Ten Kinds of psychology that affect interpersonal relationships

A good psychological quality is a necessary condition for people to conduct extensive social activities. On the contrary, poor psychological conditions will form some barriers and barriers, which may hinder people from making friends and adapting to society to a certain extent. Therefore, we should pay attention to our self-cultivation in our work and life, and strive to overcome the following kinds of bad psychology in interpersonal communication.

I. Selfish Psychology

Take yourself as the center, speak only for requests, and do not give. The competition for fame or profit has even damaged people. This kind of psychology is very harmful to communication. It will always hurt others everywhere, and such people will never find real friends.

2. Pride

I am the only one in the world. I am the best in the world. I am arrogant, despise others, even belittle others, laugh at others, and cannot hear others' opinions. This kind of psychology is very harmful to communication, and it is difficult for these people to get along with others.

Iii. Suspicion

People with suspicion often look at each other and look at external things with an untrusted view. Every time they see what others are talking about, they think they are talking about their own bad things. People who make mistakes tend to capture the shadows and generate new ideas. In other words, the results can only be self-seeking troubles and harming others.

Iv. Reverse Psychology

Some people always love people to carry up, so as to express their own unconventional. For anything, whether it's right or not, you say that he is too bad, you say that he is too bad, you say that chili is very spicy, and he says not spicy. Reverse psychology is easy to blur the strict boundaries between right and wrong, which often produces resentment and disgust.

5. Exclusive Psychology

The existing knowledge, experiences, and ways of thinking of humans must be constantly updated. Otherwise, they will lose vitality and even have a secondary effect. Exclusive psychology just ignores this point. It shows that it is unable to meet the gaps and refuse to expand its thinking, prompting people to go round in a narrow and closed space.

Vi. Show show Psychology

Some people think of making friends as an on-demand scene. They tend to be confused and arrogant. This kind of communication between people is only a superficial article, so they often do not get real friendship and friends.

VII. Psychology of mutual benefit

Some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "make use of each other". Therefore, they only make friends with people who are useful to themselves and can bring benefits to themselves, and are often "crossing the river and breaking bridges ". This kind of low-cost psychology in interpersonal communication can damage your personality. Over time, you will lose your friends.

8. indifference

Some people treat people and things unrelated to themselves with indifference, and even mistakenly think that the words are sharp, arrogant, and arrogant, and they are their own "personality", so that others do not dare to approach themselves, therefore, you cannot make many good friends.

9. Jealousy

Some people are jealous of others. Seeing others' success is not happy for them, but jealous. On the contrary, when others are frustrated, they are often gloated. Such a person will not carry a heavy psychological burden on himself, but will also be disgusted by the people around him. This will make others reluctant to interact with them.

10. Inferiority

Some people are prone to a sense of inferiority, or even look down on themselves. They only have a short confidant, but are not a confidant. If they are willing to live, they lack the self-confidence they deserve. They are afraid to show themselves and cannot exert their own advantages and expertise. People with a sense of inferiority do not have the guts to do things in social interactions. They are used to come together without their own opinions. If this mentality does not change, over time, it may gradually wear away the courage, courage and unique personality of people, will hinder the realization of their own plans and ideals. Cowardly psychology is the rope that binds thoughts and behaviors. It should be broken and abandoned.

These psychology not only do not affect personal physical and mental health, but also affect interpersonal communication to varying degrees. Make people unwilling to approach and difficult to approach. We hope that each of us will always check ourselves to prevent such psychology and use enthusiastic and healthy psychological qualities to contact everyone around us and enjoy the beautiful world.