Refusal is mature, is accomplishment

Rejection is a kind of accomplishment

Do not understand the rejection is a lot of people in today's society a soft rib, do not understand the refusal is to fulfill others, disgusting themselves, why we can not make a refusal to become a kind of life accomplishment? is rejection really that hard to say? Refusal is the law, the Constitution grants us the right to do what we want to do in accordance with our will, and enjoy the right not to do what we are unwilling to do, but how we use our rights.

Return to real life, materialistic, life pressure forced, friends need to organize everyone together K song, party drink, chat, friends are strongly want you to participate in this activity, but you do not want to go, but you do not know to refuse you still reluctant to go, the result you only silently in there daze, wasted your time and energy , there is no time to do what you want to do, and ultimately not worth the candle. I believe this is a lot of people have experienced, in the face of friends of the counsel, the face of their own things, time, we are difficult to make a choice, we are embarrassed to refuse friends. But we should have the right to refuse what we want to do, in accordance with our own will!

Of course, there are many examples of life, some people in order to get some good, often like to impose some of their own thought good things, things to others, but will not stand in the other side of the point of view, usually the case is that they think good. The imposition of a good, and finally become a need for such a good, so that others are thankful, and when others feel that they have to give their needs, they are likely not to be thankful mentality, and finally became taken for granted, in fact, we should think about, the so-called take it for granted may not be the heart of your ardent rejection of it, You are not a kind of kindness, not your kindness, but not how much you pay for the other, do a lot of things. So, whenever you do something, think about the feelings of others.

In fact, the refusal to play its role in various fields, because the moment does not reflect its ingenious place. In the emotional side is also the same, in your face no feeling, not your favorite boys (girls), especially the relationship between the two sides is still good, this time may make you feel very difficult to reject others, because you do not understand the rejection, do not understand the refusal will only let oneself deep feeling, unable to struggle. You do not refuse, it means that some things are taken for granted, by default, so that both sides deeper and deeper, such a result is not expected by both sides? So a lot of things is not a B, not necessarily in accordance with the other party's mind or blow rejection, in short, to use the other side of their own words, to his road and the way to block the dead. In fact, the other side of the nerve to open, why you embarrassed to refuse it? The most helpless is, you on the one hand still in for the performance, does not matter, does not want to let the other side to see you to his dislike, you are not happy, you are not accustomed to, another aspect, you also blame others to guess not to understand thoroughly, cannot see your mind, cannot see the heat, cannot divide the size king, does not understand your In fact, in this situation, many times your attitude, position, preference is the best to clear, the performance of the most vividly, then said back, who has time to guess to accompany you to play it? Already have their own answers why wait until the time to solve the problem? Early to give each other the right signal, cognition, may not have the present trouble?

You think you do not refuse, you can safely escape the baptism of the storm, the early humility of the lake is not the best policy, not always in the face, afraid of offending, very concerned about the eyes of their own, do not praise their own, do not a, disgusting themselves. Whether it is consent or refusal, you have to ask your own thoughts and feelings, first of all, you have to clarify your purpose, position, so that you will take care of their feelings to do these things, to achieve their own purposes. Seriously, sometimes promised not to please the other, the same, the refusal does not necessarily have to offend the other.

Of course, in this hyper-realistic society, the material civilization and its development and the lack of spiritual civilization under the collision, there will inevitably be different answers. One thing we agree on is that the freedom of the individual is vested in the Constitution, and we have the right to refuse something and to refuse it, but that is the rights that we should enjoy.

Refusal is mature, is accomplishment