On the self-accomplishment of the actors

Since saw "the workplace has the winner haunt, the Cock silk please beware!" ", after a sudden, deeply inspired.

In the workplace, every one of us wants to be promoted smoothly, and in most cases, promotions are often decided by their own leaders. So your direct leader's impression of you determines whether or not you can be promoted. If you can stand out from a team, is a very technical knowledge, dick Silk often can not grasp the know-how, resulting in a chance to be winner to take away, looking at winner one by one promotion, oneself can only go to the underappreciated, and then with a AH Q of the spirit to comfort themselves alive like Xiang Lin Sao, really poor.

The inner world of the cock, too.

1 cock Silk doesn't want to clash with people

In the world of cock silk, being kind is the best way to do it. But if you face anyone, on any occasion, you are afraid to clash with people, not to express your thoughts, to fear that your thoughts are different from others and cause quarrels. In the longer-to-be, the less likely you are to be photographed, the less likely your audience will remember you, and the less you'll appreciate the leadership. Especially when it comes to cross-sectoral interests, you need to pass your blarney fickle, glib to fight the enemy's arrogance, to defend the interests of the leadership, naturally get the recognition of leadership more.

2 cock wire seldom public occasions to express their thoughts

Most of the cock silk, especially the introverted cock silk, rarely public occasions to express their thoughts. Whether it's through the mail, the meeting, or the face-to-face communication, the cock silk is afraid of her own real ideas expressed. May be based on their own self-confidence, afraid to say wrong, live afraid of language rash, offend people, live fear of being laughed at and so on. Dick Silk This kind of silence is the attitude of gold, leading to be considered by most people to have no ideas, naturally not the attention of leaders

3 Cock Silk will not communicate with the leader

As your leader, you should always communicate with him. Understand what leaders want, the goals of the team, and the problems that exist in the team. In fact, as a leader, and sometimes very helpless, want to implement a Dongdong, the team's attitude is not positive, want to understand the risks in the project, the project in the scheduled period can not be completed. As a leader, the most feared lack of information and asymmetry. Dick Silk in the reception of the leadership of the work, hard, overtime, encountered any problems, any obstacles are silently wiped out, and finally completed the task. In this process, there must be a lot of important process to let the leader know, otherwise if the task is not completed, the leadership will be very passive. Early communication with the leader on the difficulties and leadership to understand your overall work process and difficulty, will let the leadership feel the trust you have.

4 cock Silk won't show herself

As the saying goes: Wang Po sells melons, puff. In the workplace, there is absolutely no need to hide their own merits, need to show their own advantages. There are a variety of ways to show, the most basic is that you can express their ideas in the weekly, harvest and solve the problems, harvest those things. Can be actively involved in the Department of the Department of Technical Construction and technology sharing, in the Department of Internal Technical programs and others to PK, can be within the company's internal space to write technical blog. And the cock silk always disdain to perform. When a team has a winner, it will be driven more and more winner, more and more people will share, the team atmosphere will gradually change the sense of leadership like.

The actor's road of the cock Silk:

Once as a senior cock silk, began also disdain to do a winner, but with the attempt to change the mentality of the cock silk, slowly found to do winner feel, but also slowly accumulated a lot of experience, the following one by one way to

1 Cock Silk to exercise your language skills

For a dick to die, expressing his ideas and communicating with others requires strong expression. In this way, you need to exercise your eloquence. How to exercise number of their eloquence, more identification is more reading, more thinking, more learning. When you use very professional terminology to explain some phenomena, it becomes more professional. By writing a blog, you can allow yourself to digest the knowledge of books, and express themselves through their own language, and then become their own knowledge. Continuous reading, continuous thinking, continuous writing, can make your language expression ability to improve, and then enhance the speculative ability.

2. Improve your technical ability

Technology is a stud of basic skills, only to improve their basic skills, to have and winner to contend with the opportunity to compete in the technology to defeat winner. Through the study of technology, write some technical articles, deepen the understanding of the ideas behind the technology. When you improve your skills, you become more confident. By learning technology, share some technical experience and slowly improve your influence in the team. Then you will slowly become the winner of other dicks, but this winner from the heart, rather than the purely performing nature.

3 I'm a gangster I'm afraid of who's mentality

Don't be afraid to clash with winner, live in conflict with other people. Learn conflict management. This is more important, this is a change of mindset. If you accumulate through the above two points, you have exercised basic conflict resolution skills. As the introverted you, as long as the technology can be firmly around the solution, it does not rise to the problem of leadership, nothing terrible. The premise is to improve confidence

4 Learning to pick up girls

The essential skill of cock silk is to learn to pick up girls. Why do you say that girls and art is the art of communication. The girl is to say you want to communicate actively, do not expect the woman to come back to you. When you pick up girls, think about how to please the girl actively do something, the face will also be very thick, colleagues should be able to accept the feeling of being denied, and then through continuous communication to understand each other, eventually come together. We and leaders get along with the same way, to find ways for leaders to solve problems, not afraid of leadership of your negation, the process of more and leadership communication.

5 Winner Essential Books

If it is in the field of software development, the following books are equivalent to the important, mandatory tools, the inside of the professional vocabulary if you can blurt out, it is pretty good

Mode-oriented software architecture 1-5 volumes

The path of programmer's cultivation

"Domain Driven Design"

"Enterprise Application Architecture Model"

Analysis mode-Reusable object model

The Myth of man and Month

The road of technical leadership

"Refactoring"

In the industry of technology Daniel, is actually the biggest winner, give us this a bunch of technical cock silk, they have a passion for technology, to contribute some very good works, so that we can learn their knowledge. Dick Silk as long as the hard work, but also finally have a counter-attack day.

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On the self-accomplishment of the actors