To the children before birth

(1)

Children, we are not yet born children. You know, how many surprises have you and will bring us?

Since your father and mother joined together, we hope that you will come to this world as soon as possible. Among these expectations, there are your father's father and mother, that is, your grandfather and grandmother, and your mother's father and mother, that is, your grandfather and grandmother, there are your aunts, uncles, and aunts. In short, many people who care about you will confirm their relatives or relatives with them after birth. This is not determined by your father and mother, but is related to your father and mother. This relationship is called kinship, just like your relationship with us.

My mother and I walked together because of a fate, and decided to go on together for the rest of my life, and you are called the crystallization of love. Undoubtedly, you are here to serve as a bond and lubricant, which will add a lot of fun to your and your mother's life, even though I and your mother are prepared to suffer, but when you think of looking at your innocent smile, nothing is bitter.

Child, do you know? How much pain does it bring to your mother when you officially settle in the mother's womb? Before she got pregnant, she weighed 96 kg, but said it was a little fat (here, I am not abandoning your mother's body, on the contrary, i'm proud of her body), but when she got pregnant in March, your mother's weight dropped to 80. During these three months, your mother has very little food and needs to vomit every day. Sometimes, it is hard to vomit, and you may even want to quit. During this period, your grandparents came from their hometown far away to take care of your mother and cook well, but she had no appetite at all, even though she had spit it out. No way, we have to let your mother go to the hospital to lift the energy agent and some glucose and saline to maintain the most basic physiological needs. Because the hospital is far away from home, every time we take your mother to see a doctor, your mother's hands are full of needles, until one day there is no place for nurses to get a needle. The formation of these needles lingqing for a long time to slowly fade away. Look at her, your grandfather and grandmother, and your aunt and me, all worried. The doctor said, it does not matter. It will take a while.

Your mom worries that this situation will continue. Thank God, after three months, her body slowly recovered. During a routine inspection on your mother, I had already paid the examination fee. The doctor asked me to pay another B-ultrasound fee of 61 yuan. I checked the list, b-mode ultrasound costs 61 yuan clearly already paid, how to pay? But the doctor asked me to pay for it. It always makes sense. When I thought so, I asked the aunts who paid for the hospital, and they didn't understand why. When your mother came out, she said, do you know why I paid 61 more? I don't know. She said, two! I think my expression at that time must be very strange, happy, unexpected or ......? However, your mom is worried about raising you two with my income.

You are the best gift from heaven for me and your mother. In any case, we have decided to do our best to take care of and take care of you throughout our life, from your fall into the ground, to your toddler, to your school, to your kindergarten, to your primary school, to your secondary school, to your university, train you until you become useful to society. I don't want you to be rich and expensive in your life. I just want you to be safe and smooth.

(2)

Since you know that you are two, your grandparents and grandparents have been happy.

Although your grandparents have no culture, they have always prepared for your birth and even put incense in the temple, praying that the Bodhisattva bless your mother and child for peace. Maybe they want to express their expectations and love for you thousands of miles away.

In order to take care of your mother and ensure your nutrition, your grandfather and grandmother gave up their business at home and took down your uncle to Shanghai. Up till now, we do not remember that they have made many rounds between Shanghai and Xuzhou.

Your mother's grandmother, even though she was 86 years old, volunteered to come to Shanghai to take care of you, the old man made a small cotton jacket for each of you. How lucky are you!

You have prepared many gifts for your arrival, and you will enjoy the warmth of family ties as soon as you arrive in the world.

Before that, your father and my colleagues, as well as your mother's classmates, expressed their love and welcome to you in various ways, including children's beds and radiation-proof servers, there are maternity clothes ,......

You see, you have not come to the world, so you are very enthusiastic about your expectations and favor!

Although there are wars, hypocrisy, greed, hunger, fraud, and cold in this world, there are also peace, sincerity, caring, affection, and warmth, have sincerity. Therefore, you should treat people around you with a grateful heart, whether they are poor or rich, in good faith, although sometimes it will inevitably be hurt.

But remember to cherish everything you have. You don't have to worry about what you don't get. Have ambition, but sometimes you must give up your ambition. And these are the most difficult. When you grow up, you will understand.

There is an old saying in China that "people cannot look good, and sea water cannot fight ". Never underestimate others. You cannot be arrogant or arrogant.

(3)

You have grown up in your mother's stomach. Should you have your hair grown up now? It has been 8 months.

Last night, I watched you put your arm up and stretch your legs in your mother's belly. Here, I was walking over there, so that your mother's belly was protruding for a while, and it was amazing to us. Listening to your ears can hear your strong heartbeats.

But do you know how worried my mother and I are about you, because one of the indicators in your mother's blood is not normal during the examination, and the doctor said there is a certain risk. We pray that these dangers will not come to you and give us a healthy person. Ask the doctor, he said, it doesn't matter.

My mother and I are counting on the days and hope that you will be born soon. Our bottle, clothes, towels, and quilts have been prepared, and even our thermometer has been purchased. Because according to doctors and most people, you will come to this world about half a month in advance, that is, middle May. Are you ready?

Although I haven't figured out your official name yet, we have made a nickname for you. Do you like the nicknames dabao and xiaobao?

I have discussed it with your mother. When you are about 3 years old, we plan to buy a car to help you to go to kindergarten and go to school, at the same time, it is also convenient for our family to go back to Hubei and visit grandparents and uncles. Although our current revenue is unlikely to afford it, we will do our best.

(4)

Your grandparents are busy for you to take care of your mother waiting for production.

After your birth, your grandparents will come to Shanghai to take care of you and your mother.

Let your mom tell you when you come out.

What I want to tell you is that our family is very small but warm. Both your father and mother are very filial.

Your father is a child in the country. He has been studying and has come to this city. Your mom is better, but it has suffered a lot. Your mom and dad are much better than your grandparents and grandparents. Both families have similar experiences. In particular, your grandfather and grandfather both lost their family pillars when they were very young. They both picked up the burden of family when they were very young and suffered a lot of hardships and hardships, it's all for us to stop suffering and suffering. I think you are much happier than me and your mother.

If suffering is a school, we are all students in this school. Although you are lucky to have grown up in this age, the situation is still grim and the competition is fierce. You must learn to adapt.

We hope that you will be able to read more books in the future, without learning more than five cars, but with less knowledge than others. It is a Chinese tradition to learn about books and filial piety.