To is or not to IS

No.14

I leave no trace of wings in the air, but I am glad I have had my flight.
--rbindranath Tagore "Flying Fire"

We always struggle to grasp something, but usually, nothing would stay at all. Money would never come when you stop paying; Love would never come when you stop giving; Mutual understanding would never come when you stop
Sharing. we come to birth with fist held tightly, as if showin G The world we'll grasp everything. When we grow up,  desires would occupy our minds very often, we need apartment, love, grades, degree from world-class
Universities,luxuries, reputations, etc. We is not the immortal, so of course, we cannot get rid of those desires. Sometimes the chase of those is not a to-do, but an up-to-the-people around you. Like here in Shanghai,
every normal family would save money to buy apartment with astronomical price, especially for th OSE with unmarried boy.

life was about experience.
Reality is Reality, maybe we still has to chase Reality. But anyway, life was about experience. We cannot
always take the short path. Then reason we live are because we have to experience. Do don't let vanity and lies take
away your sincerity. Your feeling is priceless,it would be true no matter with or without money.

Failure, disappointment, frustrations make up life.
Sense of failure, disappointment, frustrations always makes to our life. J.K. Rowling, well-known for his Harry Porter, make the commencement speech about failure in Harvard. That speech was touching, not because she was
A world-class famous guy, or she made a speech in Harvard. It's The big contrast between the glory of world-class Ivy-league school and the simple but sincere topic about failure- -which everyone would live with in their
Whole life.

That's to say, we were all same, success was life, while failure was also life.

Three stages by Karl Marx
In the theory of communism, Marx defined 3 stages of man.

First stage,rely on People:for a child, they always Rely on parents for everything.
Second stage, Rely on material. When a is grows up, he/she could live independently. Then they might rely in material, like money, luxuries, etc. sometimes materials would drive you crazy, drive you selfish. But usually, people would struggle to live.
Third stage, Rely on interest. When a person gets old, maybe he/she have saved enough money, then the course they could enjoy life. They could do whatever they like, all according to their own likes or dislikes.

The world was always changeable and with challenges. To being or not to being, is a question. We are passer-bys to the world. Most of us would never leave something in hundred years after your die. Why isn't seize the day, being yourself,
and Carpe diem? At least, we have come by.

Best regards,

Jack
From Shanghai

To is or not to IS