The nature of interpersonal relationships

The so-called emotional accounts, storage is to enhance interpersonal relationships indispensable "trust", that is, others with you when a "sense of security." It is politeness, honesty, kindness and credit that can enhance the emotional account deposit.

Emotional accounts are stored: the indispensable trust in interpersonal relationships is the sense of security when people get along with others.

The establishment and maintenance of interpersonal relationships is a long-term investment behavior.

One or seven major ways of investing

(1) Understand others: If you value a person, then you must pay equal attention to what he attaches importance to.

(2) Attention to the bar:

(3) Abide by the Promise

(4) Express expectations

(5) Integrity and integrity

(6) The courage to apologize

(7) Unconditional love

Two, one-on-one interpersonal relationship

It is better to devote oneself to one person than to save the world.

Third, the opposite of the problem is the opportunity

Iv. the habit of mutual dependence

Just as the body often needs food to stay healthy, relationships also often require nutrition-------Covey