Tear down the wall of thought

After reading this book for a long time, I want to write some notes now. Some don't know what to look for. First write down the outline, let me slowly add.

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Publication date: 2011-09-01

Category: Successful motivational > Interpersonal

Outline:

PostScript: Tear down the walls in your mind and see the light

Let our life have its own value classical people are very classical

　　Chapter One, are you a slave to security?

Buy a house, sell a dream of Fang Nu (Buffett's house)

A house to destroy a dream (slave of professional security)

Love Slaves: You can be a good person to live ("Beautiful" love Story)

Three misunderstandings about "love" (why most women do not recognize the road)

6 strokes to increase security quickly

　　Chapter II Let the life-paved

Are you "not interested" or "interested" (the joy of devotion is unconditional)

A devoted person (interesting person, life begins to interest you)

Boring people, often without guts (first love will decline, interest will be)

　　Chapter III The mental model determines our destiny

Do you believe the constellation is true (mental model: what we see in the world we want to see)

Do you wish you were more fortunate (we are the Wizards of our own lives)

How the walls of the mind limit us (if you want to be loved, then get sick)

Why the rich are not happy at all (change our world)

Several ideas about mental models (tearing down walls in your mind)

How to transcend our mental model

　　The fourth chapter succeeds in learning not to learn

Success is always a small probability event (don't be fooled by celebrity success stories---Stallone's "fake" experience)

1009 failures of the Kentucky Fried Chicken (Will he succeed?)

Can you succeed by imitating Bill Gates? You're dead (you're going to be successful?) See Li Ka-shing's entrepreneurial miracle)

Lonely to defeat the South (success, is the closer and nearer)

You're a success right now.

　　Fifth chapter How to find a career that is passionate about life

Don't just fall in love with the person you want to marry (love at first sight of career choice, two feelings and a lifetime)

How to find a suitable job---this choice of profession does not regret (wary of professional art photo)

Eight ways to apply for a job without a resume (never do a perfect career plan)

The plan can't keep up with the change, let's not plan it (what is a good career plan)

Do not constrain your life to a cup (if you weep for the loss of the sun, you will miss the stars too)

Impossible and I ' POSSIBLE: You're only close to success.

　　The sixth chapter turns out I can still live like this.

Who's making you unhappy (victim and master income statement)

Have you ever been to the victim's paradise (refusing to suffer and now taking control of your life)

The world is not fair---going abroad will make things better? (Finding the one you can change is not fair)

The story of the American version of Mr Yu---how we face injustice (small people can have great control)

How to tear down the wall of the victim

　Seventh Chapter Happiness is a kind of conversion force

Do you live in your parents ' script (parents cool-bad double-lose game)

I'm happy-the parents are not happy to win the game (on the Personnel board, you will always be the biggest shareholder)

Be yourself, or act yourself (how our sense of well-being is lost)

Who moved our happiness (we lost ourselves)

　　The eighth chapter God does not need you to succeed, it only needs you to try

Waiting for life are waiting for death (rather than wither in wait, bloom in action)

Spend your part in the past, buy a future (bad start equals one-third success)

　　The Nineth chapter grows into his own look---to the cruel world of warm planning

Because it's expensive, okay?---price and value this account ( the work cannot be counted with the money )

Feelings can not be placed on the scale of the scale (happiness is not used to speak of---duplicity principle)

Character is not measured---how do I know who I am (Questions to my life)

Don't use your life to ignite the aura of others ' eyes (a warm plan for a cruel World)

Topic: This book is from the life of some of the problems extracted, do the author to remove the inherent way of thinking, a different perspective to analyze the problem.

Comments: Some of the ideas in the book, have really learned something after reading. But there are some points of view that feel a little bit incomprehensible. For example, buy a house, although buy a house to become a house slave, we can not follow the logic of Chaoxiong. Written in the book: Someone asked the musician Gao Xiaosong, why married also rent live, do not buy a house? Gao Xiaosong replied: "I do not buy a house, the whole world is my, want to live where live where, bought a room is only one corner is mine." My sister didn't buy a house, but we both traveled around the world. " That is because he is Gao Xiaosong, he is not afford to buy a house, he is an image of the sex. Of course, each has its own views. See if you want to be steady, or with the sex! There is a "plan to catch up with the changes, or not to plan it!" "I think the plan is still there." What to do, what to do one months, what to do in a year. Three years, five years. But the plan is not fixed dead, according to their own actual situation flexible change.

The article agrees with some views: 1, Love slaves, you can go on a good one. Perhaps everyone will experience two failed love, but also experienced. Only then will understand the feeling at that time, can understand Eason Chan lyrics "Never get in the commotion, is favored by the emboldened" 2, have you ever been to the victim's paradise. We always like to put ourselves in the role of the victim in exchange for sympathy from others.

After reading this book, I learned that whether it is reading books or reading other people's comments. We all have to remember the point of view of all the authors. Are the views of others, can not be copied all. Always remember, to have their own way of thinking, their own life concept, world view, values. Other people's only for reference, take its essence.

Remember: (The essence excerpt--Easy to quote later)

Related: (other person's wonderful book comment, mind map or ppt--as supplementary information Reserve)

Tear down the wall of thought