Seven rules for getting along with friends

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Seven rules for getting along with friends

2009-03-23 16:43:51

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The friendship between friends is precious. Real friends should share difficulties. When you need it, he will extend his hand of friendship at any time. When your friends are in trouble, we will also help each other.

I believe that in our life, there are not many such close-minded friends, but even fewer real friends. But as long as we have two or three friends, we should be satisfied. 

Therefore, the following principles should be followed for your reference only:

1. It is difficult

If your friends have difficulties and need your help, even if you have difficulties, you should try your best.

2. Hard to do

As long as it is a good thing, it is not easy to do things for friends. Because friends should help each other, this is enough to prove the friendship between the two.

3. unbearable

When you get along with friends, there may be some misunderstandings. Some problems and opinions may be different, and even language conflicts may occur. At this time, we need to tolerate and tolerate each other, and strive to be tolerable. If you have no patience, no good friends will be able to meet each other for a long time.

4. mishi Xiangyu

In addition to helping and assisting each other at work, a good friend needs to be able to share his own privacy or secrets, such as his experiences and secrets in life, feelings, and career. Willing to share joy and sorrow with friends, which is an important sign of a good relationship between friends.

5. Do not reveal him

A good friend can advise, encourage, but cannot publicize his mistakes. In particular, he cannot reveal his friend's faults behind him. This will not only embarrass him, but also affect and reduce his image. Therefore, if you have suggestions or comments between friends, it is better to correct them in person.

6. Failed

When a friend encounters difficulties, pains, or suffering, you cannot give up on him. You cannot give up on a friend because he is not a friend, this kind of Snoop will be put aside by many friends in the future.

7. Poor and cheap

It is a pleasure to have friends with him when he is prosperous and prosperous. He may have frequent exchanges. But when a friend suffers from poverty, frustration, and suffering, you cannot despise him. It is the true experience of suffering. Therefore, if you interact with friends, you must help each other and do not remember the reward. 

In addition, I prefer to useFamous sayingTo describe the highest principle of getting along with friends:The wind knows the strength of the grass, and he knows Cheng Chen.