People have to learn to give up

Franklin once said that giving up is a choice that must be faced in life, learning to give up all the burdens of life and travel light.
　　
The Ancients Cloud: The Sea Na Hundred rivers, have tolerance is big, Bili, no desire is just. This is actually a realm, a kind of accomplishment. The fish and bear can not have both, a person's time is limited, limited energy, life is limited, know timely give up is a kind of intelligence and detachment.
　　
Give up, not cowardice, not inferiority, nor self-abandonment, but also not trapped in a desperate desire to get a relief, but after a bitter lesson to make a choice. There are many things in the world, not our efforts can be achieved, some rely on fate, some depend on the opportunity, some we can only see the mountain to see the mood of the water to appreciate. Not their own not forced, can not get to give up.
　　
There are many things in life that need to give up, give up is to face the sober choice of living. The value of life may lie in its one-time, you do not regret the opportunity, all the happiness and sadness, all smiles and tears, can only represent the past.
　　
Some people say that knowing how to choose is a philosopher, I want to say, know how to give up is more wise. Choice is the wisdom of the interpretation of giving up, give up is the choice of the leap, learning to give up is actually a mature. Giving up is a kind of wisdom. It only need you no longer insist, give up is also a sober, life is very complex, but sometimes very simple, simple to you only to get and abandon. May be achieved often can be justified, calm heart, and abandon but need a great courage and determination. To give up is not to let go passively, but to need wise thoughts and broad bosom.
　　
Heard a story: A mother in the kitchen cooking, suddenly heard three-year-old son in the living room howl. My son put his hand into a vase and couldn't pull it out. Mother hurried forward to help, hard all the tricks, son's hand still can't pull out. Under the helpless, the mother had to smash valuable antique vases. The son's hand was safe, but he still held his fist tightly. Mother uneasy, break apart son small hand, but found in hand clutching a five cents coin. Mother understood that the original son's hand is not to pull out, but do not want to loosen the fist for five cent coins.
　　
From this story, we can see that the most important thing is not in the moment of gain and loss, but to understand not to choose the need, know not to give up don't. It is the essence of abandonment that the so-called "two harms take its light, confrontation can only phase right take its weight". Some things do not belong to us, hard pursuit will not have the result. Only learn to choose to know how to give up, can mourn life, have a brighter mood.
　　
Therefore, learning to give up is also a kind of happiness, such as willing to get.

People have to learn to give up