"The Art of Communication", the King's Speech

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The King's Speech ( King ' Sspeech Thefilm tells the story of a king who has suffered from stuttering, and who has finally beaten himself.

The actor's acting is very delicate, the king and the language coach's play is very attractive, the king at first remained aloft, but the coach with delicate feelings and outstanding ability to win the trust. Finally let the King remove the mask, discover the real self. It was not so much that the king stood up to the stuttering that he overcame himself. At the critical moment of World War II, a powerful speech inspired a nation and even the world.

Although the causes of stuttering are many, psychological factors may account for a large number of reasons. A technical expert I know, with a clear mind and fluency in a small-scale meeting, can be a big loss in the number of public speeches. There was once a colleague, in the host of their own team meeting is the logistics tent, can be in high-level meetings but stuttering up.

People's reaction to the tension, some stuttering, some rol back and forth, there will be a noticeable increase in speed, there are frequent mantra or drag long voice. These habits may also have, we are in small areas of conversation not too much attention, can be in a large number of occasions or conference calls, but it seems so abrupt. I had attended a lecture of the Education Big café many years ago, the speed is fast, the passion is flying, I left the speech content on the next day to forget a clean, can be full of his mantra you Know !

I will be in the situation when I am nervous, but slowly consciously in the speech to pay attention to these problems. Is there any way to improve it? Here are some of my personal experiences.

Don't take yourself seriously.

Tension before speech is very normal, moderate tension will mobilize people's potential and appeal. But excessive stress can affect people's performance. Said Gener, people nervous or because too much value of their own, too value the views of others on their own, too take their own seriously. Once I had a temporary mandate to accommodate hundreds of people in the occasion, in English speaking was not particularly familiar with the content, to say that the beginning of the leg is not shiver is nonsense. Later, trying to focus on what others think of themselves, transfer to the content of the speech itself, but only a message to convey the channel. The speaker was relaxed and the audience felt comfortable.

You are good enough

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Our childhood education is not the best, only better. It is true that you are the one who is racing with yourself, but at a certain point you are the present, and you are not perfect, but you are competent for the work of the moment. People can not be all-encompassing, under the stage there will be more than you smart and knowledgeable people, do not have to arrogant, not to belittle.

Instead of being timid for fear of embarrassment, let go of being an imperfect self.

I carefully raised my doubts during a lecturer's training, what about my English accent? My character is not strong enough to control the situation what to do? Then there was a woman who suggested that women's voices were relatively lacking in strength. The teacher awakened me, he said that everyone may have a so-called short board, but it is important to do your own. Your accent is a part of you, but it doesn't affect your being a good lecturer.

Language is a gift of heaven. Everyone is the king of their own territory, using the power of language, to publish the King's Speech it!

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"The Art of Communication", the King's Speech