Tsinghua University students to push the study of things (want to see everyone can get lessons)

I am a senior student of Tsinghua University. In this year's graduate enrollment, my first volunteer for a (other department), the second volunteer for the department.
On the second day after the end of a interview, this is the department of the interview, just out of the examination room of my mood is very messy, this time to see a phone on a strange missed calls, so I called this phone, the other side said: "You are eligible for a admission, you want to come." "I thought for a moment, because just finished the interview, so the mood is very messy, say can give me a little time." He said: "No, if you do not want, we have a lot of people waiting for this place." I begged the teacher to give me a little more time, but the teacher immediately said, "We'll give you up if you have to think about it." I told him I needed time to think about it, and he said, "just give it up." ”
I wanted to discuss it with my family and then make a decision, because I didn't discuss it with my family beforehand, so I thought I would ask my parents before making the decision. But he did not give me the slightest time to think about it, they said forget it, they even if I give up.
In this way, without thinking about time, I was given up by a. Then I was desperate to wait for the news in the department, in the evening, I finally wait to see their final ranking order in the 29th place, the psychological finally steadfast.
But in the evening, I received a call from the counselor, said if I was accepted there and I do not want to go, the department will not consider me. I was afraid, asked a hospital over there, is not admitted, they said: "Because you do not want to come, so did not accept you." Then I immediately called the counselor and told the counselor that I had not been admitted to a hospital.
Counselor and the Department of the teacher after consultation, told me: "Because a did not admit you, has become a fact, so you are still eligible to participate in the Department of the push Research."
So I put down the hanging heart. But the next day, that is, this morning, I received a call from the department teacher, said that because I violated the Department of the Institute of the Rules, that is: if the first volunteer you are automatically give up, the second will not be considered, so you will lose the second voluntary admission qualifications.

But then I remember what they said: "If you are the first to volunteer, you will not be accepted as a second choice." But the first volunteer did not accept me ah. So I think I still have the right to the second volunteer. But now I've been disqualified for the second time. To the department teacher to call, he also said there is no room for redemption, he said, "We will send students to a hospital, you look like this then our credibility will have a problem." Oh, my God, how can I blame my head? I haven't done anything wrong.
The final result, though, was that I was eligible for admission in two volunteers, but none of them were accepted. What I want to know is: since a decided to admit me, why not give me a direct notice. Tell me I've been accepted, and let me choose to go or not. I didn't turn them down, they didn't admit me. But why the second volunteer I did not qualify for admission.
I love this school very much, I do not want to leave this place which I love deeply, why a courtyard and the department both gave up me at the same time. I was confused and dazed, but I didn't know who to find to help me answer the question.
I love the alma mater, I have not been ready to leave the alma mater, I have lost all the opportunity to stay in the alma mater.


1. That's the way the world is. Not what you have in mind.
2. Everything needs to be done. Since you have to think about why you should put a department first?
3. Don't hesitate to do it. At the critical moment Yes, indecisive, is tantamount to finding death.
4. It's your own thing. When you say give up, that a department's quota must fly away, don't think again.
5. Only cattle have a choice. On the contrary, when you are not very cattle, only others choose you.
6. There is no justice in the world, do you believe it? All rights and interests are to be fought by themselves.



Don't put your hopes on "fair",
She can't
Neither respect the rules of the game, but also want to get the rules of "fair" treatment.

A department gives you time to consider, so that the students who wait behind do not know how to do, it is fair. Just selfish.
The actual situation is that a admitted you, but you put the people, said that they did not get admitted is a logic
Do not want to go to fill in the first volunteer, they are not responsible for themselves, but also complained that the world did not think of themselves as a center