Russian detective novelist Julia donzova: How did I beat cancer?

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Russian detective novelist Julia donzova how to defeat advanced cancer and become Russia's best-selling detective novelist

 

Reading the ironic detective novels of Dariya dongzova, hearing her humorous stories and encountering her in various kinds of music, I can't imagine the terrible experience of a female writer: Stage 4 of cancer, 18 procedures, multiple radiotherapy and chemotherapy. Now she is a guest on the "family" channel for your survival advice.

--You started writing because you are ill. Is that true?

-- An illusion begins to appear after anesthesia. This will happen to people who have performed 8 hours of surgery. Lying in the ward, there is a lot of time, but nothing can be done. Some people often die and are carried out. In this way, we will be able to go crazy in half a year. In order not to imagine the terrible death, I began to write a story. My husband knew, "Write it down ."

-- Have you gone to the single-user ward?

-- No. I went to work to divert my attention. What happened around me is too irritating.

-- Do we need the power of will?

-- Yes. To this end, say to yourself: you are not ready to die.

-- How do you know your illness?

-- By chance. My chest suddenly began to grow up, because my chest was small, so I always wondered when my chest was bigger, but it was not long, and suddenly it began to grow significantly. I'm very happy to show it to my girlfriend, but she says, "Go to the tumor doctor !"

The doctor in Moscow said to me, "I said to you, dear, what have you done? The last stage of cancer is about three more months old ?" This is impossible, as I said. I don't feel the threat of death. I have three children, an elderly mother and a healthy mother-in-law. I still have a few dogs and cats. I cannot die.

There is nothing to do with radiotherapy. chemotherapy is terrible and it is always disgusting. After the operation, I was taken home and put on the sofa. I lie down, lie down, get up, pick up the bag, go to the market to buy something. What should I do? If you are cut off a small part, it is not a tragedy, or even if the husband leaves you after the operation, it is not miserable, the most important thing is that you are still alive. I know. I won't die.

-- Do you have any suggestions for patients?

-Pity yourself, two hours is enough, and then wipe your tears. You must understand that this is not the last day. Have to treat, cancer can cure. Life can be extended to a minimum. If you have been diagnosed, it doesn't mean that you will go to the burial ground tomorrow. You should stop suffering. Think about who is here to support you now? Child? Husband? Girlfriend? Dog? We can send ourselves to the grave, and we can drag ourselves out there. I know that even if I only have one ear, my husband will not love me.

There was a very young girl among us who had children after the operation! We understand that cancer just gives us a chance to pause, so that we can better understand where to go next and how to proceed. You must understand that life is not terminated, and it will not end.

A group of cats once saved a cancer patient.

She was lying at home, and she had no longer been in bed. She has three cats. The nurse is ill every day. The Red Cross was in chaos and she forgot. The cats shouted in the evening, and they had no food. She knows what to do.

No one came the next morning. She climbed to the refrigerator with her knees and elbows. In short, when she was remembered a week later, the patient who had been desperate was standing on the windowsill to wipe the glass.

-- Are you born a warrior or a later man?

-- I am like this: Cut my feet and I will climb with my hands. I was also panicked, but when the doctor said it was necessary to cut the left breast, I shouted, "ah, just in case, cut the right one too !"

-- If you have not become a writer, what aspects will you tap into your potential? How can we pull ourselves out of depression?

-- I will raise a dog, and I will leave my days idle. You must do something, even if you forget to wipe the floor. Do not treat yourself as a patient. Do not say "I am going to die" or "I am going to die, they will miss me !" This will take away your power.

Something is required. We have a kind of unfortunate women in Russia. If she is not cared for, she has one thing left: Love her own illness. This is her only happiness. In such a situation, she was perfunctory. This often happens when men come to the ward, know the diagnosis results, and then abandon their wives. The women shouted bitterly: "If there is no breast cancer, he will not abandon me ." Will be abandoned! He will find another reason to abandon you. Men don't live with their breasts, but with women! You can repair and buy beautiful underwear, so that no one in the beach can see where you are faulty.

-- Have you tried a non-medical treatment?

-- Same disease, especially serious disease, cannot be joked. Only knives, chemotherapy, and radiotherapy can be used to treat tumors. I would like to remind my readers that, although the entire process is difficult, everything will be fine.

-- Is it necessary to find someone with special functions?

-- Never. You should understand that no one can do anything for you. People have the ability to use their mental power to defeat the disease. You must have a strong belief that you will change from patient to healthy. I went to the gym for fitness. I doubled my exercise. I know the most clearly: sports are born, and the disease throws on you, and you hit it directly with a hard fist to fight back.

-- You are a strong person. You can pull yourself out of bed and go to the gym. But does each patient have this ability.

-- A coach is required, but no one can do anything for you. Everyone has their own path. And disease helps you find yourself. The rule of victory and the rule of success exist.

-- I heard that you have to write for several hours every day. Do you have to do this?

-- I write every day because it is part of my plan to defeat myself. If you don't work hard for a long time every day, you won't succeed. No money can help. No one can pull you back from the grave.

-- Can the coach give impetus?

-- When you don't know what to do in a panic, he can push you. But when a motor appears in your body, you can start your own train.

-- Tell me about your family?

-- I have three children. Two adult sons and one daughter. One son is a psychiatrist, and the other is an entertainment manager. My daughter studied design at the University of London.

-- How are your dogs? How many are there now?

-- Three mops, one York. They are doing well. We also picked up a cat. His name is Ji Hong. After spending three days together, it became coquetry.