To the "submitter" and "submitter"

You may encounter difficulties or unknown things in your life or study. In many cases, you may feel unable to start with your own strength. At this time, you can choose to consult others. After all, we have always advocated "not ashamed to ask ". However, sometimes it is risky to ask someone for advice.

Maybe, you will be beaten by a dog, so you can pick a patient person to consult, or you are strong enough to endure the "Ridicule" (whether in words or expressions ). Of course, this is only one of the most common cases. In either case, there are some things to be aware of for the "submitter" and "submitter.

Attitude is the top priority for the "subscriber. You ask questions from others, so your attitude must be modest and sincere. Second, you must think less about yourself. If you don't have any problems, you can ask others, think for yourself, and solve the problems you can solve yourself (if conditions permit (such as time, this is also very beneficial to personal development.

For the "respondent", you may need to pay attention to the following points:

1. People come to ask you for advice because they are worthy of you. Therefore, do not be arrogant or arrogant;

2. What others need is your guidance, not your point! If you are willing, you can help others solve their doubts. For yourself, there is no loss;

3. Be patient. Many people lack this. Few people can patiently explain something simple to themselves. Looking back at the past, I am also doing very poorly. It's not just for others, but for their loved ones. It's a pity. The only thing you can do now is to be patient with others in the future.

Write it to all "not ashamed to ask" and "to be asked ". Mutual encouragement.