The gap between fools and wise men
Chapter 1 learn to respect others
1. Wise people are good at listening, and fools are impatient.
2. Wise Men understand others' thoughts. Fools express their needs.
3. Wise Men remember others' names. fools want their names to be remembered.
4. The wise man smiled, and the foolish man was cool
Chapter 2 no meaningless argument
5. The wise man gradually asks others to say "yes". The foolish man will cause more controversy.
6. Wise Men are smart and humorous, and fools are dull and boring.
7. The wise man changes his mind when he knows it, and the fools stick to his own opinions.
8. The wise man first agrees, and the foolish man first denies
Chapter 3 speaking
9. The wise man euphemistically refuses, while the fools are indifferent
10. The wise man speaks nonsense.
11. The wise man does not break down his words.
12. The wise man gently recommends that the foolish man directly deny
Chapter 4 learn to adapt to emergencies
13. Wise Men talk about things of interest to the other party. Fools say things of interest to them.
14. Wise men look at the occasion, and the foolish man is "one rib"
15. Wise men are good at observing what they say, and fools will not "vote for what they do"
16. Wise Men speak and look at objects, and fools speak blindly.
Chapter 5 be a favorite person
17. The wise man is humble and humble, and the foolish man is proud.
18. The wise man is more tolerant and the foolish man must be more tolerant.
19. The wise man is honest and trustworthy, and the foolish man is hypocritical.
20. Wise men take care of others' self-esteem, and fools satisfy their vanity
Chapter 6 caring for others and happy yourself
21. Wise people care about others in detail, and fools plan for themselves everywhere
22. Wise Men praise in good faith, and fools are willing to criticize
23. Wise Men give encouragement to others, and fools pour cold water on others
24. Wise men are good at solving the problem for others, and fools can avoid it.
Chapter 7 efficient work
25. Wise people have clear goals and fools are confused
26. Wise men are good at making plans, and fools are eager to grasp
27. The wise man can work with others effectively, and the fools like to fight alone.
28. Wise Men tap into their potential, and fools Only work hard
Chapter 8 success of action
29. The wise put into action, and the wise put in fantasies
30. The wise man is vigorous and vigorous, and the fools drag and drop laziness
31. Wise Men are unconventional, and fools blindly follow the crowd
32. The wise man prepares for a rainy day, And the fools make up for it
Chapter 9 do not drill the corners of life
33. Wise men look at gains and losses in a light, and fools get tired of profit.
34. Wise men know how to give up, fools remember sorrow
35. Wise Men improve their weaknesses. fools complain about their weaknesses.
36. Wise men know how to work, fools are dead horns
Chapter 10 confidence is the sunshine of success
37. Wise Men do not cry for the overturned milk. Fools often take their mistakes to punish themselves.
38. The wise man overcomes his inferiority and the foolish man is taken prisoner of inferiority.
39. The wise man is passionate about his life, and the fools lack passion.
40. The wise man prepares for the worst result, and the fools always imagine the worst.
Chapter 2. Do not go through work
41. Wise Men create opportunities, fools wait for good luck
42. Wise men rely on smart work, and fools rely on physical work
43. Wise Men love their work, and fools become numb at work
44. Wise men know how to rest, and fools are workaholic
Chapter 4 enjoy life and happiness
45. The wise man gives his soul a holiday, and the fools make his heart tight
46. Wise men control money, fools are bound by money
47. The wise man has a good life every day, and the fools waste time
48. Wise Men are always unhappy when they are happy