One time a day, change my life

A friend needs 9000 yuan to view a computer. His monthly income is only 2000. His wife told him that if you are crazy, you will get a divorce if you buy it. He asked me what to do. I said, you don't deserve the computer. I don't even have the courage to fight for what I like. What will you do in society in the future? He bit his teeth and bought them. He started to work part-time to pay off his debt. Finally, all the remaining funds were paid off within one month. His wife did not leave him because of his madness. His wife brought him into the automobile market and said: husband, we have bought this BMW for a loan. He was scared to death at first. I think my wife is crazy. One year later, he paid off his BMW loan. Yes, you don't even have the courage to pursue your favorite things. You are doomed to be a loser. --
To the unshakable friends in this world


1. an old man loves quiet, but there are often children nearby who have a terrible quarrel. So he called the child and said, "I am so cool. Thank you for making it more lively, after that, each person sends three sugars. The children are very happy. A few days later, each person only gave two, and then gave one, and finally did not give it. The children said angrily: they will never come here again to make you busy. The old man is quiet.

[Realized] grasping the weakness of human nature,
No.

2. Two horses and one truck. A horse is fast, and a horse is slow. So the master moved all the goods in the back to the front. The horse behind me smiled: "cut! The harder you work, the harder you get !" Who knows, the master later thought: since a horse can pull a car, why do they keep two horses? Finally, the lazy horse was killed and eaten. This is the lazy horse effect in economics.

[Realized] Make the boss feel that you are dispensable,
It's not long before you get kicked out.

3. There are two noodle shops in the night market. The booth is adjacent and the seats are the same. A year later, Party A made money to buy a house, and Party B was still unable to buy a house. Why? Originally, B's business was good, but the freshly cooked noodle line was very hot. The customer needed to eat a bowl in 15 minutes. While the booth, the cooked noodle line in ice water soaked for 30 seconds and then to the customer, the temperature is just right.

[Realized] saving time for customers,
Money can come in faster.

4. A Zen master sees a scorpion falling into the water and is determined to save it. The scorpion stabbed his finger. The Zen master has no fear. Once again, I was stabbed again by the scorpion. The other person said: Why did the old man save it? Zen master answer: a man is the nature of a scorpion, and goodness is my nature. Can I give up my nature because of his nature.

[Realized] Our mistake is,
Because the outside world has changed itself too much.

5. Mandela was put under pressure for 27 years and abused. When he became president, he invited three guards who abused him. When Mandela got up and paid tribute to the guards with respect, all the people present and the whole world stood down. He said: When I walked out of the cell and crossed the gate to freedom, I knew that if I could not leave grief and resentment behind me, I would still be in jail.

[Realized] Forgive others,
Actually, it is to sublimate yourself.

6. Someone asked the farmer, "Have you planted wheat ?" Farmer: "No, I am worried that it will not rain ." The man asked, "Are you planting cotton ?" Farmer: "No, I'm worried that the insects have eaten cotton ." The man asked, "What have you planted ?" Farmer: "There is nothing to do. I want to ensure security ."

[Realized] A person who does not want to pay or take risks,
Nothing is a natural thing for him.

7. The three men went out with umbrellas, crutches, and empty hands. When I came back, I got wet with my umbrella, fell down with a cane, and got a good third. It turned out that when the rain came, the umbrella was walking boldly, but it was wet. when walking the muddy road, the crutches were walking rashly, often falling down; nothing left. When the rain came, they hid away, when the road is not good, be careful, but nothing else.

[Realized] many times,
We are not defeated by defects,
Instead, it is defeated in the advantage.

8. In a small town, a merchant opened a gas station, which had a very good business. The second merchant came, opened a restaurant, and the third opened a supermarket, which soon became prosperous. In another town, a merchant opened a gas station for a very good business. The second was coming, and the second gas station was opened. The third and fourth vicious competition was not available to everyone.

[Realized] blindly following others' path
The road will surely be blocked.

9. A crow encounters a pigeon on the way home. Pigeon asked: Where are you going to fly? Crow said: In fact, I don't want to leave, but everyone thinks that my call is not good, so I want to leave. The pigeon told the Crow: Don't waste your effort! If you do not change your voice, it will not be popular anywhere.

[Realize] If you want everything
Can be even better,
Start with changing yourself.

10. A family has three sons who have lived in endless quarrels with their parents since childhood. Their mothers are often bruised and bruised. The boss thought: Sorry, mom! I will be nice to my wife later. The second child thought: It's boring to get married. I will never get married when I grow up! Old Three thought: in the past, my husband could beat his wife like this!

[Realized] Even if the environment is the same,
Different ways of thinking
It will also affect the differences in life.

11. The Monk is responsible for cleaning the fallen leaves of the temple. It takes a long time to finish scanning every day. Someone said to him: "You shake the tree hard before cleaning, shake all the fallen leaves, and you will not need to clean it tomorrow ." The monk thought it was right, and he was happy to do it. But the next day, the courtyard was as full of fallen leaves. No matter how hard you are today, the fallen leaves will float down tomorrow.

[Realized] live in the present.

12. The wild boar and the horse graze together, and the wild boar often make bad, not trample on the grass, or stir up the water. Ma was very angry. He wanted revenge and asked the hunter for help. The hunter said that unless he was riding a horse on his head. Ma retaliated and agreed to the hunter's request. The hunter mounted the horse and defeated the wild boar. Then he took the horse back and tied it to the horse slot. The horse lost its original freedom.

[Realized] You cannot tolerate others,
It will bring misfortune to you.

13. people can only run for about 10 kilometers when they are riding bicycles, and they can only run for about 10 kilometers when they are walking on the accelerator for an hour. People can ride high-speed trains, if you close your eyes, you can also run 300 kilometers in an hour. If you take a plane and eat delicious food, you can run 1000 kilometers in an hour.

[Realized] the person is the person,
Same effort
Different platforms and carriers,
The results are different.