An apple tree finally came to an end.
In the first year, it had 10 apples, 9 were taken away, and 1 was obtained by itself. In this regard, the apple tree was indignant, so it was disconnected and refused to grow. In the next year, it had five apples, four were taken away, and one was obtained by itself. "Haha, I got 10% RMB last year and 20% RMB this year! Doubled ." This apple tree is psychologically balanced.
However, it can continue to grow. For example, in the next year, it had 100 fruits, 90 of them were taken, and 10 of them were obtained.
It is very likely that 99 are taken and one is obtained by yourself. But it doesn't matter. It can continue to grow. In the third year, there will be 1000 fruits ......
In fact, it is not the most important thing to get fruit. The most important thing is that apple trees are growing! When the apple tree grows into a towering tree, the forces that once hindered its growth will be weak and negligible. Really, Do not care too much about fruit. Growth is the most important thing.
[Psychological comment]
Are you a self-disconnected migrant worker? At the beginning of your work, you were brilliant and eager to believe that "I am born to be useful ". However, the reality is that you have been hitting a few of your backsticks. Maybe you have made great contributions to the organization and no one has paid much attention to it. Maybe, you only get verbal attention.
But it is not affordable; maybe ...... In short, you think that, like the apple tree, the fruit you produce is only a small part, which is far from your expectation.
So, you're angry, you're upset, you're full of complaints ...... In the end, you decide not to work so hard to match your own income. A few years later, you reflected on the fact that you have no passion or talent at work.
"Old, mature ." We are used to making fun of ourselves. But in essence, you have stopped growing.
Such stories are everywhere around us.
The reason for this mistake is that we forget that life is a process and a whole. We feel that we have grown up, and now it is time to get this result. We care too much about the temporary gains and losses, and forgetting to grow is the most important thing.
Fortunately, this is not the self-Breaking Meridian in Jin Yong's novels. We can give up doing so at any time and continue to grow.
Remember: if you are a migrant worker and encounter a boss or company culture who does not understand management, brutal management, or incorrect management, remind yourself, do not break the meridians with anger or complaints. No matter what you encounter, you have to make an apple tree that grows forever, because your growth is always less important than taking money every month.