There should be tears flow bosom friend, only feel no Yan to the laity

This time I put down the game, put down the sister (there is no), slightly lonely, rich but dare not to spend, the days are really,,, a little asking for.

Forgive me the recent magic, suddenly feel that their money if not used to buy learning resources, it is a waste. --accidentally pretending to be a force.

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Recently read a book, Mr. Wang Dingjun's "reason", although the feeling is not my age group to see, but also some regrets.

One is the preface written by The Gentleman, in which the gentleman answered the question: Why do you lower your posture and write such a book when you are an essay?

Its introduction road: I was barefoot walking the kind of people, there is no red carpet on the road, only thorns. Middle-aged after finishing their life experience, produced a doubt, when walking in the road, the front obviously has thorns, why walk in front of the people do not tell me? There's a trap ahead, why doesn't anyone make a mark? There is a fountain in front, why does the heat of water not invite me to walk? The average person in this area is very stingy, so I derived an idea: I walk barefoot, side where there are thorns, where there is a fountain to write down, put on the roadside to let the people come back to see.

See here, I am very grateful to Mr. Wang Dingjun. Similarly, as a programming beginner, I am very grateful to those who provide learning communication QQ Group, as well as the blog park such a learning Exchange platform, as a small white, thank you for all the knowledge of bloggers, thank you for inviting me to a total line.

The second is a poem in the book: There should be tears flow bosom friend, only feel no Yan to the laity.

This verse from the garden poetry, said a reader to pass the scholar, failed, back to write the next verse. Laity snobbish, face C.P. Group of people Flattery, for Mingluosunshan of people coldly contempt, only their own confidant, know their difficulties, see the laity feel sad.

This is a consolation of the people who failed the verse, advised everyone to forgive the children. But I can't help but give birth to other ideas.

I am a rural origin, around the neighbors, not very familiar relatives love to inquire about which children who did what, when the time, always love to ask your children where to go to school, work, there is no marriage or the like, their tone and expression, I try to figure out their psychology, We all know that they certainly can't be to care about your children, but will they flatter you? I am afraid I will be farther away from you, and I would like to hear that your children are mingluosunshan or unhappy, to satisfy their little vanity. Of course, it's not just in the parents ' generation, but between our peers, isn't it?

I used to be in my friend's postgraduate examination, I would like to know what kind of school they will choose, want to know their learning dynamics, and then think about it, what's the matter to me? Sometimes ask others to apply for what school, others are not very willing to say, for what, this verse Tao out of reason, after failing to face is we these laity. I ask, out of concern? Perhaps more is to have a gossip of the conversation.

For a long time not to see friends, after graduation talk about topic inseparable from the work of two words, like to inquire about other people's work, is really out of concern? A confidant may be, but a confidant does not need to inquire about these. After hearing other people's situation, unavoidably compare with oneself, live better than oneself, then do not utter a word, flatter two. Is it a kind of injury to others to have a worse and more caring appearance than yourself?

For many of the protagonist of the story, sometimes we prefer to see is not the process of his efforts, but the outcome. A certain pay how much we do not care, only care about the final results, if there is no C.P. group, that is not hard, no talent, and ever to understand "in the world" article may not be able to "pilot officer." As a friend, I think I should be more to see is the efforts of others!!

After that, I no longer take the initiative to ask what others are doing? Frustrated or proud, because put himself, the same sentence-just feel no Yan to the laity!!

Friends together a glass of wine, talk about life does not need to compare!!

As a beginner, thank you for sharing in the blog park, so that I can always learn my favorite!!!