Can endure the small bullying, will not provoke the bigger evil insult, faced with all the small unfair treatment, or the benefit distribution conflict, can retreat, does not struggle petty, will not suffer more losses.
In reality, we can easily see that whether it is between people, groups, or even countries, races, often just a word of discord, a very small thing can not be tolerated, causing many tragedies, disaster, prison, the loss of property, the country's unrest. The lessons are painful and the parties often repent.
In the face of other people's bullying, obstacles, and even all seemingly unjust situation, we can be resigned, not to dispute, to resolve disputes, eliminate the disaster. This requires magnanimous, and more need of wisdom. First, the size to distinguish clearly, know how to choose: the immediate fame and fortune to enjoy, personal custodians for the small, all the public welfare, their own moral promotion is the great. people have a higher goal to pursue, nature to small fame disputes easy to put down. The ancients said, "Full recruit damage, modest benefit", humility and patience not only did not lose, but help us to achieve moral self-restraint, to be praised by all, bring greater blessing. What's the smart man doing?
--from the appreciation of the motto "not recorded in the vernacular"
"Police language" is stingy, not to be affected by the atmosphere, eat a small loss, will not eat a big loss