Sign of maturity

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"Times New Roman"; color: black'> it is a sign of maturity, so it can be put in the first article, because it is the first step towards maturity in life. It is difficult for people, especially teenagers, to take the opposite sex seriously. Therefore, it becomes a symbol of maturity. Here, "ignoring the opposite sex" does not mean gender discrimination. It means that men do not take women seriously or take men seriously. Superficial people may have superficial questions: Don't take the opposite sex seriously. Can this be done? Isn't it too heartless? In fact, "ignoring the opposite sex" mainly refers to understanding and communicating with the opposite sex with a peaceful, healthy, and calm attitude. Contempt is not a rejection of the goodwill and love of the opposite sex, but a rejection of the unhealthy psychology and manifestation of the soft bones of the opposite sex. Boys and girls are naive and simple. They are curious and mysterious about the opposite sex, and these are immature performances. One day, you will understand that men and women do not. We can have a crush on the opposite sex without being curious about the mysteries. This mysterious sensation will lead to ups and downs of people's emotions. It is a pleasure and encouragement, and it is a pain. Maybe people in love cannot stay awake, but in daily life, they can often see all kinds of male people in front of the opposite sex. Not to take the opposite sex seriously, it is not to let you lose enthusiasm for your life, but to be less disappointed, less hurt, and to be able to behave naturally and calmly. Color: Black "> 10.5pt; color: Black">

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"Times New Roman"; color: black'> denying yourself and constantly denying yourself is a necessary and important sign for maturity. Denying yourself is a profound ideological activity out of the perception of truth and self, rather than being arrogant or humble. Deny that you are the result of thinking, not the result of thinking ". As long as you constantly reflect on and face yourself, you will always deny yourself. It is not easy to know yourself. Denying yourself the same difficulty is the easiest way to be self-righteous and self-disciplined. I have heard too many such conversations and resonating with the asshole more than once: "What are the difficulties of the country President? I want to do the same thing, and I will do better ." I am not saying that I am not an asshole as the president of the country. I even think that being a senior officer must be stupid, or that being a senior executive will become stupid. However, although the President can be an asshole, not every asshole can become the president of the country. However, in reality, people almost think they are jealous. In the face of truth, no one is entitled to take responsibility. What we need to change most is what we stick to most. However, people often think that they are always right. They regard arrogance as maturity and stubbornness as their own personality. In the end, they can only "regret ". In fact, people's understanding is simple, and everything is constantly changing. How can you not change? Things are changing, the current situation is changing, and the truth is changing. This requires you to constantly change your original understanding and deny what you have insisted on. I once showed people the secrets of making fewer mistakes or even making no mistakes on major issues. I said, When you encounter a difficult decision, if you want to follow the opposite idea, the result is correct. That is to say, when you think that something can be done, you should not do it. When you think it is not possible, you must do it. If you think it is correct, you must be awake, because you think it is correct, it is wrong. If you think it is wrong, you must understand that it is correct. People started to believe it after hearing it, but they tried and tried again in practice. Try it if you don't believe it. Color: Black "> 10.5pt; color: Black">

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"Times New Roman"; color: black'> tolerance not only symbolizes maturity, but also a realm of tolerance. Childish minds are never tolerant. They are excited, angry, blindly acting, and "Resentful", but they repeatedly make mistakes that cannot be "tolerant". They pursue perfection, but they do not understand their shortcomings. In addition, the tyrants and power are not tolerant. They are narrow-minded and bloody, killing countless people. In the end, being stupid can only lead to their destruction. MSO-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; MSO-Hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman ";
Color: Black '> "It's as warm as spring to comrades, and as cool as autumn wind and fallen leaves to enemies ." This is a naked lie. Facts prove that those who are cruel and heartless to the "enemy" will be the same for comrades and friends. The philosophy of struggle leads to the loss of reason and justice for the benefit of people. They regard life as a mustard. They do not know what the truth is, and have no respect or love for life. Fight the enemy, and then kill each other to harm yourself. The Cultural Revolution is the best example of verification. The blind pursuit of abstract justice strengthens the concept of "Enemies" in people's hearts. In fact, no one is a natural enemy. I remember which writer said that a fallen leaf cannot fall without the permission of the entire tree. Similarly, a person who becomes a criminal is not just an individual, but is responsible for the whole society. Moreover, in most cases, enemies and criminals are just the human nature imposed by power, not in accordance with the standards of justice. Tolerance is not tolerance, because tolerance is still a kind of passive resistance, and this kind of unwise emotion is actually a dark-hidden relationship with yourself. The experience and understanding of life constitute the premise and foundation of tolerance. Being tolerant of others is also tolerant of yourself, which reflects the Tolerance and Understanding of Human defects. Therefore, being tolerant is not only a mature but also a kind of wisdom. In fact, "This tolerance" is also worth tolerance, because they are naive. He said, "All of us have shortcomings and errors. It is the first law of nature that allows us to forgive each other for their stupidity ". Color: Black "> 10.5pt; color: Black">

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"Times New Roman"; color: Black "> from the perspective of thinking ability, maturity is a sign of a new understanding and understanding of" Simplicity ", rather than simply looking at simplicity, or, it is no longer simple. Truth is simple, and this simple truth is in ordinary daily life. You can find and discover truth in simple ways, and you will get the most profound truth. An ignorant person always thinks that he is at a loss and does not look at anything. What ignorant people and teenagers often say is: I understand, I know, it's too simple, and so on. There is nothing simple in a person with an idea and a spirit of inquiry, even though they can put down their responsibilities. With the advent of an apple, scientists can think about the laws of the movements of celestial bodies, a simple grain of sand, through which philosophers can discover a new world. The establishment of theoretical academics is based on simple and primitive concepts. The generation and depth of ideas also comes from people's deep thoughts on simple worlds and simple problems. Engels has a point that I think is very good. He said that the root of philosophy is the concept of ignorance in the Age of ignorance ". We can make such an understanding that philosophy (profound thinking) comes from thinking about simple things and the simple world. If you really understand the simplicity, there will be no complexity in this world. Therefore, if you want to find the truth, do not underestimate the simple things you despise. You must be good at understanding and obtaining unusual truth from common life and views. Finally, let's end with the words of a poet: the most recent place, the longest journey, the simplest tone, requires the hardest practice. Passengers need to knock at the door of each other before they can knock on their own house. People need to drift around, and finally they can go to the deepest inner Hall. My eyes looked blank and finally closed my eyes and said, "You are here !" Color: Black ">