[Reading English every day] changing the world today, what can one do?

Author: gnuhpc
Source: http://www.cnblogs.com/gnuhpc/

"When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves ."

~ Victor Frankl

Sometimes I think that if I cocould change the world, and run everything the way I want, then the world wocould be a better place. i'm a good guy. I have good intentions. I want the best for everyone; so it sounds like a good plan, right?

Why not just make me the king of the world? I wowould have the smartest people in the world serving in my cabinet to solve all the important issues that I don't know much about. The rest will work itself out.

The truth of the matter is that we 've all had that thought in our minds at one point or another. it's our ego's natural yearning. if only I got my way. if only I ruled the world. an even greater truth is that none of us are going to become the king of the world anytime soon. it wowould probably be a very lonely job, anyway. too response responsibilities, too much on one person's shoulders.

So how do we go about changing the world if we don't have supreme reign over everything? The bad news is that it's still our individual responsibility. despite not being the kings of the world, the changes we make as individuals can and will impact the rest of the world if executed with great precision and passion.

Where we make the most impact

I am convinced that we can create the most change in the world by concentrating our resources where we can have the most potential impact. this focus, unlike spreading our resources thin, allows us to have a more direct impact on individuals.

The part of the world in which we make the most impact, whether we like it or not, is within our families and small circles of friends. we may be successful in converting our family into believers, and they may even turn out to be our biggest group of supporters, or not. the point, however, does not lie in the way they treat us, but rather it's in our behavior, and the actions we exhibit from our E Nd; the way we treat them!

Being able to express compassion, patience, love, and understanding for the people in our families, despite opposing views belief systems, allows us to expand our ability to empathize with others. these abilities, which in my opinion are critical in interpersonal relationships, will become ingrained in us as second nature.

The fact that we have such a high level of influence on the people closest to us, our families and close friends, will make them more susceptible to picking up on these behaviors and adopting them as their very own. thus, we spread compassion, patience, love and understanding. from one person leading by example to another.

Taking impact to the next level

While transforming the world for our own families can be very fulfilling, amount of our egos (N. self; conceited; Self-awareness) will strive for prolific (adj. productive; rich) Change in the world. in one sense, our egos 'Mission is to conquer the world. whether it conquers it with a message of love or destruction depends on the individual ego.

You may think that family does not need to be a first step, and that you are perfectly capable of changing the entire world without such a close social bond. you'll soon find out that human beings do not operate on such a paradigm. whether blood related or not, people tend to gravitate to others, and eventually form a family unit. it's a failure Val mechanic.

This is why I say to first work on yourself, then your family, and then the rest of the world. from this powerful core and support system you will have better resources, mental, material, and spiritual, in order to make breakthroughs with hundreds, thousands, or millions of people around the globe.

I leave you with this. take into consideration how your global goal plays into your mission statement. discover who you are going to be around your family in order to spread your message. figure out how you will enroll the rest of the world into your possibilities.

When we cannot change the environment, we need to try to change ourselves ." --- Victor Frankl

 

Sometimes I think that if I can change the whole world and manage everything in my way, the world will become better. I am a good guy. My intentions are not bad either. I hope everyone can have the best time. It sounds like a good plan, isn't it?

 

Why should I be the king of the world? I will let the smartest people in the world serve in my cabinet, and I will solve all the important issues that I don't quite understand. And the rest will be solved.

In fact, we always come up with this idea from time to time. This is our kind of self-instinct. It would be nice if I could do anything. It would be nice if I could rule the world. The fact is that none of us can be the king of the world. This is also a very lonely job. Too many responsibilities and too many things are on the shoulders of a person.

 

So how should we begin to change the world if we have no supreme power to govern? Unfortunately, it depends on us. Although we are not the king of the world, the changes we bring to us through personal consideration and great enthusiasm will surely influence the world outside of us.

 

Where we have the greatest impact

 

I believe that we will focus on the biggest potential impact of us and bring the greatest changes to the world. This kind of concentration, rather than sharing our strength, can make us have a more direct impact on everyone.

 

The most influential part in the world, whether you like it or not, is in our family or in our circle of friends. We may be able to successfully turn our family into believers who may even become our largest support group, but may not. The key to achieving this is not how they treat us, but what we do and what we do, but how we treat them!

 

Whether or not our views and beliefs are opposed, we must be able to express sympathy, patience, care, and understanding to our family members, so that we can enhance our empathy for others. In my opinion, this capability is crucial to interpersonal relationships and will be rooted in us as our second nature.

 

Our high influence on close people (our family and friends) makes it easier for them to become familiar with such behavior and accept it as their own. Therefore, we serve as an example to pass sympathy, patience, care, and understanding from one person to another.

 

Extend the impact to another level

 

Changing the world of our family may be a matter of personal accomplishment, but many people struggle to satisfy themselves to achieve more results that change the world. In a sense, our mission is to conquer the world. It is determined by the self-consciousness of each of us to conquer the world with love or destruction.

 

You may think that the family is not necessarily the first step in changing the world. You can change the world without the close social ties. But you will soon find that humans do not live in this mode. People tend to attract each other and gradually form a family unit regardless of whether there is a kinship. This is a survival mechanism.

 

This is why I say that I should first work on myself, then push it to your family, and then reach the outside world. Starting from this powerful core and support system, you will have more strength (ideological, material, and spiritual) breakthroughs have been made in the world of hundreds of people, thousands of people, and millions of people.

 

I leave these questions for you: Think about how your global goals are embodied in your mission; what kind of person will you be in your family to convey your information; how to include the world outside of the home into your possible plans.