Seven required courses in the entrepreneurial age
Chapter 1 seven required courses in the entrepreneurial age
We cannot use our eyes and fingers to find iron chips in the middle of a pile of sand, just as it is difficult for us to find our customers from the vast sea of people. However, there is a tool that can help us quickly find iron chips in the sand ......
Lesson 1 fate is an e falling into the nest
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Let's talk about the trend of life, whether it is successful or not, and care about it with one heart. In layman's terms, no matter the rich family or the cold men, no matter the city or the small people or the industry and commerce giant Jia, everyone is using his own ideas to decide and enter his living status, and interpret his survival status as success, failure, or fate. In the field of educational psychology, there is a classic saying: "broadcast the next thought, reap one kind of behavior; broadcast the next kind of behavior, reap one kind of habit; broadcast the next kind of habit, reap one kind of character; play the next character and reap a fate." A good interpretation of the interaction between thoughts and destiny. Liu Bei, a poor teenager, explained this classic famous saying well with his own life history.
Liu Bei is a student in Shengzhou City, Hebei Province. As a child who has lost his father, his mother and family depend on him to support his family, his life has been very hard. On the winter night of the third year of high school, Liu Bei went home after studying at night and saw his mother still sewing cotton boots in the dark light. Liu Bei said, "Mom, it's cold this day. Let's get up early !"
The mother replied, "You will take the college entrance examination next year. I can buy ten more yuan for a pair of cotton boots, so that you can pay enough for university tuition ."
Liu Bei squatted in front of his mother's knee, his nose was sour, and tears were pouring in. "Mom, it takes a lot of money to go to college. Our family is too poor. How can we use this money? Don't count on it !"
My mother shook her shoulder and asked him, "Are you going to spend your life in this poor nest ?"
Liu Bei said bitterly: "What is the solution? Maybe, is this fate ?"
My mother put down her needle and looked at her son and said, "When I was a child, I had read the" three character Sutra "and could still think about some problems. What do you mean by destiny? Is it the beginning of a person, or after a person? I will tell you a story that may help you find the answer ."
An egg fell out of the nest and fell into the straw. Someone found him and thought it was an egg. They took him home and put it in the chicken nest. A hen in the nest is hatching eggs. Like other eggs, it is incubated.
As a result, he was treated as a chicken from an early age and lived the same life as a chicken. Many of our partners bullied him because of his odd looks. He felt lonely and painful.
One day, he followed the chicken group in the rice field to kill the millet. Suddenly, a dark shadow from the mountains swept over, and the chickens panicked and hid everywhere. When the crisis passed, everyone breathed a sigh of relief.
"What is that ?" He asked.
His partner told him: "It is an e, the highest e ."
"Oh, that e is amazing. It's so cool to fly !" He expressed his inner envy. "If one day I could fly like an e, how nice it would be !"
"It's crazy !" "You are born a chicken, and even the chickens are ashamed of your ugliness. How can you fly like an e ?"
The mother told the story and asked, "Son, fate is an e falling into the nest. Now, are you willing to choose the same kind of life as a chicken, or are you willing to fly like an e ?"
Liu Bei asked his mother, "Do you think your son is the one who unfortunately fell into the nest ?"
Mother certainly said, "Yes, you are the descendant of the e. You should pursue your blue sky, and do not sigh for one or two millet in front of you !" She told her son that his grandfather's grandfather was Liu Sheng, the son of Emperor Han Jing, And he was actually the descendant of Liu Bang, Han Gaozu, and the royal family with roots and red seedlings.
Liu Bei suddenly woke up and resolutely said to his mother, "Mom, I understand what you mean, and I will never let you down !" After studying hard, Liu Bei finally obtained the Yangtze River International Business Administration University in the second year. On the day of receiving the admission notice, the two mothers and children were in grief and cried.
Lesson 2 self-help
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The school name of Jiang International Business Administration University is from the Chinese classical masterpiece "Romance of the Three Kingdoms". It has created countless heroes and heroes throughout the ages and is an internationally renowned university. Liu Bei is able to become a student of this university, and his future prospects are enough for unlimited Association.
Uncle Liu yuanqi knew that the child would be promising when he grew up. He came over and said to him, "This child is finally angry with his dead father. What about you? It's not easy to be a widow for many years. Will he pay for his college tuition later !" Uncle
Uncle opened a store in his house, and his uncle purchased his goods for business on weekdays, but he had little savings.
Liu Bei and his mother were both surprised and surprised. The surprise was that the high tuition fee was finally settled. The strange thing is that my uncle has always been a poor man and a rich man, and he is very cold to his nephew and nephew. How can he suddenly be willing to generously help me?
"As the saying goes, self-help is helpful. Since God is willing to help you, what's more about my uncle ?"
Self-help daily support? Liu Bei's heartbeats suddenly changed. Until he came to college, until he graduated from college, until he experienced every dilemma, he fell into meditation again and again, and asked the God in the dark again and again: what is the relationship between self-help and Tianzhu?
He gave himself the following answers:
1. The real self-help is an admirable enlightened person who will despise the difficulties, and the difficulties will suddenly crash in front of him-a process like God's help.
2. A real self-help is like a firefly in the dark. It not only lights itself up, but also wins others' appreciation-when people appreciate a person, it is often in the form of help to express love-good luck thus come.
3. people believe that a real self-help will ultimately achieve his success, and all those who have helped him will feel gratified.
4. If a self-help person knows how to report his kindness, people will give him more help, so he can face his life more easily.
He used his own understanding to apply this mythical philosophical famous saying. He tried and tried again and again. In view of his ability to constantly improve in financial conditions, the school is also helping him in many ways, giving him tuition relief, giving him scholarship, and giving him a job-study opportunity. When he graduated from his senior year, he suddenly looked back, and the poverty problem that once overwhelmed him was like the night, quietly passing away in the morning.
Lesson 3 love will attract happiness
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He believes that the famous scholar Lu Zhi gave him the third class in his life. At that time, he was a freshman. Lu Zhi smiled and walked onto the podium. He welcomed the arrival of new students. "As a teacher, I hope I can provide you with a mentor (MENTOR, mentor, and Bole) and can help you with guidance. As for whether you can truly become a material, it depends on your own understanding and pursuit ." He told his students that what he learned in four years of college is not just about books, but about getting a diploma, but about a vision (foresight ), A logical way of thinking.
"Has anyone ever played cricket ?" He suddenly asked.
A boy named Sun Kun replied, "I 've been playing, but it's fun ."
A girl named Cai wenji said, "I know, the cricket has a nickname called 'adge '. My dad said, this kind of bug is fascinating ."
Teacher Lu said: "Some people think that playing the cricket will make people have fun. Some people think that the cricket has brought childlike interests to our world, while the world full of childlike interests is relaxed and pure. Here, we will not discuss the right and right of the cricket, but have other purposes. I will tell you a story about an insect and his cricket, a merchant friend about an insect and a coin. I hope this story will inspire you ......"
Along with Mr. Lu's charming physical movements, his story box opened:
An insect scholar and his merchant and friends walked and chatted in the park. Suddenly, he stopped and seemed to hear something.
"Why ?" His merchant friend asked him.
The insects shouted with surprise: "Have you heard? The song of a cricket, and it is definitely a top-notch great cricket ."
The merchant and his friends listened with their ears for a long time and replied helplessly, "I didn't hear anything !"
"You are waiting ." They said they ran to the nearby woods.
Soon, he found a huge cricket and came back to tell his friend, "Do you see it? A white-tooth, purple-gold-winged cricket, this is a great-class cricket! What happened ?"
"Yes, you have not heard the error ." The merchant inexplicably asked the insect SCIENTIST: "You have not only heard the song of the cricket, but also heard the variety of the cricket-but how did you hear it ?"
The insect scientist replied, "a big cricket sounds slow. Sometimes it sounds like two or three times in a few hours. The call frequency is fast, and the call frequency is also frequent. Black, purple, red, yellow and other colors of the cricket sounds are different, for example, the yellow cricket sounds with metal. All sounds are only slightly different, and even difficult to describe. You must be careful to distinguish them ."
They said they left the park and walked on the lively sidewalk along the road. Suddenly, the merchant stopped and bent over to pick up a coin that fell onto the ground. The insects kept walking forward and did not hear the sound of coins.
"What does this story mean ?" Mr. Lu asked.
Everyone is thinking, And no one answers.
After waiting for a while, Mr. Lu gave the answer: "The Heart of the insect is in the worms, so he can hear the cricket. The merchant's heart was there, so he could hear the sound of a coin. This story shows where your heart is and where your wealth is ."
Mr. Lu continued: "after four years of university study, you are pursuing the wealth of your life. Please think carefully. What is your wealth? Put your heart in your wealth so that you can get your wealth-to help everyone understand this truth, let's do an experiment together ."
He took out a big box filled with sand and showed it to everyone. He said, "these sands are filled with iron, could you pick out the iron chips with your eyes and fingers?"
Everyone shook their heads.
"We cannot use our eyes and fingers to find iron chips in the middle of a pile of sand, just as it is hard for us to find our customers from the vast sea of people. However, there is a tool that can help us quickly find iron chips in the sand. Everyone may have thought that this tool is a magnet ." Mr. Lu pulled out a magnet from his bag and stirred it in the sand. The iron like arrows quickly gathered around the magnet. Mr. Lu showed the iron to the students. He said, "This is the magic of magnets. We can easily do things that we can't do with our hands and eyes."
All the students looked at the common miracle in the hands of Mr. Lu. Teacher Lu said: "If this box of sand is like a life, frustration, and boring book, then this magnet is a loving heart. Where is your heart, where is your wealth-if you have a heart full of love, it will find in your books, in your life, find a lot of useful knowledge, just as a magnet can suck out iron. However, a heart that does not know how to love is like your finger. It can be found in the sand, but it cannot be found. Isn't it? Students, as long as you have a heart that loves life, you will always be able to find that every day has gains, every day has accumulated, and every day has something to be happy ." Mr. Lu gave a speech and asked the students to play sand and magnet games in turn. With an uncertain gesture, he told the children with a loud voice: "Where is your heart? Where is your fortune? No matter what difficulties, adversity, or confusion you encounter in the future, believe in this famous saying. Whenever and wherever you have a true love, you will be able to attract useful resources, beautiful things, and a happy life like a magnet ."
Lesson 4 be a popular person
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In just one week of school, Liu Bei was shouted for a lecture by the student office because of a fight in the dormitory. Just as Miss Lu Zhi passed by, he gave Liu Bei a closer look and asked the teacher at the student office, "What error did he make ?"
The teacher at the student's office said, "the students in their dormitory jointly told him that he liked to swear. After arriving at school for a few days, we had three tickets. Look at him !"
Lu Zhi said, "I know this boy. Give it to me !"
So Liu Bei followed Mr. Lu to his office. Mr. Lu asked Liu Bei to sit down and poured Liu Bei a cup of tea, which made Liu Bei feel as hot as this cup of tea.
"Tell me what is going on ?" Mr. Lu asked.
"They all look down on me and deliberately cannot go with me," said Liu Bei ."
"Why can't they go with you ?" Mr. Lu asked again.
Liu Bei grabbed his scalp and replied, "they say I am a rural boss. In fact, seven and seven people in our dormitory are from the countryside. Why do we look down upon me ?"
Lu Zhi knew what was going on. He looked at Liu Bei's eyes sincerely and said, "If you don't mind, I 'd like to tell you a story ." After obtaining Liu Bei's consent, Mr. Lu began to tell a story about the dog in a pleasant way.
A dog named "lonely" Accidentally broke into the exercise room of a modeling school. The walls of the room are lined with glass mirrors, reflecting the numerous shadows of dogs.
Seeing so many dogs suddenly appeared at the same time, the lonely dog was shocked. it instinctively retreated and grayed out.
All the dogs in the mirror also retreated, one by one, and the heartbeat sound in the exercise room.
The lonely dog began to panic, resisting and struggling ...... It's jumping around in the room, getting crazy, getting messy ...... Until it passes down in a coma due to physical overdraft and despair.
Liu Bei asked strangely, "Are you saying that I am the lonely dog ?"
"What do you say ?" Lu Zhi asked.
Liu Bei said: "My character is a bit unsociable. But what is the relationship between the dormitory and the dog in the mirror ?"
"Don't you understand? Your classmates are dogs in the mirror. Remember, if we are friendly to others, others will be friendly to us; if we are not polite to others, others will also fight us back. How do you treat students ?"
Liu Bei does not speak.
"You want to be a popular person, right? Can a fight become a popular man? No ." Mr. Lu Zhi smiled and said, "I have a secret recipe. As long as you believe it, you will be guaranteed to become a popular person within three months ."
Back to the bedroom, Liu Bei immediately copied this "Popular recipe" to the notebook's webpage with respect:
First, practice smiling in the mirror every day;
Second, you must greet your classmates;
Third, take the initiative to help others with a kind of heart;
Fourth, is it true that a person is not a sage? Treat everyone around you with empathy;
Fifth, we firmly believe that treating others well is our own PR philosophy.
From then on, Liu Bei listened to Lu Zhi's words and earnestly practiced these secrets. It wasn't long before that, he became the most flattering, personal, and humble person among the students. In "Three Kingdoms", Chen Shou commented: "the father of the first master (Liu Bei) is generous, and the person who knows how to stay with others is built on the wind of Gao zu (Liu Bang) and the hero ." It means that the most important reason why Liu Bei can grow into a hero in the business and industry is that he is sincere, generous, and friendly.
Due to his character charm, Liu Bei became a good student and a good friend trusted by many teachers. Even in the days when he started his business hard, no matter how hard he worked and how he moved, there were still some people who were willing to follow him and share the joys and sorrows with him. Among them, the most famous are Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, who, together with Liu beiyi, are born on the same day of the same year but die on the same day of the same year.
Lesson 5 shell contains mysteries
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Last semester, during the mid-term examination, Liu Bei accidentally met Lu Zhi, a food buyer in the supermarket on campus, and suddenly had a strong impulse to get close to him. At that time, Lu Zhi had left the podium and was the general manager of a school office company. Liu Bei took the initiative to help him carry the basket. Then I walked out of the door and unconsciously came to the downstairs of luzhi's house.
Lu Zhi said, "Let's go to my house and cook together !"
Liu Bei hesitated for five seconds, his face turned red, and nodded and said, "Okay !"
What happened next made Liu Bei a little confused. He and Mr. Lu choose food, do housework, talk about heaven together, talk about his family, his mother and the story of the e, and talk about his upcoming career.
"No matter how the chicks or e are, do you know how to hatch them ?"
Liu Bei shook his head awkwardly.
"How a miracle is this !" Instructor Lu raised an egg and said, "You can think of it as an egg.-Let's break it. Look inside, there are no feathers, eyes, or legs. What is incredible is that this dark object hides the mysteries of the beginning of life. Put it in a warm environment. After proper time, it will become a cute e ."
When Mr. Lu turned back and looked at his students, he said meaningfully, "the same is true for people. A person's potential will show amazing talents and advantages after being trained. Four years of college life has passed, and now you are like an e in the egg to break through that shell. From the egg, a new world is waiting for you !"
Liu Bei said: "Yes, I am a young e flying from the infield of danzhou, Hebei province. After four years of study in the eggshell of Yangtze River University, I am facing another new student !"
Lesson 6 use all the power
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Almost all of the four students are looking for a job or preparing for postgraduate entrance exams. Everyone is busy and panic. This is also true for Liu Bei, but he still had no work problems until the winter vacation.
This is a Saturday afternoon. He came back from the talent exchange market and sat down on the school playground. He has already participated in many job-seeking conferences with various names and handed out hundreds of job application forms, but it still has no effect at all.
I don't know when Liu Bei began to notice that there was a bunker about 100 metres away from him, and a little boy was building a road with sand. There are some toy cars beside the bunker.
The little boy waved a plastic shovel and worked very enthusiastically. The sun shines warmly on his busy figure, and the sand in his creations has become beautiful roads, bridges and tunnels. However, during the construction process, a large stone was unexpectedly displayed.
The little guy began to dig the sand around the stone, then hugged it and wanted to move it away. He is so small, but the stone is so big. When he tries his best to move the stone to the edge of the sand pit, he can no longer do anything. He gritted his teeth and shouted, hitting the Stone again and again. However, every time he had just made a little progress, the stone slipped down and fell into the sand trap again.
The little boy shouted, and resolutely rushed up and threw out the big stone with the strength to eat milk. The rock rolled down again and hurt his foot. He sat down in the sand and cried sadly.
Liu Bei made the scenes clear. He wanted to help the little boy. He stood up and squatted down in front of the bunker and asked:
"Younger brother, do you want to move this stone out ?"
"Yes. However, I couldn't move it. "The little boy cried with frustration." I have used all my strength, but I still can't move it !"
Liu Bei kindly corrected him and said, "You are wrong, little brother. You didn't use all your power. You didn't ask for my help ."
Liu Bei jumped out of the bunker, picked up the stone, and moved it out, just as he moved it out of his own mind.
He suddenly realized something, quickly returned to the dormitory, sat down at the desk, wrote on the left of a piece of paper about the difficulties he encountered, and listed on the right of all the resources and power he could use. He found that using this power comparison is indeed a good way to effectively solve the difficulties.
In his diary, he wrote: from now on, no matter what kind of setbacks and dilemmas we encounter, no matter how desperate we feel, we should think about the rock and ask ourselves: "Have you really used all the power?"
Lesson 7 passion your mind
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The Spring Festival soon passed, and the senior students ushered in a tense last semester. Liu Bei was still looking for a job. He couldn't help but sigh and asked Guan Yu and Zhang Fei: "You said, why can't I even find a job ?"
Zhang Fei said bluntly, "you look at you and look sad all day. Who wants you ?"
Guan Yu also said: "Liu Bei, we didn't say you, you must be positive. People are active and energetic. The examiners in charge of recruitment need energetic young men. "Negative people like you can only be counterproductive ."
Liu Bei sighed again and said, "I also want to be positive. But I don't know why, I just can't ."
Zhang Fei put the two glasses on the table together, poured them into the water, and grabbed a handful of dust from the ground and sprinkled it into one of the glasses. Then he asked Liu Bei: "Do you see it? I am a cup of water, so I am carefree. What about you? It's a cup of muddy water, with a gray face all day. You said, how can this cup of water be made clear ?"
Liu Bei said: "There are two ways: precipitation and filtration ."
Guan Yu is reading Zuo's Spring and Autumn. He put down his book and said, "Zhang Fei's meaning: this cup of water represents positive thoughts, and this cup of water represents negative thoughts. Precipitation means to hide those melancholy in the depths of your heart. Sometimes you think that you have forgotten, but you have never thought that the wind is blowing up, and it has filled the whole mind again. Poets often use words like 'Only frown, but above the heart' to describe this state. Therefore, the precipitation method is used ."
Liu Bei asked: "So what about filtering ?"
Guan Yu said: "The filtering method can completely solve the problem, but it also has two disadvantages. The sediment outside the filter can easily block the filter hole. When the pressure on the outside of the filter is too high, the filter is easily broken. Therefore, the filter method can only maintain a short period of time, while the 'all-in-one-out-of-the-Warn' is the norm of the world ."
Liu Bei asked: "Do you have other good solutions ?"
Zhang Fei said, "Of course ." He took the two friends to the bathroom, put the cup of muddy water under the faucet, and unscrewed the water source. Under the impact of a clear stream, the water in the cup is constantly diluted and filled out. In less than one minute, the cup of muddy water has completely become clear water. He said to Liu Bei, "Do you see it? The water in the tap Represents happiness, vigor, and positive thoughts. It can dilute your troubles, wash away your puzzles, and eliminate all negative things. Just as you need a cup of water, you should choose those positive and exciting ideas to keep them flowing away from your mind ."
Liu Bei said: "You know, although I was born from poverty, I never gave up on self-motivation. I don't know why. My attention can easily turn to the other side, making me unable to be positive ."
Zhang Fei said: "Yes, in this process, you feel shy, awkward, panic, sad, and rejected. These phenomena are normal. However, you should not let some phenomena in the process affect your determination. You must focus your attention on the 'final result', so that those positive ideas can serve the 'final result ."
Liu Bei said: "Where can I find this endless positive idea ?"
Zhang Fei said: "It's very simple, as long as you don't doubt, those happy, positive, philosophical quotes, beautiful imaginations about things, the appreciation of yourself, and even just a motto, you will be able to stir your mind in endless ways. However, as long as you doubt, you will be quiet-as long as you are quiet, those positive thoughts will also stop working-and the troubles in the world seem to be drifting dust, it will take the opportunity to make your water turbid."
Liu Bei smiled and said, "Your inference is right. I often doubt that this is why I cannot be positive. Zhang Fei, I think you are so stupid at ordinary times ."
Guan Yu said: "You see him as a crude person. In fact, beautiful pictures are more beautiful than anyone else, and he can write a good word with a clever mind !"
Liu Bei pondered for a moment and said, "Zhang Fei, what is your motto for writing your previous macro into one sentence ?"
"Wow !" Zhang Fei answered the question and immediately returned to the dormitory. He wrote, "Do not doubt success. Never be furious !"
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