Tips for getting along with your boss [favorites]

The boss is also a person. He has all our preferences, characteristics, and weaknesses. He cannot be an exception because he is at a high position.

「 I am a good guy, that is, I am not good with my boss .」 In the past, when I heard my father chatting with his friends at home, I was very impressed by the many times I mentioned this sentence.

In those years, it was proud to say that you and your boss were not doing well. Of course, there may be nothing to be proud. Especially in the 40-50 years of the Republic of China, apart from poverty and competition for survival, the trauma of self-esteem was particularly obvious. However, once upon a while, it was no longer easy to show off with the boss.

Today, when I hear this sentence from others, my sympathy and helplessness are far more than my praise. When I met a good friend and said that he was not well handled with his supervisor, it was even more regrettable.

The boss also has self-esteem.

How can we get along with the boss in a harmonious manner?

First, you must understand that the boss is also a person. We have all our preferences, characteristics, and weaknesses. We cannot leave ourselves at a high position. The boss also has self-esteem. He and we do not like to be criticized, especially in front of everyone. But we also have our own ideas and sometimes want to express them. However, the boss can accept it only when appropriate expressions are made, and appreciate you more, and even appreciate your contribution to the public.

One day, the boss announced at the meeting that it was going to launch a new product. You thought it was a wrong decision, but it didn't embarrass the boss in front of so many colleagues, so I didn't propose it. After the meeting, you will go to the boss's office. First of all, you should praise the boss's judgment. It is best to give an example to illustrate that a successful product in the past is attributed to the correct opinion of the boss, and seize the advantage of the market. This means that you are purely discussing things, it has nothing to do with the boss's ability or personality.

Eliminate his loneliness

Next, you can ask him some questions about the new product and describe your opinions, but pay attention to your tone and expression.
Finally, assure him that you are willing to support the decision.

In this case, the boss is usually happy to accept "good words 」. After all, in addition to paying, he also needs to win cooperation from everyone. Your communication with him eliminates his loneliness, and you will feel that you are a reliable partner.

As you can see, there is a way to get along with the boss, which makes us feel less difficult.

If you are a young man without a family background, the best way to do it is: first, find a position; second, stick to the tight breath; third, observe more; fourth, stay loyal; fifth, make the Boss Believe that you need him. Sixth, be polite. -- Russell Sage)