Seven Habits of high-performance people (2)-proactive

I heard that I was going to introduce "Seven Habits of high-performance people" that day, and said to me: this is indeed a bit difficult. I also feel that it is indeed a great challenge for me who have little social experience, but I must regard this challenge as an opportunity to communicate with experienced experts, if I don't tell you, who knows that I think so? If you haven't heard of it, how can you know that someone may have the same idea as you, or you have mastered these efficient habits, you can introduce us to better experiences. we strive to achieve a win-win situation through this topic. to be honest, there is a lot of pressure on this topic. I have also considered that, within an hour or two, I would like to repeat all seven habits,
It is better to analyze and share the habits that I think have been used well to achieve the purpose of colliding with everyone. to tell the truth, I am not well aware of the following habits in practice. At present, I am not able to clarify this.

The first of the seven habits is proactive, and other efficient habits are built on this habit.
This habit has a huge impact on my life. this habit makes me clear-headed in good times, makes me strong in adversity, and finds directions in setbacks. let me not blame myself for my past and take the initiative to plan and implement the future.
How does it affect my life? I know that every choice I make is not forced! Because the choice is always in front of you, you can choose this, you can also choose other, but you "forced" to choose the current decision, this is the result of your initiative! It is not easy to have this thinking. I have been consciously changing and practicing to form this habit. for example, if you suddenly want to publish a book tomorrow and want to work overtime temporarily today, but you may have made an appointment with important friends or family members for dinner before, and you work overtime with your head, however, it may be absent-minded (I think it is forced to work overtime, which is unpleasant ). in fact, this is obviously the result of our active choice! I chose to finish my work and work overtime first;
If I am an old friend who has never seen me in the distance for many years and will leave tomorrow, I may choose to go to dinner first, finish eating and work overtime. In short, this is my choice, we have worked overtime out of our responsibilities for the project, which is our choice. We think that it is important to go back and finish our work. active! Since we are active and recognized by myself, we have to concentrate on what we choose. We can't say that we work overtime, complain, or be absent-minded when we are with friends.
I am willing to admit my choice and accept the result of the choice, so I seldom regret it. At least I feel a lot less regret than I do when I don't have this idea.

It's really good to be proactive. what I mentioned above is not exactly what I can find in this book. It is already the result of my active efforts to expand my thinking. people who have no practical experience may feel that it is easy to talk on paper and practice is not the case. just try! When you come across your choice, you may wish to record it! After I did this, I slowly discovered that I was changing! My life attitude is changing, my quality of life is changing, and my consciousness has changed.

I did not give a similar introduction, but the leaders suggested that I share with you some of my reading experiences in this book. I keep this in mind; during that time, I was learning about the Windows kernel. the following is my late night in February. I have an inspiration in my dream and I will use my cell phone to record it. I 'd like to share it with you:
It is a good idea to introduce the relationship between the internal core and shell to the external and memory. kernel operations only provide interfaces. The specific response should be based on the operations defined by the kernel, that is, our habits, principles, and values. extended, we construct a class, define related variables and operations, and often privatize only our variables and operations, and only provide some interfaces. how to implement these Apis depends on people. further attention is required. There are many conditional judgments and many processing principles-the same as our ideas. flexible users may choose different DLL libraries based on different versions, making the application more extensive.