out that they were a boy only after being beaten. When I heard that there was such a thing in the world, I was absolutely chilling.
I have seen a doctor point to a B-ultrasound image and say to a farmer: No, there is a girl in the fetal crotch. There are two bright spots: Boys. One highlight is the "G". The two highlights are the testicles. The Women's "G" is the men's testicles. The farmer nodded. This farmer is my uncle, Zhang Cuihua, her father.

Zhang Cuihua was 40 years old. She gave birth to a nvwa for the first time 20 years ago. Later, she had no idea why she was suffocated seven days after birth. That year, I was ten years old. Later, Zhang Cuihua gave birth to five daughters in a row, and never gave up. I asked her why she had to give birth to this sixty-six child. Isn't my son so important? Isn't my daughter human? She said, "No, I just don't want to be scolded as" stupid ". When the word "Seed" popped out of her mouth, I found her like a dark rose.

In order not to plant the seeds, Zhang Cuihua has already had four homes. It is said that the eldest daughter has become a lady, the second daughter is a nanny, the third daughter is a child laborer, and the fourth daughter is accompanied by the fifth daughter at home. Every year, people in the township planning office will drive a tractor to her house to get food and money.
I don't know if there will be different fate for the sixth child in Zhang Cuihua's stomach. Maybe she never knows that she has another sister who has been dead for 20 years.

Zhang Cuihua is a rural resident. I will tell you a story about the city.
Half a year ago, I went to the hospital for a fetal examination with my mistress Liu yicao, and called a taxi. The driver was a man nearly 40 years old in Shanghai. When the red light turned on, he stepped on the brakes and squatted on the steering wheel. Seeing Liu yicao had a big belly, he asked: Pregnant boys and girls? I don't know yet. He said: Don't give birth to a girl. I gave birth to a daughter, ten years old this year. Her mother reads fashion magazines at home every day. It's so cool. I'm so tired of driving every day. I mean nothing at all, I really want to forget the day when I got into a car accident. Let's take a look at Liu yicao. Liu yicao also looked at me and did not say anything. The red light turned on, and the driver stepped on to send us to the People's Hospital of jing'an district. As a result, the fetal blood type is the same as that of Liu yicao's husband, and there is no matching possibility with me. After I left the hospital, I never saw Liu yicao again. It is said that she gave birth to a son. I heard that a woman who has given birth to a son will suddenly learn from Liang. I don't know whether it is true or false, just as I have said before that a woman who has given birth to a daughter is easy to steal, although there is no basis, but it has become a rule inadvertently.


In ancient times, people carved male genitals into giant sculptures and placed them in the temple hall for worship. This deep-rooted ignorance would not end up with two slogans. As a girl's mother, she has to bear too many accusations and as a girl's father, she has to bear too much humiliation. This is China, a nation that has been poisoned by five thousand years of feudal ideology. The more incompetent people are, the more self-esteem they are. The more confident they are, the more confident they are. The more self-defeating people are, the more confident they are. If a nation looks for self-esteem from its embryos, it will be too self-deceiving.



Ten years ago, I knew that a girl was born into a family. When the girl was one year old, her mother ran away with other men, so her father began to play the dual role of her father and mother. His father loves his daughter very much. He takes his daughter to the men's bathhouse to take a bath every winter. This is seven years. In the winter when the girl was seven years old, on the afternoon when she again took a pleasant bath with her father in the men's bathhouse, she saw her father beat her aunt next door, she saw her aunt pointing to her father's nose and said, "Your daughter is definitely not yours. Otherwise, you will not do this. When I heard this, the girl saw her father's high myopia and her eyes fell to the ground, and she shed tears of humiliation.

Similarly, ten years ago, I also knew that a family had a child. when the boy was two years old, his father was sentenced to life for killing. So every winter, my mother takes her son to the bathhouse for eight years. In the past eight years, no one said that their mother and child are not. Only me, a child of the same age as this boy, is always full of contempt, envy and yearning for him to take a bath in the bathhouse.
I don't know what the difference between the girl standing in the male bath and the boy standing in the female bath is. What kind of sight is spectacular, and what kind of sight is sin? Who is the sin? Is it the dirty bath or the undressed people standing in the bath?

When the Tomb Sweeping Day is approaching, people who die, whether male or female, will be sacrificed and mourned by future generations. Those living people and those who are about to be born cannot escape gender trials.

Rating:
The willingness to give birth to boys and women can be divided into the following categories:
1. Whether or not the conditions and environment permit the birth of a boy.
---- This kind of people should not be said here. Theoretically, it is sb.
2. conditions and conditions are allowed, but you want to have a boy.
---- This kind of person is beyond approval. Even if a child is born, the intention of the husband and wife is also a problem. (Note: here, the birth of a child has another social issue "Morality ". After all, the "Morality" of this society is vague .)

So here we can sum up that it is just to give birth to a boy and a girl. The most important thing is that the conditions and environment, coupled with personal ideas.
Being male and female is not the most important thing. The most important thing is the future of a child after it is born.
However, in today's society, it is true that boys have more or more advantages than girls. In addition to the traditional Chinese ideology, maybe this is why so many people only want boys.

Regardless of whether the boys or girls are born, this topic is endless. But I hope every "husband" will hurt his wife a little more. After all, your wife is not a fertility tool.