The changes in women's lives will make you less important in men's eyes.

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Many women think that marriage is once and for all, in fact, most women in marriage is not too high status, even the law can not give women too much protection, marriage is just a piece of paper, can not restrain the man around you.

If the marriage, women pay their own all, youth, health, fertility, and then no scruples about themselves, then married women almost completely occupy a passive position, unless the emotional basis is quite strong.

But the feelings are the most unstable, the most variable, but also the most disorganized, so all rely on the man's character, for women, more at a disadvantage.

Once the first beauty, then also annual income of hundreds of thousands of, but after the marriage of her, in this period of consumption of her relationship, consumption of health and life, in fact, she stepped on a woman married no status of the 2 big pits: for the family to give up work, and the outside world lost contact, finally can only in the relationship between the passive end of life.

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Give up work for the family

Some people say that if there is a person in the family work particularly successful, it is basically to sacrifice another person's career as the foundation, and when the woman for the family to give up work, the man's career flourishing, face the pressure of life, or his superiority, men began to abandon women, think she did not ambition, all rely on their own, will spend money.

But the fact is that she persisting, gnawing their own strongholds, to the whole family to spend money, but reluctant to use, in fact, all contradictions, nothing but reflect a woman has no economic status of the sad.

Because of the money on their own, want to buy on the heroic No. So the home dirty is wrong, the food is not good is wrong, the child is not obedient is also wrong, everything is wrong.

Also Shu in "My first half", said that the most foolish woman is for the so-called family to give up work, want to independent thinking, first of all must be financially independent, at least in the finalizing can also have the ability to feed themselves, can let their own dignity to continue life!

Lost contact with the outside world

In addition to the home with the children almost lost contact with the outside world, the focus of the whole person is only the star network www.xingnv.net children and husbands, at the same time lost contact with the outside world, lost friends, and friends can not gather dinner, life will not appear any new friends.

At most also on the internet and friends to chat some homely, but there is no fresh and interesting things in life, but also do not have the husband more company, between husband and wife in addition to very little communication, no common words, and then the charm will be tired by their own men.

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Some people say that if a female friend suddenly rarely contact you, then 80% she has married and become a mother!

Although marriage really will change women, but the pressure of women are written on the face, no matter what the situation, before entering the marriage, women should know not to let the mood and family to block their own and the outside world to establish contact.

After marriage, you should learn to pay attention to yourself, not too much expectations of things you cannot control, such as men, children, and family, only can change only their own, so after marriage you first or yourself, is the other social role.

Otherwise they are not good, the people around will not be better.

The changes in women's lives will make you less important in men's eyes.