From: http://gisattic.cnblogs.com/archive/2005/11/26/284922.html
1st: understanding how to "listen to people" is a prerequisite for the popularity of others.
2nd: only good at displaying "Real yourself" can attract others to their attention.
3rd: the key to the success or failure of first-time communication is a proper cold greeting.
4th: To win others' trust in yourself, you must first show it to others.
5th: Be careful not to be too close to others, maintain proper distance, and contribute to lasting friendship.
6th: smiling is a valuable asset for enhancing interpersonal relationships.
7th: Remembering the name of the other party helps further interactions.
8th: "punctuality" can show the good moral character of an individual.
9th: dressing properly helps improve interpersonal relationships.
10th plan: a good attitude can promote exchanges between the two parties.
11th: The correct praise makes interactions more pleasant.
12th: If you contact a friend, you must praise each other in a timely manner.
13th: praise for friends must be good, not too much, and over-flattering is not sincere.
14th: do not be responsive to the requirements of your friends, but do what you can.
15th: if there is a slight misunderstanding between friends, the "third party" can be used as a buffer to relieve misunderstanding.
17th Plan: to communicate with people, you must be sure to maintain a strict proportion.
18th plan: cultivate the spirit of "pushing yourself and others.
19th plan: to better understand others' psychology of "Love your house and your money.
20th plan: make good use of the philosophy of "internal and external circles.
21st: Learn to accept others with "tolerance" and "tolerance" to promote mutual understanding.
22nd: sometimes it takes the initiative to identify errors, not only will not degrade your identity, but will increase your credibility.
23rd: the open-minded team can not hurt themselves.
24th: "Understanding" is not about imposing others, but about infecting others through your own actions.
25th plan: directly look at the other party and sincerely say, "I'm sorry ."
26th: "trust" is the foundation of friendship.
27th plan: Give up private self and start from the interests of the other party to easily inspire others to use their own resources.
28th: treat others with relief.
29th: the foundation of friendship lies in "being nice to others ".
30th: people should be confused.
31st: to treat others, you must be modest.
32nd plan: humor can be used in a timely manner to resolve hostility and tension.
33rd: treat friends with a large number of macros.
34th: do not be afraid to take the initiative in interpersonal communication.
35th: honesty is the basic principle for making friends.
36th: Timely "Confusion" is a rare lubricant for interpersonal relationships.