"Seven Habits of high-performance People-Essence Edition" reading excerpts

1, the surface of words and deeds after all cannot conceal the information behind it.

2, admitting their ignorance is often the first step of knowledge.

3, only the first to abide by their commitment to abide by the promise of others.

4, People's behavior is always repeated repeatedly. So excellence is not a single act, but a habit.

5, the thought decides the action, the action decides the habit, the habit decides the character, the character decides the destiny.

accustomed to a Active and Proactive

1. The core of the influence circle is the ability to make commitments and keep promises. The essence of initiative and the most clear expression is to have a commitment to themselves or others, and then never break the promise.

2. Two ways to control life directly: one is to make a commitment and keep the promise, and the other is to set goals and put them into practice. Even if it is only a matter of commitment, the courage to take the first step will also help nurture inner integrity, which means that we have enough self-control, courage and strength to assume more responsibility. Once again make a commitment to keep the promise, one day the honor will surpass the power of emotion.

Habit Two the beginning of the end

The most effective way to end is to write a personal mission statement, that is, the philosophy or basic beliefs of life. The declaration focuses on what kind of person (character) you want to be and what career (contributions and accomplishments) you can achieve and the values and principles that have been laid down for that purpose.

Personal Mission Statement:

1. Never compromise on the issue of integrity.

2, did not listen to the pros and cons of the views, do not jump to the conclusion.

3, the use of idle time waiting.

4. Plan tomorrow's work today.

Habit Three first events--Principles of self-management

Urgent things are often just important to others, not necessarily to yourself.

habit Four Double -Win thinking--the principle of interpersonal leadership

The world is big, everyone has enough space to foothold, others do not have to be regarded as their own loss.

Habit Five Synergy--the principle of empathy communication

First go to seek to understand each other, and then strive to let each other understand themselves. This principle is the key to effective interpersonal communication.

If you want to develop a truly effective interpersonal communication habit, you cannot rely on skill alone. First of all, you need to have a personality that allows others to trust and enjoy, on the basis of training empathy listening skills, and then set up an emotional account to achieve heart and heart communication.

Empathy listening refers to listening for the purpose of comprehension, and requires listening to understand their thinking patterns and feelings from the point of view of the speaker. The essence of empathy is not to agree with each other, but to fully and deeply understand each other emotionally and intellectually.

In addition to material, the greatest survival needs of mankind originate from the psychology, that is understood, affirmed, recognized and appreciated.

You should always think about understanding people first, this is what you can do.

Don't be too impatient, be patient and respect each other. People don't confide in you until you can empathize with them.

Habit Six Comprehensive Synergy--the principle of creative cooperation

The basic mentality of integrated comprehensive effect is: if a person with considerable ingenuity and I disagree, then the other side of the proposition must have I have not yet realized the mystery, worth to understand.

Respect the differences between people, when someone disagrees with your point of view, you should try to find a third way to synthesize the effect, generally it always exists. If you insist on winning the win mode and are really willing to try to understand each other, you can find a solution that will benefit everyone.

habit Seven constant renewal-the principle of balanced self-renewal

Trivial things can also lead to amazing results, and every thought, I think there is no small matter in the world.

"The success of the personal field every day" is the key to cultivating seven habits, entirely within the sphere of individual influence.

Conscience is a gift that helps us to judge whether we have deviated from the right principles and then guides us towards these principles.

There is no shortcut to slim motivation. The rule of harvest always plays a dominant role, man sows, reap, not many and many.

"Seven Habits of high-performance People-Essence Edition" reading excerpts