Men are favored by women. If you are a married woman and often give you "Autumn dishes", you have to think twice. Don't think you can take advantage of anything cheap. It's just right. It's a green medicine for her.
-Complain about the unfortunate marriage.
Phenomenon: she is willing to chat with you independently. As a matter of fact, it is common for men and women to work together. If she often talks to you about the pain of the family and the misfortune of marriage, and the words are slightly appreciated, then you will not be indifferent. Without reservation, she complained to you about her husband's incompetence, mediocrity, laziness, and arrogance. In this home, she is better than "xier". She stood in front of the Great Wall and didn't need to cry, so the old wall could fall down.
Explanation: first, she really trusts you and treats you as an ideal man. She may not just want to marry you, because there is still a traditional moral concept in her bones. The key is that when a woman is in the most depressed mood, she can't tell her how much she can develop with you.
Countermeasure: everyone knows that such family conflicts do not help anyone. She wants to pour out her own bitter water in front of you who are considerate. While comforting her, She master the principle that she cannot speak ill of her husband, not to mention "if it is me, how will it hurt you? "," you're too kind ", and so on. You can ask her to think more about her husband's advantages.
-- Praise you in the form of change
Phenomenon: her character is quiet, and she is steady and steadfast. Similarly, your neat appearance and decent words and deeds make her drop; your calm and daring, make her fold. Therefore, she likes to get close to you and praise your score intentionally. She ignores even your minor faults. Every time she praises you, she will observe your response.
Explanation: She is often a happy and idle woman. Her husband does her duty and loves her wife. What is lacking in the beauty is that men are not handsome and have a good reputation. This often makes her feel a little lost, and it seems that there is always a virgin land in her heart, waiting for the development of the person you like.
Countermeasure: When she praises you, If you float, it is the greatest failure for men to lose their demeanor. Keep a clear mind while getting along with each other in a friendly manner, and communicate with her in a humble and calm manner. Such a woman is the best friend of a family. So if possible, let your wife be commensurate with her sisters, and let her see that your family is harmonious and happy. In this way, her empty heart can both find satisfaction and reach here.
-- Dress up weak and sick, and look forward to caring
Phenomenon: although she is not elegant, she is somewhat elegant. She grew up with a pair of talking big eyes, a few scattered hair on her cheek, and a slight frown, like a disease, so that the men really don't want to let her suffer. She is easygoing, kind-hearted, and talkative. However, she likes the subtotal, And the silly old man will be willing to, or even go through the fire, and will never quit. Although you are tired as a three-grandson, as long as she affectionately and shyly calls you a "Big Brother", then gently scrubbed the sweat dust on your face, the man suddenly feel comfortable, it is just to run the Equator for her again. You are also cool and excited.
Interpretation: to protect weak women, most men have original gentleman sentiments. At this time, the man is really cute, enthusiastic and silly. Of course, under her weak appearance, she has a delicate and calm that is hard to find. Therefore, she can tell that you are the most trustworthy man.
Countermeasure: Do not think that she is using you. In this vast world, the best thing is to survive. Weak help is also her instinct. You should always care about her, but never be jealous of other men. When she is proud of the spring breeze, you may wish to look far away and wish her happiness. When she is cold in front of her door, you still need to care for her without making public opinions. Of course, you should always let her know that your help is the care of Big Brother, just to share the same clear sky.
-- Get angry with you without reason
Symptom: she is really different from others. Sometimes I smile at you. I think you have a special liking for her. Sometimes I am indifferent to you because she finds that you are treated equally. She prefers to compete with others. Even if it is a music ticket, she will sit in front of her, so she will not go. If you give her a bit of warmth, she will cherish it. If you accidentally ignore her existence, she will lose her soul, or even get lost. Some people say that she is like sister lin, And she denies that she only wants to be herself.
Explanation: a poor and sad woman, a woman who loves the most but does not understand the most. As you can imagine, her childhood is unfortunate or pampered. Under her beautiful appearance, she hides the bitterness and vanity of being a woman. In addition, she is strong and persistent and loves life. But what she can't do is set her own position and attitude.
Countermeasure: Do not deliberately praise other women in front of her, or persist her shortcomings; do not give her general knowledge or follow her without principle. She praised her in public and pointed out her shortcomings separately. In short, for her fragile heart, you should take it lightly and have a festival.
-- Focus on your life
Phenomenon: although she is not your wife, she cares quietly for you, so that you can truly feel her warmth. She quietly put your stomach pills on your desk. If you are in a bad mood, she will launch the masses and hold a party to make you happy. She is only a general planning of the background. Your tie is broken. She can help you correct it when others are not noticed. You walked down the office building and she quietly gave you an umbrella. When you think she is doing this, the dark clouds suddenly tumble, so that you have to admire her care.
Explanation: She is not beautiful or outstanding. At home, she is hardworking and gentle; at home, she is diligent. Because she was an ugly duckling since she was a child, she grew up silently under the care of the adults, so she never had high hopes. However, God is really unfair. Her life is always bumpy, maybe still very poor. Although she has no regrets, who can help her feel cold?
Countermeasure: this is a simple and kind woman who cares about her as much as she can. For her, you don't have to turn around. When you reach out to help her, she determines you as a friend in her life. One thing is, never be alone with her for a long time, for your family and for her peace.
-- Always side-by-side, soft with a thorn
Phenomenon: Do you want to attract your attention or do you not even know you? Her words are always ironic, especially in the face of many beautiful women. Her tone is not high or low, not warm, and after hearing it, it is always like a fish thorn in her throat. You gave each person an apple. She took the apple and played with it in her hand and said with a smile: "It's not easy for the leaders to think of me !" Don't think she's like a mother. Every time you scan the snow, she's the first to snatch the broom from your hand. "If you don't scan it, Don't scan it !" Although it is hard to hear, my heart is quite hot.
Explanation: She is an acute child. It is very sensitive to the world, and it is still a bit warm-hearted in your eyes. You are not necessarily the best colleague in her mind, but a man she appreciates very much. You know, there are only a few men she can see, and you may be the dream of her life.
Countermeasure: You just laugh at what's hard for her. When she sneers at you in public, never give up on her in cold words. Let's adapt to her words and turn a serious topic into a joke. In this way, she will sincerely admire your generosity. Of course, at the right time, you can say a few words to her. To let her know, you care about her too. To this extent, it is a little dangerous. So you should not go over, but look back at her; not to date her alone; not to mention personal feelings in words.
-- Transient and transient relationships, and ethereal emotions
Phenomenon: after a long period of integration, the relationship between colleagues and friends has long been finalized and there is no peace of mind. However, she is so abnormal that you are confused and not a joke. She threw a box of dumplings to your desk at noon today, and then she left her sleeves away. Tomorrow morning, I don't know what a big deal is, so I will have a quarrel with you. Before you say anything about her, she is so angry that she has a tear, so you are embarrassed.
Explanation: this is a typical temperament woman. Although she is willing to be with you, she looks forward and looks forward. She wants you to understand her mind, but worries that she is wishful thinking. Tracing, she had a bitter emotional past. She was a princess on campus, a darling of her parents. When she grew up, she fell down from the peak of love. When the old Mark is faintly painful, your care makes her want to love and dare not give up.
Countermeasure: Find the best time to stay alone with her. Instead of talking about feelings, she listened patiently to the past. No matter what mistakes or hardships she has, you should look at her with sincere eyes and understand her with tolerant words. Finally, let her look at the family photos hidden in your arms and talk about your love story. This is to make friends with her. In fact, it implies that your family is happy.
-- It seems innocent and cute
Symptom: This reminds me of Sun roujia, a novel character in besieged city. How did she look at Fang Hongjian with a simple look and listen to the ridicule of her surname without any knowledge? If a big customer was able to get stuck in the teeth of a whale. However, men tend to be willing to do this. I would like to remind the men that, when you joke about the mountains in front of a woman, it is hard to say that when you face the fear of a woman who sees the cockroaches and is standing in front of her, are you smart or stupid.
Explanation: women are not mentally retarded. When most women are at home alone, they do not put the damn cockroaches in their eyes. I was shocked by the high IQ of women in happy dictionary and united confrontation. However, almost all women feel favored in their hearts. When they know that the so-called mental retardation and timidity that they inadvertently show make men brave enough to free themselves from heaven and earth, how happy is the "little girl? This is exactly the most labor-saving and effective "waiting for love" means in front of the man she secretly loves.
Countermeasure: I really don't want to say anything, because I know too well that the men at this time are self-defeating and willing to beat them! Let's say a few words, learn to converge in front of a woman, and have no worries about emotions. Women are not the moon, and men are not Zeus.
-- Face-to-face fashion, revealing without color
Phenomenon: She doesn't look like a female in a movie. When she sees a handsome guy, she will lose her book, move her hips, Or kneel down to reveal the spring color in her undercollar. But she is definitely a master selling herself. Her dress is sexy and she moves in a light manner. She is best at throwing elegant hair, making you feel at ease. When you look up at her back with a dumb, she looks back and smiles. I don't know where your soul is at this time.
Explanation: she prefers to show off in front of a man, but this does not mean that she "has that meaning" to you ". Not a philosopher said, "All women like to hear the phrase" I love you )." The reason why she shows a model step in front of you is only to show you, and there are some things she appreciates. Your dynamic man may be the next target she wants to conquer.
Countermeasure: In my opinion, such a woman is the best to deal. She met and smiled politely. When she needs your praise, she sincerely says, "You are beautiful ". As the saying goes: men love hypocrisy, women love vanity. Just give her a new song and let her enjoy the feeling of superiority. After a long time, she gradually realized that you only appreciate her beauty out of courtesy and friendliness, instead of asking for nothing.
-- The body is sensitive to contact, but does not dislike
Phenomenon: When she took your pen, she naturally grabbed your hand; when you taught her how to modify the file, she closely followed you; talking to you about her dream last night with great enthusiasm, her face was close to you. When your button fell, she could not help but say that she would help you crack it. You and her have a very jealous tacit understanding of others, often just a look, a gesture, and the other party will be able to get started.
Explanation: I don't know how to describe such a relationship between men and women. Some people say that this is what foreigners often call "office Husband and Wife". It is a modern white-collar class who is busy working, and indifferent interpersonal relationships, naturally formed mutual trust between men and women. If others say they are like husband and wife, they will shake their heads without hesitation. "How can they be a husband and wife with him or her !"
Countermeasure: after all, there are differences between men and women. As long as this society is still divided into two bath groups and one wife, maintaining proper distance between men and women is an insurmountable truth. Even if a woman is generous and enthusiastic about you and has no evil thoughts, even if you are complacent because of such a red face, as a responsible man, you should have your own sense of responsibility, and you must never lose up to nothing, the error occurred.