[Read] No dream, why far away

Is this the life I want? This proposition is too big, I will not go to the bottom, in short, the first secure, to feed themselves, has been fortunate. Even if the heart is very big, the dream is very far away, so how? Can not resist, even a little afraid of change, a little evasion of the meaning. Of course, I know that it will not always be so, just not sure when that day will come.

We left Hunan, all the places are the same, destined to be a passer-by for a lifetime. We are the lucky ones who live in the basement, with the newspaper looking at employment information. There will be more choices and temptations in the future, and I hope that one day we can change our future because we are good enough, not because we are not very good.

When at a loss, all the changes are right. This will be the greatest change in your life.

This life no longer the scene, who knows the beauty of it, just repeatedly say we want to be together, together, together. Say more, do not do it, it seems to have nothing to do with the promise, that is another thing.

Years past, now think of these, years quiet good, the sky, remember all is everyone's good. Warm as yesterday, but can only embrace the air. At that time the gnashing of teeth, sworn, those accusations, hate, one can not say. So you can be indifferent to say, you are doing wrong, and I, also have no.

The greatest privilege of youth is that I am not bruised and wounded, so everything is possible.

Fen-shen ignores money, and only wants to live in literature. Do not laugh at me, young always have a variety of attempts, all the wake up after many years.

But I don't think it's a waste of time. The most ferocious styled of the North Drift clan is: As long as not embarrassed to return to the hometown, it is not lost. Because there is a very fashionable word called "experience". The more restless and expectant, the less likely it is to come, and the more calm and silent, the more you will get the results you want.

Seeing a lot of loser, complaining about hard work and thinking that they are creating wealth for their bosses for a less than satisfying salary is one of the reasons why they become loser. I am fortunate to understand these truths, so that I can not only get along with the team happy, but also create good results. Say is to contribute to the program group, in fact, this is not for my resume and word-of-mouth bonus? This so-called success, in the TV station, just a passing, but give me the value, is can enjoy a lifetime Ah!

Often heard people say, into society, a few friends. Disagree that these words are extremely narrow. I think as long as sincere people, fate to, at any time can meet and you know a friend.

People in the north, must have a mixed time, that is our compulsory course. That period of time without the weight of life, as if fate is on the top of the head, reach out to touch. Do not think about the future, happy to live. The moment of laughter hope time stagnation, every drunk will promise forever-forever love, Forever is a child, never tomorrow, forever so selfish to live.

Whatever we do, it boils down to a bowl of rice that doesn't have to be stubborn enough to look too heavy to get the most out of the rewards you want.

Life is a process of trade-offs. If you give up the comfort of your hometown, you will have to accept the drift of the north, and you will have to accept the uncertainty of freedom when you give up the sense of stability of the nine-five-night office workers, and you will have to accept the challenge of life pressure to give up the rhythm of your routine. You want to stand in the distance, Leave the place where you stand now. In short, you have to give up a, you have to accept B, but that is not because B has a more unique charm to attract you? For example, the strong heart of the exhausted, uncertain surprises, challenges make you become independently, and so on. These are the riches that you are not seeking to protect and to be fed. Yes, I have money.

The more people grow, the more they think about the meaning of life. So, when I have enough money to live, to buy a house, but more unhappy. Because, I have more time to find out, originally I do not know what is the meaning of life. Of course I want to be successful. The dream of rock climbing, climb to the highest point, and then get a trophy, what is written on the trophy is not clear. is not every successful person with a little tragic meaning?

He said, people this life, the more you grow up to do subtraction, your title, your love, your pursuit, your strengths, your friends, the less the better. People who are too complicated must be less likely to succeed than simple people. Do you know? A lot of people in the cause of the strong, the people talk about things, often point to a cup of white water. Those who look at the menu dazzling do not know how to choose the people, and eventually reduced to a loser.

He went on to say, Destiny is there, you choose what, it will give back to you what, absolutely fair. Hong Kong has a writer Li Bihua, she is good at writing strange feelings, writing scripts so that countless professional writers can only be a match, but she chose to stay away from the crowd, no telephone and internet, home only a fax machine to contact the outside world. She kept the innocence of the children, refused to enter the WTO, and then wrote the world to marvel at the works. Of course she can choose to be a screenwriter into the mainstream vision, but that is different success, are worthy of admiration, see what kind of life makes you more comfortable.

I was so strong when I was young that I could suffer a little injury. Love hurts, it's nothing to do with life.

Life is like a play, play well their own can.

Every man must be the way. Love a good, and then by a love injury, can not climb up, go out, pain like wanjianchuanxin, humble to willing to spend 10 years of life for the lost feelings, and ultimately unable to recover. Then you will change a body of flesh and blood, and you will become stronger if you do not die after being hurt. When I was young, I looked at the Dragon Ball and said that the people of Isaiah were narrow escape again and again, and finally became the super-race that no one could surpass, that is the truth.

Think of that year, run gaunt me, and friends in this huge Beijing city, hard to save money, but also naïve to think that by their own efforts can make her a future.

Hong Kong poet Lin Xi said: In fact, you like a person, like Mt. Fuji. You can see it, but you can't move it. Is there any way you can move a Mount Fuji? The answer is, you walk past yourself. Love is the same, it is enough to stroll.

Now people, always love to use money to measure value, as if to make how much money to be known, how many people enjoy applause, just calculate the so-called success, otherwise is the failure and wasted. Moreover, most people are lost in such a way.

Start a business and behave as a party B. To make money, you have to learn to let go of pride and stubbornness.

Some people just drive past you, get off the enthusiasm to say hello, ask a way, then get on the car, to his direction.

Too much reliance on a person or an institution can make you more and more flustered.

I never thought that I would come across this situation and think that we would go on forever. It is as if our five people came to Beijing and hugged each other and thought that they would not be parted. What is the use of countless vows? Those once bright and beautiful oath, like sashimi, delicious, but the shelf life is very short. The world does not break the feast, the separation will always separate, how can people about life? Of course, cannot be left or right, but can try to let us fly toward a better place.

He said that people in this life will meet a lot of people, maybe there are 10,000, maybe 100,000, but no two people are the same. These people are playing different roles and you meet, some with your heart, some let you hate, some like a small day, just drive passing you, get off the warm dozen a greeting, ask a way, then get on the car, to belong to his direction. Would you be sorry to ask the passer-by? Maybe, but what then, he has stepped on the accelerator, on a good journey, will all oblivion. We don't have to fret about anything, just say goodbye.

All the grievances that come from you are not strong enough.

Helping people is helping themselves. I am not a successful man, every step is also in the exploration, nature is difficult. If it were not for the existence of a friend, I would not have such ambition and strength.

When our lives encounter some irresistible factors, bad people, bad things, the appearance of bad, negative, unbearable changes, do not need to be excited and depressed. Because that is your energy accumulation to a certain degree of natural law, is a growth and renewal of the early warning, mandatory to help you make positive, correct, more meaningful changes, while the surrounding friends to a new round of selection and elimination, left right, good, give up the wrong, bad. The big wave washes the sand, the metabolism. You will get the legendary broken cocoon into a butterfly. So, it should be understood that there is a congestion, despite the pain, but the explanation is almost ready.

Su Shi's that the first "Lushan Misty Rain": Lushan Misty Rain Zhejiang Tide, did not see thousands of like hate, to have to have nothing to do, Lushan rain Zhejiang tide. The general meaning is, a person yearning for the beautiful scenery of Lushan misty rain and the surging of Zhejiang Qiantang River Tides Water, regret has not had the opportunity to boarding Lushan, witnessed Zhejiang Qiantang River tides Water, and then he finally personally in Lushan and Qiantang, saw the misty rain and surging tide, but found nothing special feeling, only feel, Lushan rain is Lushan rain, Qiantang River Tides Water is just qiantang river tides water. Our life has too many such expectations, always want to see the dream to achieve the good, but do not know the most memorable is actually your arrival before the process of walking.

Thank. Just, the cruelty of life is--grow up after you finally understand that the so-called dream, is actually one after another trivial, is you never willing to actively mention the pain, is your low-key forward when the heart is hidden by the most soft string of protection. After the wind and frost, will still be in, occasionally toggle, there will be a crisp sound. Just, it sounds, it hurts so much. Understand this, no regrets, is the real growth.

Endure life, only to live splendid.

The surface of the fierce is due to the inner thin, the real power as the lake is generally quiet.

Most of the characters in life are just experiences, not your final identity. You're just a lover, a child, a friend. That's all.

Always adhere to a pure heart to see the world, this will feel crystal clear, so will consciously ignore its ugly, false side. Always think that only the heart of the dirty people, will feel the waste in front of the world, will feel dark world nowhere bright. The world is soft and beautiful, but the world is also very complex, and occasionally it will disappoint you.

There is no master in this world, there are many people kneeling, and they become masters.

This is also a impetuous awkward era, too many people eager to succeed, but also do not want to run too far away from the flow too much sweat, had to do ugly, and ultimately did not achieve glorious success, but accidentally became poor clown.

The master is not a clown, but he is still glowing on this gorgeous stage. Everyone has their own laws of survival, society can accept him, there must be more deep reasons. As if our heart, as The Apprentice on the road of entrepreneurship, should try to accept all kinds, whether wise or stupid, gentleman or villain, all calmly face, and not only to accommodate those you think of the kind of people. Good people teach us to love each other, but clowns teach us to grow.

Blame yourself. Not good enough to be so dependent on other people, not sober enough to trust all the dazzling coats, not strong enough to waste time to meet their play. Why should you blame others? It's all my fault. Knowing that it is a clown, but also to buy tickets to watch, itself is a willing to play the audience. Just, some choose angrily leave, midway exit, some should barely always see a curtain call.

Tang Dynasty Ming Chen Li Mian when Kaifeng Fu Shing, once pardoned a prisoner who strayed into the Greenwood. A few years later he resign to visit Hebei and ran into the prisoner. Delighted to receive Li Mian, he arranged good wine and invited the benefactor to stay at home. He and his wife in the evening to discuss: This is the man who saved my life, ah, how can I repay him? Wife pondering a bit, said: "How about 1000 silk?" The prisoner said: No, too little, life-saving benefactor extraordinary. And his wife said, how about 2000 horses? The prisoner thought again and again, and replied, "too little." The wife said slowly: "Better, kill him." The prisoner agreed. It is said that Li Mian after the lucky escape, but the story passed down, whether the play said or not, are worth pondering. So-called groß such as revenge, a grain of rice to raise benefactor, a stone rice raise enemies. The wisdom of our forefathers must have their truth. The appropriate help is the accumulation of blessings, and without the security of trust and gifts, often in exchange for the other person's most resolute betrayal and injury.

Excessive trust is the beginning of collapse.

During World War II, a Jewish family fled the slaughter, calling their two sons to flee alone. The older son went to find the man he had helped, and the result was betrayed. The second son went to find the man who had helped him, and was rescued. The story tells us that the people who help you will probably always help you, and the people you have helped are likely to betray you. blindly help others, but forget the side has been helping me to cherish the talent worthy.

Being a good person is not a trade, just a tutor. Helping others is a happy thing. To be a good man with a clear conscience, to add sunshine to the world, but also for his life Ji Shan.

I was so good to him, why would he do this to me, I was so good to him, why he did not understand? In fact, to a person good, do not want to return, know how to pay people, will understand that all stems from their own conscience, goodwill and upbringing. The other side will not love you, will not be grateful, will not reciprocate, even will not remember, it is their business. Giving is a kind of practice and introspection, is a special way, let you become a better self.

The loser I define is a person other than a winner and a loser. They talk about dreams, grumble, they always feel underappreciated, and happily curse all the winners.

Many people's so-called personality, are only a lack of parenting performance, or, is to disguise the excuse of inferiority.

The person who can tell the basis of what, the heart actually all know is what. When you say what you are, you lose. Don't you really know why you're being underestimated? You are poor, humble, weak, clumsy, incompetent, and nothing. Just a lot of people do not understand, to get rid of these, must first accept their own not good enough, with the sun soft heart to face the world's many inequities. Do not ask why, you will find that life will be much more satisfactory.

What I understand can be said to be winner is that he lives well, is not afraid of failure, laughter is open, love is full, he wins the respect of the wise man and the love of the child, he has the right position in this world, the fulfilment of the tasks he should perform; when he leaves this world, it will be better than when he comes. -whether by planting a plant, leaving a perfect poem, or saving a soul. So, all failure is a rehearsal of success, and ultimately the world, all the losers. They are shining in their hearts, marching forward, never giving up their dreams. When you realize this, you're almost done.

All the good encounters, are the praise before parting.

But we are all want to nostalgic time of the person, will occasionally ask a question, then those who, where? Now, all right? This industry, often meet warm friends, hug very close, separation will not give up, but really how many?

A friend is a life. This is a good saying, I used to be told that you are not important, it is important to whom you are with. So, the curve of your life is made up of the people around you. There are also scientific studies that show that people are the only animals that accept cues. So to stay away from the negative energy, they will unknowingly steal your dream, make you gradually goodliness, become mediocre.

All the good encounters, are the praise before parting.

What's the way? All the majestic to the end will become trivial, this is life.

There is a loophole in any perfect life.

Conduct creates Feng Shui, character decides Destiny "

The friend of the Buddha said, the edge came, let us cherish the edge. The Edge is gone, it is sent to the edge. I do not like the "fate" of this romantic and frivolous words, it is often used as an excuse and hurt the spring of autumn, I do not want to use this word to summarize our encounter, it is too hasty, too artificial. I think, the vast crowd, our meeting is just a coincidence, but so hard-won. Therefore, we must know how to be thankful, full of affectionate, can.

Tribulation is like a mirror, you can see your own soul,

Keep your mouth shut and keep your heart alone

A man's heart is a great ordeal, and it is big enough to hold everyone.

He went on to say that you might think that all that is being done is because of the efforts that have been made, but those who make a living in Beijing are not qizaotanhei. This is not self-hypnosis, but I think, you are now encountering difficulties, not difficult, this world, in addition to death, other, I think can see a little bit. I this decades, after a lot of wind and rain, the busiest stage, I can not accompany relatives, can not make the slightest mistake, even can not be sick, but I think it is a very good thing in life. Because life is not long, we are not to live in a mansion, driving a car, enjoy extravagant life and live. Many people think I have fallen now, it is strange that I did not, as usual exercise, about friends afternoon tea, dinner at home soup, compared to a prosperous career, more than a peace and law. Maybe tomorrow there will be new opportunities to find me, and then into another world, but I do not imagine, first of all, the most precious today. Because, when the business is strong, we enjoy the work, the cause is low, then enjoy life. In this way, there is no white life.

The so-called complex, is: The son is the mother's eternal enemy, they know what the mother likes, but also know how to be a mother the most happy, but they did not do so. Clearly know the mother's heart where the softest, but always to stab the place, and then his pain to die.

There is no turning back for the wanderer to choose, either to die or to hometown. Do these efforts, is not entirely for their own free and easy to live, but on this journey, if not good enough, that is filial piety.

Children and parents are a process of exchanging roles.

He said, if not because of faith Buddha, he may not come out, that taste too painful, people in the face of life and death appear so helpless. Chanting every night, there are always some Buddha can appease the hearts of people, and then slowly accepted the fact. Just the process of acceptance is cruel, but also with endless regret, hate their own age ignorant ignorant, always think that parents will never die. You walk around, go back, they're still there, you don't bother to call, because you feel that you can dial that number at any time, they will answer. Later found that the original is not so, they are slowly getting old, the majesty of the Qiyu Aircondition gradually lost. There are more white hairs, more wrinkles, and sometimes you have to say two times before they can hear what you are saying. Not only that, one day they will completely leave us.

Gentleness is not cowardice, not compromise, but a more resilient and long-tempered force.

You'll miss it, and it doesn't belong to you.

Only the dirty people will spit on the red artist.

He smiled and said, when people enter the WTO, inevitably encounter all kinds, they are different from you, but it is not necessarily bad. Smile is just an attitude, not necessarily trust, you have to learn.

Life will meet thousands of passers-by without requiring everyone to have the same values and ways of speaking. Tolerance, indifferent, and then continue to do their own can

The world never changes least bit because of your anger, it is softer and the world is better.

He said, when I left home, began my wandering life, unable to accompany the old parents, I will no longer care about good. Of course, will not be sentimental to say, not good. Anyway, it's all your choice. The number on the account is growing, and many people tell me that you are turning over. Turn what? Not homeless, single from one crew to another.

Not to be negative and weary, don't worry about me. Just want to share with you some of my feelings of compassion, life needs compassion, will progress, you are the same. After compassion, do not regret, do not belittle yourself, this is our way.

Turn over, the back is a copy of his lyrics, is the song "Little Star". Little star, fly with you, do not need to give me any legends; shining Star, please give me light, to find back the past the joy of leaking eyes, small stars, bustling compared to find who is worth not to abandon, small star, the original again jewels, unable to you; Little star, fly to me, The light does not need any legend; shining Star, how many centuries, only to understand that leisure is the ultimate trend; a meteor, compared with you, will find all things have a deadline; a little star, the original jewels, unable to replace you; a meteor, compared with you, will find everything has a deadline; So I can't forget.

Experienced some death, so understand the fact that these differences are not far away from us, but never to do a serious farewell, as if always feel that the next time, will cause some missed.

I asked the punk, is it worth it for the path? ' It's worth it, even if it's wrong, ' she says, ' but when you're young you gotta do something wrong. I said the path is ugly, family is also general, you like him what. The Teddy Boy said, the path likes to laugh, and the word writes well. Now think about it, that's a very touching thing. When you are young you can play, sing, skate, play electric, learn, run, play Rubik's Cube, draw and like you, grow up as long as there is no money you will be useless.

Many people like to break up after the breakup, he was so in love with me is lying to me? He promised to take care of me for all eternity? He said the whole world loves me only one is also false? In fact, he said these times are true, all of your previous details are true, at that time he also touched the conscience said. It's just that the only thing in the world that doesn't change is that everything is changing. In short, don't give up hope.

Love is a matter of urgency. We are always competing with ourselves, so we often find that it is too late.

What do you understand, winner and loser, respectively? Answer: Is winner or loser, care whether a person can have a clear conscience, do a deeds of free people, rather than the fragmented pseudo-fickle dough. The former is winner and the latter is loser. Even if you have everything on the surface, you can lose your own loser, Americans is a divided patient and actor, disguised as a face to win the approval of others, trapped in the script and costumes, unable to be a free man.
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In the above excerpt from the book

Read the feeling: The writer is the author of the North Drift struggle story, the author is also Hunan people, so soon read, so it is suitable for every wandering people read, no matter how the situation, or success, or failure, or fall into mediocrity, read will have resonance.

[Read] No dream, why far away