Programmer's eyes

If the eyes are the window of the soul, the eyes are the content displayed in the window. Most people cannot know what is displayed in their own window of mind, but they can see their emotions, attitudes, hearts and personalities through the window of others. Therefore, if we want to know others, in addition to listening to their words and watching their behavior, we also need to take a look at his eyes.

A person with a clear mind looks like the sky without clouds; a person with a pure heart looks like a clear lake; an honest person looks like a clear moon; A witty person looks like a bright star in the night sky; a man in the city of Shenzhen has eyes like the clouds of the sun; a sly person looks like a rat in a hole; A cruel person with a tongue like a snake ...... It is said that experienced people can identify thieves from the crowd only by looking at them. Senior Judges can tell whether they lie based on the eyes of the person being examined. Zeng guofan, a self-proclaimed man-to-man and well-known author of the book "ice", even claimed to be able to identify man-to-man, man-to-man, and man-to-man, based on his eyes. It can be seen that people may use their words and deeds to conceal their inner world, but it is not easy to close the window of mind and prevent others from seeing anything in the window.

Judging a person's character, heart, or career with his eyes requires a certain degree of human experience, even if he does not need the same level as Zeng guofan. However, judging a person's mood and attitude with eyes can be competent as long as he is not insensitive or his or her IQ is too low. People can read kindness and love from their parents' eyes, love and appreciation from the eyes of the opposite sex, and kindness and friendliness from the eyes of friends, you can read arrogance and arrogance from your boss's eyes, you can read respect and courtesy from the lower-level eyes, and you can read help and pity from the beggar's eyes, you can read from the eyes of some people the suspicion or alert, hostility or hate, lust or greed ...... Some eyes can only be said, but some eyes may be reminiscent: angry eyes may remind people of the tongue, and jealous eyes may remind people of the cold knife, the eyes of greedy people will remind people of hunger, hunger, and tigers. The eyes of charming people will remind people of the bound lambs ...... The eyes that a high person can see are mostly respect, worship, envy, meality, pity, or true or false loyalty. What a common person can see is, it may be friendly, loving, trusting, and sincere, or arrogant, indifferent, cold, scornful, violent, or cruel ......

Although there are many kinds of eyes, they can be roughly divided into two types. One type of eyes is what people want, such as affection, such as friendliness, such as respect, such as trust, such as sympathy ...... Another kind of eyes is what people hate and even fear, such as arrogance, as well as jealousy, as cold as cruel ...... However, what kind of eyes a person often receives is related to his character, talent, appearance, status, etc. The eyes of a street beggar can only be sympathy, contempt, or disgust, A poor and incompetent man or an ugly woman is hard to see in the eyes of the opposite sex; a person who is at a low position who is sent all day long, it is difficult to see respect in others' eyes.

"Society is a mirror. You smile at it, and it also smiles at you ." This is doubtful, because the mirror will not smile at him, even if the small people sometimes make a smile. If the eyes of others are the mirror of a person's status, it is an appropriate metaphor. A person who can read various eyes does not need to listen to others' comments. As long as he looks at others' eyes, he will understand his position in others' minds. When we interact with people, we must first learn to read our eyes if we want to grasp the proper size and decide to advance and retreat in a timely manner without missing the opportunity or getting into embarrassment or humiliation.