Principles of getting along with sincere friends

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Each of us has our own social relationship system. These relationships are composed of circles, student circles, XX hobby circles, and colleagues' circles. These circles are made up of friends, and the maintenance of friends becomes very important. The 80 s are self-willed generation. Unlike the rich experience of having multiple children after and after the 70 s and the 60 s or earlier, the experience of having to get along with siblings may be seldom taken into account by others, or even affect the stability of friendship. It is worth talking about how to get along with friends better and what principles should we respect to maintain long-term and profound friendship.
Friend Relationship Principle
1. Never speak ill of friends in the back, nor gossip about friends in the face of non-acquaintances. Do not speak ill of a friend or partner, even if they do not like him or her partner very much.
2. When a stranger is present with a friend, he must give his friend a face and say more about his friend's advantages, because the Chinese people have a face. To give face, you must have an audience, those standing on the stairs, and those standing on the stage. In some occasions, you must be willing to stand on the stage for your friends.
3. Never count your friends with a single value. Everyone is a special individual and has a place where they shine. We cannot say that the friends who drive BMW are more valuable than those who ride bicycles.
4. When a good friend encounters difficulties and asks for help, do not refuse as much as possible.
5. Do not know the contact information of a friend or partner or try to know. Reduce the chance of getting along with friends and partners. A lot of good friends have a broken affection, which is difficult to bridge because of a woman or a man in the middle.
6. When a friend is at a low point, he cares more about him. When a friend is proud of the spring breeze, he should be reminded to sing a different tone.
7. Make friends without any influence. Everyone's career has a peak, which is underestimated. The starting point of making friends cannot be for the purpose of exploitation. I think most people hate friends who turn forces. If we are surrounded by powerful friends, we will live in a fear. Because we must maintain certain conditions to prevent being kicked by "friends.
8. Everyone has shortcomings. When you know little-known shortcomings of your friends, don't be surprised. don't comment on them. All we need to do is accept. This kind of feeling is a favorite of friends.
9. sincere friends may not always be together every day. People who stick together every day may not be really friends. The method of really not really distinguishing is very simple. It mainly depends on the imaginary feelings during communication. B is more sincere and mutual trust, and there are more real things.
I hope everyone can have their own good brothers and sisters. When a person has these intimate friends, they will have more security and greater psychological energy. When we need help, we know that our friends don't hesitate to help us.