The better the man, the less he can marry his wife.

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I think the good guys around me are basically single, and most of them haven't talked about love. In addition, many of the people I am familiar with have good character and excellent job, but are generally recognized as good men's wives. After communication with friends and my own analysis, I found out the reasons why Chinese good men cannot marry women.

First of all, let me talk about some qualities of good men in my eyes: good treatment, good faith, and affection; enterprising, ambitious, and ambitious; responsible, commitment, and caring.

Now I find that they cannot marry a good woman because of these qualities. I have also learned some of the profound truths that people often say.

"Men are not bad, women do not love". I had no idea about this sentence before. Now I find that the reality is indeed like this. Most women want to find a good man, but what they often find is to please their men. Good men often do not favor women. They are too real, too responsible, and too heavy to promise that they will not show love for the women they like. Bad men are different. They "have both color and color." In order to get the women in their minds, they can pretend to be good men, so as to please women, sweet words, and flowers before the moon, bar cinema ......

On the Internet, I saw a netizen saying, "After these love events, I can only say this. I don't know what the color is, A "color" will give you everything you want." Let's take a look at Andy Lau and *** to understand what he said. The disguise of bad men is limited to a certain amount of time. After they get a woman, they will slowly show their real faces. If one day they have a new goal or get bored with women, they will be dumped. At this moment, women can only shed tears and say, "There is no good thing for men in the world !"

"Beauty is often with the beast." Most young people always care about their appearance when they fall in love, because the pursuit of beauty is human nature. Now I find that beauty and the beast are "safest" together. Beauty is like a lamb. If her boyfriend is also like a kind lamb or honest scalpers, even if they get married, the beauty may be stared at by many "color Wolves, once these "color Wolves" remember their beautiful women, they will use various methods to disguise themselves and may eventually disguise themselves as a "Wolf in sheepskin ", beauty often becomes their "prey ". The prey of a wolf is often the safest, because few other animals dare to rob the wolf.

In fact, summing up the above analysis, we can draw a conclusion: Chinese good men cannot marry good women, the most important reason is that they are not active in the face of love.

There are several main reasons for being inactive:

First, they always think too much. They may feel that they do not have the capital to fall in love and cannot satisfy girls physically;

Second, they are too responsible and too heavy to promise, so they will not casually say "I love you" to a girl, because they feel that love is a responsibility, a commitment, sometimes their love for girls may make girls invisible.

Third, good men always have what women like. This will give them a sense of superiority, while good women will also have more men to pursue, and they will also have a sense of superiority, people with two sense of superiority often refuse to "give in" to each other because of this sense of superiority. Male will not take the initiative, and female will not take the initiative.

Fourth, a good man may have actively pursued the women in his mind before, but the woman does not show love for the man, which makes the good man feel lost, they may be very disappointed with love, so they will not take the initiative as they used to when a good woman appears again in the future.

Of course there are also good men and good women walking together, but this is very rare, at least I found it.

When beauty and ugliness meet each other, beauty is the first to be deceived, because it is called beauty, but ugliness will eventually expose its ugly face, because it is ugly; when Good and Evil meet, the first thing that hurts is good, because it is called good, but evil will eventually show its evil nature, because it is called evil. So beauty and ugliness, good and evil are often together, but they will not last long. Good women are often with bad men, and their relationships will not last long.

There are too many imperfections in the world, too many are unsatisfactory, and we tend to pursue the perfect attitude, but later we are often frustrated by the reality.

If a good man wants to marry a good woman, take the initiative because you are a man after all. If a good woman wants to marry a good man, keep her eyes open, because you are often deceived by the appearance you see.

The reason why I want to add a Chinese character to a man is that a good man in other countries cannot marry a good man like a good man in China. I don't know, I don't know.

Men are not bad, women do not love. This sentence is very accurate in reality. Although many women may deny this and even sneer at it. But in fact, bad men are more effective than good men.

Bad men are characterized by a thick face, bold, good at lying, not subject to moral constraints, and many tricks. Once they have the opportunity to "day", they will not be responsible. These features hit the weakness of women.

Assuming that good men and bad men with similar hardware conditions meet the same woman, the damage of bad men is n times better.

First, the probability of a good man's shot is much lower,Because a good man needs to consider the issue of responsibility before starting to pursue it, he will not pursue it if he doesn't like it completely, but cannot pursue it if he is not mature, the future prospects are not promising (for example, in different cities. The bad man is not responsible anyway. As long as the other person is a little different or at your fingertips, he will try again first.

Second, a good man is honest. If he has no money, he can tell the truth. He can tell the truth about her shortcomings, which often disappoint her.Bad men can show their superior strength by making up two stories at will. The clever words of women can easily make them angry and think that they have found a friend. In this impetuous society, most of the results of years of hard work by a good man are not as exciting as the story of a bad man coming up in 3 minutes.

Third, a good man always wants to respect each other and will not seek opportunities to entertain others.Bad men can stimulate women's hormones at any time by means of laughter, alcohol, and dancing, and take the other party as their own if they have the chance. Once a woman's pleasure is mobilized, she will soon fall in love with this man. The effect of a bad man's sexual intercourse is often more than that of a good man's silent efforts. Some silly women think that a man is falling in love with her. A silly woman thinks that once a man is on her, she must fall in love with this man. In women's nature, there is an implicit inverse gene.

Fourth, the good man really pays and regards the feelings of both sides very seriously, and his mentality is easy to be unbalanced, arguing with his girlfriend for some trivial matters.The bad man thought: I was just playing a game and looking for some excitement. Why did she get angry? A more peaceful attitude, but a more mature personality.

Fifth, bad men usually have much more appointment experience than good men.Refer to Article 1. When a bad man has a chance, he can get a shot. Even if he fails, he has accumulated experience and gradually understands the psychology of a woman. Most women are irrational and have all sorts of inexplicable and completely illogical prejudices (for example, a man with stains on his shoes cannot trust him ). A bad man has done a good job in dating with a large amount of practical experience, but the good man is ignorant and cannot understand why when he gets married. He thinks that he is not powerful enough.

Sixth, when there is a dispute between the two sides, the good man's self-esteem is strong in principle and won't easily accommodate the other party. Generally, no one gives in for some small matters and finally can only break up.A bad man has a thick face and is easier to recognize his mistakes than to drink porridge, so he can easily make the other Party feel at ease. Of course, that's when he hasn't been bored yet, otherwise, even if the woman gives in, he can also find an excuse to break up. Sometimes, the woman will give in again and again to completely become a bad man's plaything.

7. Good men tend to be boring and principled.Bad men are eager to stimulate, changing, and often give women a fresh feeling. Without knowing it, a woman is confused and controlled by a bad man.

Eighth, if a woman realizes that the two sides are inappropriate, she proposes to take the initiative to break up.Good men will only adopt fair and Bright means, with limited actual results. Bad men can resort to unscrupulous means, abuse and coercion. A woman's inertia is strong, her emotions are changeable, and she is easy to bow her head to her strength. She often cannot get rid of the third abuse of bad men.

Most women have a strong vanity and self-esteem. They like sweet words and their expectations for life are unrealistic (love novels and the consequences of too many movies ). The consequence is that honest men cannot meet their expectations. Only scammers can create an ideal world.

This is like a regular doctor telling you that a disease costs a lot of money, takes a lot of medicine, and finally cannot be cured (the real situation is often not ideal ); jianghu langzhong lied to you about two or three medicines, which can be done in just a few days. In addition, there are also various functions such as beauty and strong body. A person with a lack of health care knowledge is likely to be on the sidelines. The difference is that the patients who are cheated by the rivers and lakes are often found to be cheated by the other party, and the women who are cheated by the color wolf are often hard to say (I think it is not glorious, I cannot say it clearly, or you can get married ).

In addition, for most women, dropping out of bed causes a qualitative change in the relationship between the two. A man who occupies her body has too many advantages over other men (his or her intimacy is greatly enhanced, and the other man has more invisible power to manipulate her body and behavior, and so on ).

Why can't a good man do what a bad man can do? It is very simple, because good men care about morality and responsibility, and have too many scrubs. When a good man understands it, the good guy will be "on" for someone else. If not, do not.

In addition, good men will never be as peaceful as scammers.For a good man, you are an important part of his life. He cares about your past, present, and future. Scammers only need a little excitement. Of course, it is easier to cater to you to achieve your goals. Scammers are more tolerant of your shortcomings, because they only need to tolerate a few days or a month or two, while good men have to plan for a lifetime of prospects, so they must do some work!

To sum up, a good man like me will be proud of being a good man, annoyed by the behavior of a good man, and pity for a good woman who is about to become a prey of a bad man, one side glared at me for being a bad man.

Heaven ......... There is no secret, which allows us to quickly develop a pair of enthusiasm for both yin and yang. We can continue to be a good man and meet a good woman, no blushing shot at all, mouth, no longer need to wait until thirty or forty, but also a person walking on the happy Lane, and walking back ......