Strict tolerance, long-term optimism

Last night, a good graduate student invited his mentor and some friends to dinner in my school. I was a good friend in his college. Of course, this was not a problem for me, oh.
My friend song Jiming is a 2002-level graduate student from our school. He is 35 years old and admitted to the University of Science and Technology. He is a good senior either in that aspect, I spent nearly three years with him. I helped him a lot in computer technology, but in my life, he helped me a lot, it can be said that he has influenced my life and outlook on life and made my work more rational. Especially, he knows the importance of learning. He and I have nothing to talk about, especially my inner thoughts, I basically told him that he would like to listen and help me solve my problems in my life.
But last night I was influenced by his mentor, Professor Zhang shengyi. Professor Zhang is a knowledgeable scholar. He is deeply admired not only in academic aspects but also in the basic principles of being a person.

At the party, it was obvious that Mr. Zhang was the main character, because we were all his students, but Mr. Zhang did not have a shelf and paid great attention to the activity of the atmosphere. From time to time, he told some jokes to make everyone happy. In addition, Mr. Zhang told us a lot about human beings. Since I am a fellow villager with him, when I know this, I will first bring up a glass of wine and have a drink with me. At this moment, Brother Song will introduce me to Teacher Zhang. Teacher Zhang points his head to yes. Then, Miss Zhang will tell me, he gave me eight words: "strict tolerance, long-term optimism ". I explained it one by one.
Strict means to treat yourself strictly. Young people must be strict with themselves before they can persuade others;
Tolerance means to learn to treat others with tolerance. when others do things, they have their own principles and principles. Even if others are wrong, we must be patient and tolerant of others within the scope of remedy, in fact, this is an art of communication in life;
In the long run, he said this and lamented that he had been ruined for ten or twenty years. It turns out that Mr. Zhang was a person during the Cultural Revolution. Due to the Cultural Revolution, Mr. Zhang delayed his youth, and therefore Mr. Zhang had been ruined for a decade. Later, Mr. Zhang went to work in our school. Because Mr. Zhang was conscientious and responsible for his work, he soon became the dean of our school and was named a professor, but Mr. Zhang. I did not forget to learn because of this. Miss Zhang taught himself. After being admitted to the doctor of Nanjing University, Mr. Zhang resigned from his Dean. Mr. Zhang said that this was the second 20 years of waste. Is it actually a waste? It can be seen that Mr. Zhang is a scholar who is willing to pay for science;
Optimistic, no matter what happens in life, you must learn to be optimistic. Only one optimistic person is a happy person. At this moment, Mr. Zhang talked about his participation in the doctor's test. As a person in his fifties, it was a little big. Everyone else thought that he was so big, it would be ugly if I couldn't take the test, but Miss Zhang didn't think so. He said, I am so big. What are you afraid of? Are you afraid of being ugly? Hehe, let's talk about it. Everyone smiled. Teacher Zhang spoke humorously. Second, he had a kind of sincere admiration in his heart.
Instructor Zhang gave me these eight words and gave them to everyone. I deeply felt the size of these eight words. It is not so much a matter of eight words. A person must have his own principles. Teacher Zhang's words are the concentration of his life experience. We must understand the meaning of these eight words.
These eight words are deeply printed in my mind. I must always remind myself that I must be strict with myself and be tolerant to others, you must consider your life in the long run and be optimistic about your life.