Seven top mental predictions (deep in your mind)

1. the fable of growth: Be an apple tree that will grow forever

An apple tree finally came to an end.

In the first year, it had 10 apples, 9 were taken away, and 1 was obtained by itself. In this regard, the apple tree was indignant, so it was disconnected and refused to grow. In the next year, it had five apples, four were taken away, and one was obtained by itself. "Haha, I got 10% RMB last year and 20% RMB this year! Doubled. "This apple tree is psychologically balanced.

However, it can continue to grow. For example, in the next year, it had 100 fruits, 90 of them were taken, and 10 of them were obtained.

It is very likely that 99 are taken and one is obtained by yourself. But it doesn't matter. It can continue to grow. In the third year, there will be 1000 fruits ......

In fact, it is not the most important thing to get fruit. The most important thing is that apple trees are growing! When the apple tree grows into a towering tree, the forces that once hindered its growth will be weak and negligible. Really, Do not care too much about fruit. Growth is the most important thing.

 

Remember: if you are a migrant worker and encounter a boss or company culture who does not understand management, brutal management, or incorrect management, remind yourself, do not break the meridians with anger or complaints. No matter what you encounter, you have to make an apple tree that grows forever, because your growth is always less important than taking money every month.

 

2. fable of motivation: Who are the children playing?

A group of children were playing in front of an old man's house, crying for days. A few days ago, the old man was unbearable

So he gave every child 25 cents and said to them, "You have made it very lively. I feel that I am a lot younger and I am grateful for the money. "The children are very happy. The next day, they are still playing. The old man came out and gave every child 15 cents. He explained that he had no income but to give less. 15 cents is fine, and the child left happily.

On the third day, the old man only gave each child 5 cents.

The children are furious. "It's only five cents a day. Do you know how hard we are! "They swear to the old man that they will never play for him again!

 

Remember: the external evaluation system is often a family inheritance, but you can completely break it and cultivate your own internal evaluation system from now on, turn learning and work into "playing for yourself ".

 

3. fable of planning: fold a piece of paper for 51 times

Imagine you have a piece of white paper in your hand. Now, your task is to fold it 51 times. So How high is it?

A refrigerator? First floor? Or is a skyscraper so high? No, there is too much difference. The Thickness exceeds the distance between the earth and the sun.

 

Remember: visible power is more useful than invisible power. Nowadays, it is popular to look for answers from invisible places, such as potential development, such as success, and think that our life will be saved by some miracles. However, in my opinion, the consultant is more accurate. "It is far more important to make good use of existing capabilities through planning than to tap into the so-called potential. "

 

4. An escape fable: the tricks of the kitten escaping from the shadow

"Shadows really hate it! "Tom and Toby both think like this," we must get rid of it. "

However, wherever you go, Tom and Toby find that when there is sunshine, they will see their own shadows that drive them crazy.

However, Tom and Toby finally found their respective solutions. Tom's approach is to always close his eyes. Toby's approach is to stay in the shadows of other things forever.

 

Remember: shadows, like the light, are the wealth of life. One of the most important psychological patterns is that no matter how painful things are, you cannot escape. You can only face it, resolve it, surpass it, and finally reach a settlement with it. If you lack the power for the moment, you can seek help, seek help from friends and friends, or seek professional help, so that people you trust can face these painful things with you.

American psychologist Rogers was once the most lonely man, but when he faced this fact and resolved it, he became a real interpersonal master; american psychologist Frank has a violent and alcohol-consuming stepfather and a bad mother, but when he challenges this fact and finally forgave his parents, he becomes an expert in the treatment of this problem; japanese Psychologist sentian zhengma was once a serious neuropsychiatric patient, but by challenging this fact, he finally invented sentian therapy ...... the most painful fact in their lives has finally become their most important fortune. You can do the same.

 

5. the fable of action-crabs, owls, and bats

Crabs, owls, and bats go to bad habits cram schools. After several years, they all successfully graduated and obtained a doctorate. However, crabs are still rampant, owls are still sleeping during the day and night activities, and bats are still suspended.

 

Remember: others' knowledge cannot automatically save you. If some wonderful words touch you, if some text or new lines inspire you. The texts and experiences of others are just the beginning. More importantly, you apply the knowledge you think is good to your own life. The words of the Jewish philosopher Martin Buber have always been considered the most important: You must start on your own. For you, survival will remain meaningless.

 

 

6. the fable of giving up: bees and flowers

The rose withered, And the bee is still trying to suck, because it used to suck sweetness from this flower. But now, on this flower, the Bees suck in poison juice.

The bee knows this because the juice is bitter and tastes a lot different from the previous one. As a result, the bee was so angry that it took a sip and raised its head to complain to the whole world. Why did the taste change ?!

At last one day, I don't know why, because the bees are flying a little higher with wings. At this moment, it found that the withered rose is surrounded by flowers everywhere.

 

Remember: Love is a thing for two people, two completely equal and independent people. You can work hard, but it doesn't mean that if you work hard, it will certainly be effective, because another person, you cannot control. Therefore, no matter how much you care about a love, if another person is determined to leave you, please respect his choice. Also, remember that you are no longer a child and can only listen to the suffering. You are an adult, and you have powerful wings. You can fly out of a relationship that has become a poison.

 

 

7. Intimate fable: unique rose

The little prince has a small planet, and a delicate rose suddenly blooms on the planet. In the past, there were only some unknown flowers on the planet. The little prince never saw such a beautiful flower. He fell in love with this rose and cared for her carefully.

In those days, he thought that this was the only flower in the world, only on his planet.

However, when he came to Earth, he found that only one garden had 5000 identical flowers. At this moment, he knew that he only had a common flower.

At the beginning, this discovery made the little prince very sad. But in the end, the little prince understands that, despite the numerous roses in the world, the one on his planet is still unique because the Rose has been watered, she was covered with a flower mask, screen-protected, apart from the caterpillars on her, she also listened to her grievances and self-proclaimed, and her silence ...... in a word, he tame her and she also tame him. She is his unique rose.

"Because you have spent time on your rose, it makes your rose so important. "Said a fox who was tame by the little prince.

 

Remember: a close and independent relationship is better than one thousand. Such a relationship will save us from the irretrievable loneliness and is the most important salvation in our lives. If you have never experienced this, you cannot know the beauty of this relationship.